Ok, so my wife and i have played a bit. Teasing and denial games that would last four about four days or so. We are very new to this and i've done more reading than she has, but she also knows a thing or two about t/d. I bought her the book, "Male Chastity, A keyholder's guide" and she agreed that we could try chastity and i should get a device. I bought a cb3000 and before i did, i showed her pictures so she would know what it looked like. I wore it for a day, 24 hours. I kept the key though for adjustment purposes. I lucked out, only had to adjust a couple times because the fit seemd perfect the first time. Even slept in it and i slept all night, no discomfort. I was thinking that it would be great and was looking forward to a new life of chastity. She even liked it before when we would play our games with me on the honor system before the device. She liked how it made me more attentive and affectionate. Well, she said the cb3000 gives her the creeps. She doesn't like "that thing" and doesn't want me to wear it. I've asked her to let me worry about that, all she has to do is hold the key. Doesn't even have to see it, just give me the key for cleaning times, or give me the key if she wants to play with me or if she wants me to have a sexual release. That's all, just hold the key, i'll do the rest and she never has to even see it but gets all the benefits from the device. She still says it creeps her out and she doesn't like the idea of me wearing it. So, how to overcome this, i don't want to push her, but i don't see why it's a problem. I was thinking of wearing it and not telling her, then after a week or so, either tell her or let her see it and explain that i had it on the entire time and she never even noticed, so what's the big deal? Any ideas on how to handle this?