So I was thinking, and all of my relationships I have struggled to find the courage to explain it to my significant other. And honestly the one time I did open up about it it turned into a disaster and she freaked out. I was thinking it would be great if there was a video somewhere on the net that gently explained the lure and benefits of it from a woman's perspective to a vanilla woman. This i feel would immensely help all us submissives out there who struggle to explain it. I know there are several books out there for this purpose. But a (gentle none scary) video to introduce the concepts from a woman's perspective would great. So I was wondering if anyone knew of such a video if not it would be awesome if someone would make such a video!
Just search for male chastity on YouTube. There are several good videos that explain what chastity play is and why men want it. I never approach a new fetish with a whip in my hand. I ease the women into it gradually taking baby steps along the way. A playful spanking gets harder when I one day tell her she hits like a girl. Then her hand hurts from spanking me hard and I suggest a ping pong paddle. That leads to all sorts of impact devices and eventually being bound to keep me from moving around. I think you get the picture. With chastity we started with simple teasing and denial on the honor system. That eventually turned into what we have now.