Is this feminization?

Discussion in 'Chastity without feminisation and crossdressing' started by vinnyD, Jun 15, 2024.

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    My wife requires that I wear panties under my man shorts. Other than that she has me wear female lingerie for sex which is maybe at best twice a month. She lost interest in males for sex when she got a live in girlfriend many decades ago. Now it is just we two and she likes to imagine I am a female during sex. She sometimes, like next week for my birthday, has me wear a hood so I cannot see her and she cannot see me, just a body in a night gown and panties.

    She does not want me feminine. Said one of the major reasons she married me was that I am apha like her dad was. I go along with the dressup during sex since she does not want me to act feminine, just look it for her fantasies.

    I do not view this as feminization because it is done for her visual pleasure and to embarrass me, not make me feel feminine. I do not get any pleasure from it. I just do it and it does nothing for me. What say you?
     
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    Well....perhaps borderline but doesnt sound like you have to worry about it going further
     
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    I say your wife has some interesting fetishes and your relationship seems harmonious.
     
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    Thanks, I agree.
     
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    It is very harmonious. We are married 51+ years. We were in a poly triad with another woman for 30 of those years. All sex was fetish sex. Not into vanilla sex and never have been. We talk franky about our sexual needs and my wife is frank when she says she prefers sex with women but has always taken care of my needs either by sharing her girlfriends with me or engaging in my fetishes.
     
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    In my opinion, it's feminization.
     
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    That's very lucky. Not many people can be completely honest and open about their fetishes and sexual needs even after years of relationship.
     
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    I would say you're a very lucky guy. Embrace her needs and do as she wants, always.
     
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    Have you ever worn a strap on while dressed to have sex with her. I wonder what her reaction to that would be.
     
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    My wife has for years allocated me daily my panties, today bright yellow. She paints my toe nails girlie bright colours and i only ever wear female jeans, female shorts, bikini bottoms on holiday and sleep in silky female PJs every night.

    Suspenders are a regular treat for me especially if we are going out, under my tight jeans.

    I have been caged virtually permanently for years and have both nipples pierced and a PA.

    Yet she still says she married an alpha dominant man and wants me to remain so, which does confuse me as i stand listening to this wearing the above and a collar.

    Not that long since she declared, i am not sure about you wearing such tight jeans to go out in, they make you look gay! OK.

    Then days later she stood in a shop holding a pair of ladies slim fit jeans and said, these are your size, i pointed out they would fit as she knew however would be tight, she replied thats OK. and bought them.

    No wonder im confused.

    I do consider myself semi feminised at her hand as all this was driven by her.
     
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    Not sure if wearing women's panties is feminization or not. I voluntarily wear them every day and my wife approves. I started wearing them when she first pegged me as it seemed appropriate. Maybe being pegged and then dressed in women's clothing is the start of feminization. If you consider me to be feminized then I am ok with it. I think a component of it is being required to wear female clothing.
     
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    I’d say it’s more emasculation and cross dressing,
     
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