Just wondering how many KEYHOLDERS allow there subs to still do (manly) stuff Like go to hunting camp Go on fishing trips My KEYHOLDER likes to control every aspect of my sexual and home life. But she still allows me to vo.do all that stuff just as long as I stay locked. Just am curious if that is the way most are.
it is perfectly possible to do both. It is not a given that because you wear a chastity cage you automatically have to act feminine or be a CD/Sissy... That is down to the dynamic of the relationship. Even so there are plenty of ladies who hunt, go mountain biking, rockclimb, fish etc
Like mine has no interest in doing that stuff but she still wants me to go enjoy that part of life just wondering where others stand
Same here. I do what she allows me to do but she reminds me that I'll be in my cage and wearing panties at all times. Period. End of discussion. LOL
I still get to do all of my hunting, fishing and automotive stuff. Although it has certainly lessened over the last 5 years. That might just be more of a result of life getting busier and more responsibilities. Regardless I think my wife still likes that I do these manly things. She’d still rather see me as manly outside the bedroom, but being her little slut bitch in the bedroom.
Also, last time I went hunting it was just for one day but she didn’t offer for me to take my belt off. There was a lot of hiking around... but it was totally comfortable and I actually enjoyed that she made me do it. It was kind of funny when I got back and I asked if she was surprised I didn’t ask her to remove my belt. She just looked at me matter of factly and replied “did I even offer for you to take it off” and then went back to what she was doing ❤️
She encourages me to tend to my manly stuff. I have a small machine shop, a sports car, motorcycle, books, etc. I still have the house to clean, laundry, yard work, cars to detail, appliances to repair, and kitchen work. She is not interested in controlling every minute of my day. If she needed to, then I have failed to serve her properly. Besides, now days, we need something to talk about at the end of the day.
My wife (who is my KH) doesn’t allow me manly stuff...For her the chastity is important that I don‘t feel as a strong man anymore. She would never allow me to show s strong and manly side. No mather if alone or outside. She expects me to be feminine even regarding hobbys and clothes...
There is no right or wrong way to do this, everyone's situation is different... but no relationship will work unless both parties are happy. Communication is key and if something isn't working for you, and your keyholder is your wife... you need to say something and compromise. The marriage and family are more important than this.
My wife just this morning reminded me she's not gonna be my fantasy porn domme. I pouted and basically "topped from the bottom" yesterday and she told me I sounded like a whiney girl and that turns her off as well as pissing her off. I was freaked she was gonna pull the plug on all of this when she said (once again) she's in charge and she's gonna use this to her advantage this time. I needed that reminder. Too often we pressure our mates to do things when the whole objective of chastity is to take that pressure off her of her in the first place. Or at least that's my take in our dynamic I guess. Sorry for getting off-topic so I would have to say my wife isn't into emasculating my manhood as far as manly things and activities go.
I still go fishing, I just do shorter sessions now as there are no toilets about and going in the bushes isn’t an option now!