Yesterday I discovered that an old flame's Fetlife page finishes with "Curious about: chastity devices (giving)." I message her. "Dammit", I say, "I wish I'd known that when we lived in the same city!" We now live 5000 miles apart. "What I really want", she replies, "is to lead someone around a fetish club on a leash and wearing a cock cage. When are you next visiting?" I'm not sure exactly when I'm next visiting, but an A273 short device with barbs is on its way from AliExpress, and I'm damn well going to have practiced with it before I'm there. With any luck she'll lock it on to me a few days before we go clubbing
A273-small is a great cage for me, great ergo back ring. But it's not just about some future fetish club date, it'll change your outlook on life. Good luck and welcome.
I have a lot of cages. Some comfortable, some dont work(too hvy), and some are there to remind one that being caged isnt always roses. Roses have barbs too! I love to wear a cage for a day or two that squishes things n forbids erections with a pain reminder.
Maybe? I'm not really in a place right now where I can get into long-term chastity - like I say, the woman who has volunteered to be my short-term keyholder lives thousands of miles away, and I am blessed with a moderately busy and varied love life that I wouldn't want to turn down. Many many years ago, I measured up for a Neosteel belt and sent in the measurements, and Neosteel wrote back to say "we don't think these measurements can be right, can you check again?" I wish now that I had not procrastinated on that, but sorted out getting high-quality measurements promptly, because at that time I was with a Mistress with whom long-term chastity would have been a wonderful arrangement.
Are you my doppelganger? I connected up with an old gf who lived 4000 miles away, and she ended up leading me around a fetish club on a leash wearing a cock cage. No barbs, though.
Nice! Not sure I'm going to go for the barbs in practice - it was like an extra couple of dollars for the one with the barbs and they can be removed, so I thought I'd make sure I had the option
Sadly you mostly can't do that in London. Now if only I could persuade her to come visit me here in CA... much like the lovely top who came to visit me a couple of months ago, who led me around a pre-Folsom Street Fair event naked, with a paracord leash around my cock and balls. That was an amazing experience - especially the point at which we got into a conversation with a friend of a friend who was new to all this, and we're just chatting away about everything, but I'm aware at all times that my leash is in my Top's hands...