Just came to realize that being locked up 24/7 and having 4-6 orgasms a year is not long a sex game we are playing. It was at one time but now we just go about our life as if I was not caged anymore. We do have sex once a week where she has her orgasm within a few minutes of starting. It is all over so quickly and now she wants me locked up during sex so she does not have to edge me. She said that she cannot make sex all about her if she has to edge me, which is harder than making me orgasm. She is right about that. I have mixed feelings about this realization. The game aspects have all but disappeared and what is left is Teasing and Denial with 24/7 lockup. My wife has become very serious about being a KH and no longer feels guilty for denying me. She would love if I never had an orgasm again, but knows that without the anticipation of an orgasm, all pleasure I get from our Chastity would disappear. I do not know how to describe it. Before there was a sense of Chastity being a game we played but now it is just our normal sex life. No game, no BDSM, just our everyday life as if it were perfectly normal like all of our friends. How do you feel about chastity? Does it feel like your normal? Does you KH fully embrace her role? That is it. It is no longer a role. I do not see her playing a role in chastity. It is something she just takes as normal.