Just passed 9 months of "permanent" chastity - ask me anything

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    #26 Giles_English, May 23, 2019
    I experience at least some kink most nights, and proper discipline is often weekly. And then there's the intimate stuff. So I think that weighs more heavily in the scales.
     
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    #27 Guest 4328, May 23, 2019
    Filtee, Denial. It's not just a river in Egypt!

    Denial is the new O. Love denial!


    Rider9, get a grip....er, not! Lol. Don't cry, It gets better. Lol.

    If you go long enough the day may come that you don't want to. Just filling up the cage is the new full.

    Just for a little humor. :+1:
     
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    #28 Dr MBogo, May 23, 2019

    Bingo-this is exactly the feeling. I've been in an Evotion Bijou anchored with a frenum piercing for about 9 months also (although I've been let out twice for orgasms). I'm almost at the point now where I don't want to think about getting out anymore.
     
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    #29 Dr MBogo, May 23, 2019
    Yes! I know it sounds weird, but I like being locked, and knowing I can't get an erection or orgasm.
     
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    #30 PouchPantyLover, May 24, 2019
    That's really interesting that you had that experience. I've always been a peaks and valleys guy. One day it's the greatest thing ever and the next I'm wondering what the hell I'm doing. The one thing I find consistently is the first two weeks are the hardest. The longest I ever went was around 4 months. I found in the fourth month I was starting to have anxiety about whether or not that was it. That was a hard month for me. At any rate great going and enjoy the ride.
     
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    #31 Loudogger, May 24, 2019
    You say wife isn’t interested in penetration. Does that mean from you or totally?
    Does she cuckold you?

    Does she use toys dildos etc?

    Does she allow you to orally service her?
     
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    #32 Giles_English, May 24, 2019
    Totally.

    We're a monogamous couple, so cuckolding is out.

    She uses vibrators.

    Sometimes I get to orally service her.
     
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    #33 Rectrix, May 24, 2019
    Great insight, focused on the power exchange and submission inherent in chastity, and its affect on a relationship. This is the whole point of chastity for me.
     
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    #34 SubSnuggler, May 24, 2019
    How do you handle...emissions? Have you had wet dreams? Orgasms while locked? Does she milk you or you milk yourself? In my case, I just leak or drip but I've never gone anywhere near the length of time you have.
     
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    #35 Giles_English, May 24, 2019
    I leak a bit during sensual and erotic service. No milking or orgasms, though. And I am locked even in my dreams, so no wet ones either!
     
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    #36 Loudogger, May 25, 2019
    Interesting so mainly she takes care of herself with her vibrator. Does she allow you to watch and long for your own orgasm or does she mostly take care of herself alone ?
     
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    #37 Lakeman, May 25, 2019
    So you’ve had the piercing redone, and already locked back up? What gauge did you get?
     
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    #38 Giles_English, May 25, 2019
    All of the above. I think she's enjoying exploring her sexual autonomy.
     
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    #39 Dr MBogo, May 25, 2019
    I did. I'm not sure of the gauge, buts it deeper this time and more stable. None of the bar is visible, just round ends. And the Bijou fits better now, with less movement. And it's not coming off without the key, short of using a power tool and risking substantial blood loss. No, I'm clearly locked in chastity for as long as my beautiful wife/KH is living.
     
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    #40 SubSnuggler, May 29, 2019
    Giles - Today my wife read your post about 9 months in chastity. She really liked the idea of 'permanent' chastity (apparently) because she sent me a text about it. Then she says, 'be careful what you wish for'. I'm like ?? because I wasn't sure what she meant. Then she references the chastity and says, 'I don’t intend to go permanent, but less ejaculation seems to have some serious benefits' [referring our particular relationship].

    I asked her last night how many days it's been because she's hasn't offered me a release in several weeks. She said she didn't remember but said I've been a good boy and told me to keep doing so and maybe she'll think about it...
     
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    #41 Giles_English, May 29, 2019
    :)

    I think "permanent" is the archetype for different stream from "keyholder". She's obviously more interested in having you locked, than using unlocking as leverage. Oh dear.
     
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    #42 SubSnuggler, May 29, 2019
    We practice total power exchange, as well as domestic discipline, so leverage is not really an issue. :)

    It's for this reason we also don't use safe words, per se. She is very good about verifying I'm OK and makes sure I'm completely honest with her. In her words she "keeps me safe, protected... and owned."
     
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    #43 sissy_christine, May 29, 2019

    What I found in long term Chastity when weeks turn into Months or even A Year.....We stop looking at others because we changed!! But We run into people in chat and else were oh my your freaks!!!!!. If your life is to serve great enjoy your life. I am going on 14 years since I retired from the Army. I am the 24/7 cuckold/housemaid/slave in permanent Chastity. I see people all the time say(oh I am leaking} I can't do it be strong my friend and understand you have one who understands and maybe be a friend :)
     
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    #44 Giles_English, May 30, 2019
    Yes, not a lot of safewords around here either.
     
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    #45 rhodry04, May 30, 2019
    That’s an impressive run indeed. That is an awesome cage but I wonder if you have any rubbing of the glans with the end being so exposed?
     
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    #46 Giles_English, May 30, 2019
    No, it's fine. Though it's uncovered, it doesn't project much more than the bars.
     
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    #47 Giles_English, Jun 17, 2019
    And here I am past 10 months.
     
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    #48 Chaste J., Jun 17, 2019
    No sign of freedom?
     
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    #49 Giles_English, Jun 18, 2019
    There are plane flights coming up before my year is out, I suspect I'll be unlocked for those. However, there's no sense of any ticking clock otherwise. 300 days feels like 200 says.
     
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    #50 Slave_face, Jun 18, 2019
    Why would flights matter?

    Your device is totally non-metallic so won’t be detected.

    Even if a body scan finds it, you’re not doing anything illegal. If they have to know, just show them.

    Surely after more than 10 months someone other than your wife must know and has seen it.
     
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