Is there people who use chastity only for tease play?

Yes there are. There are couples that might use chastity for a weekend only just for play and aren't into making it a long time lockup.

I'm kind of in that boat even though my lockups can be more like two weeks to a month vs a weekend. Might go a few months until I'm locked again. That has more to do with how our life outside the bedroom is though.

 

We do! Mainly just a few hours or a day or two. Just to make sure I don't masturbate until she comes home or as a foreplay to take care of her and hope she unlocks me.

 

I have heard many couples into this very thing. Especially when she likes him being turned on and the fore play but doesn’t really want to always be in charge of sex. It’s a tool in the drawer, when done using it you put it back.

Many however have a hard time letting go of that power exchange. Knowing that he is unable to touch himself, have erections, or others touch him can be a huge feeling that’s hard to just give back.

 

Yes, it's just for fun for me too for D/s play. Maybe an evening, maybe overnight, or maybe for a weekend, but after that it may be a few weeks before the cage comes out of the drawer again. Reading some posts from some of the long-termers who like to go months or years locked in chastity, it's easy to draw the conclusion that, if chastity only lasts a few hours or days, you're not doing it properly.

Some may start like me, then it develops into something more long term in a "be-careful-what-you-wish-for" way. For others it is a serious 24/7/365 thing.

Do what suits you and your partner, there are no rules other than your own.

 

I'm pretty much the same as @Mojoman where we play at night (when the kids are asleep) and if she's out doing her thing. Other than that I'm free but not allowed to cum at all until she says so

 

There are no rules its all about doing what makes you both happy and having fun together.

 

I would think most couples use it that way. A weekend or so, to ramp up his desires and let her taste control but not be responsible for it all the time. I can see how it would be a burden if the guy is into it but she's not. But a short period works well for both.

 

We probably started off along these lines; but the training is becoming more regular with longer bouts.

 

I hate to sound like a light weight but, yeah, that's pretty much what we do with chastity -- use it as a foreplay toy with some tease and denial. That why my wife is so interested in bluetooth locks -- so she can unlock me easily and even remotely. Our hope is to set things up so I can leave town alone on a road trip locked up with a bluetooth lock. She can lock and unlock me from hundreds of miles away until she flies down to meet me.

 

I think that approach makes perfect sense. Even if you desire full time, long term control, how can you just jump into it? This way you see how it works for both and adjust accordingly. Even as someone who is self-locking, I still am trying to work a schedule for myself, hoping for a longer-term path.

 

I love that. You don’t sound like a light weight at all. You are both involved in playing with chastity in a fun, creative way. It doesn’t get any better than that!

 

We use it to compensate for very different sex drives. The cage makes sure I keep my hands off so when she is finally ready I am ready for her. She does tease a little and enjoys when I am extremely horned. Usually about a week and then off sometimes when travel or just a break. No chastity lifestyle or FLR. It has really added a new spice to the relationship.

 

Personally teasing is my hope with chastity. My view is that short-term power exchange lets me mentally rest and gives her a titilating charge of power and choice different from her usual submission. I am single now, but as a dominant some play as a sub to release tension seems the ticket for me. No need for regular or long term chastity as a consequence or behavior modifier.