Just passed 9 months of "permanent" chastity - ask me anything

Do you bump your chastity device against furniture and other objects by accident at work or elsewhere?

 

can we see the model that you were locked in for 9 months

 

I know it’s up to your wife, but what do you want to happen now? Go longer, or do you want to break the run?

 

Giles, all I can say is, you da man!

9 months is awesome. From your last comment, are you saying that YOU do not want to be unlocked?

Great point you made that there is no natural breaking point where you think, ok, I am done.

The longer I go, the more I don't want to be unlocked. Forever is compelling and incredibly desirable. It just feels so natural now to be locked that it is normal to me. To be out would be a strange and stressful feeling. I don't want to deal with those feelings anymore, ever.

Just thought I would throw kudos your way. I am on the same path with you.

I wish you continued Good Lock.

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Impressive journey, Giles. How have you gotten on with hygiene? Any issues?

 

So you probably recommend permanent chastity to us all! ;-)

 

Good to hear happy long-term/eternal journey. i am sometimes curious to know how many decades my eternity will last... meanwhile enjoying every minute of it, even if it is sometimes difficult

 

Agreed. Talk about frustration. Your KH would begging you to take the key.

But, I would respectfully say that if you are self locked, and you enjoy it, permanent chastity is great and you should go for it!

True, it's not everybody's cup of tea, but if you have gotten to the addicted/obsessed stage like I have, there is no other choice. It's my point of no return. I reached it, and there is no turning back.

 

What has happened to your sexual desires? You say you don't (can't) want out, but do you still want sex? Has your frustration level subsided at a certain point?

 

To clarify, I did understand that keyholding is part of the whole arrangement with many.

Like you, it is us. Her circumstances have made things impossible for us. So I chose a chastity device over climbing the walls. I get the measure of satisfaction I need by being locked up.

Neutering, love that word. That would be the best scenario. I spoke to my doctor about that but they don't offer that electively, nor prostate removal.

I don't have any intimate contact, but receive my pleasure strictly from being locked. So I can't really gauge my desire level because I am contented in my cage. I never feel frustration because being locked is just a part of me now. Before, I had nothing. So finding chastity brought me up out of those desperate feelings my mind and body experienced and helped me to create a new way to receive satisfaction.

It is my new O. It feels so good I actually feel guilt because it was just supposed to suppress and block my feelings not enhance them. Not enhanced in a way that I need to complete anything, just a constant pleasurable feeling that never goes away.

You said your desire comes and goes. If you don't mind me asking, have you been able to have a sense of pleasure and satisfaction just from being locked? Not just during service? I would be interested to know if what I am experiencing is typical or unique.

 

Most of the time I'm locked I feel really good about it. It feels right. She locked me, she controls me and that just feels right. So this is is my pleasure. I don't miss my orgasms. I enjoy hers as they were mine.

Nine months is a long time. I'm only half way there. But just as much I thought I couldn't handle it I believe now it is possible. Just the cause must be right.

 

Grats it is quite an achievement most people dont or wont accept that not only does it get easier over time it becomes the desired state.

I have never been denied for as long as I have currently the way I feel about TTTWD has changed and has changed me. We both enjoy that I am horny nearly all the time and that in all the time since My Lady became my KH we have never had the negative experience of the Drop.

You could sum it up as 'Denial is the gift that keeps on giving'

Good luck.

 

Which month was the hardest and which the easiest?

 

You don't have times when you would just like to get out?
With me, there are times that I would just cry from frustration. I'd give anything just to be allowed a ful erection. I'm learning to deal with that...