Is it wrong of me to look at the breasts of women?

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    During my recent trip, I often took the initiative to look at women's breasts, as their shape was very beautiful, and I also wish to have such natural breasts. Since I wasn't wearing a chastity belt during the trip, I immediately locked it on upon returning home, hoping to remind myself of my proper role.

    I ask the Mistresses, was it wrong of me to look at the breasts of women? If so, how should I correct this behavior? I will follow the instructions of Mistresses.
     
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    Yes, it's very wrong to look at women's breasts..... how dare you !!

    Is castration too harsh a punishment do you think?
     
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    It's human nature to look at what you like or are attracted to. Leering is another thing.
     
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    i am a ma'at not a mistress but much closer to one than the previous responses.

    most women want to be desired. many dress to be noticed. some expose much of their breasts in a way it would be hard not to look. it is only leering when your not one of those she wants looking.
    i look at men and women alike and take note of the ones i find attractive. i also notice being looked at and take it as a compliment even by those i find not appealing. when with my spouses we point out to each other which ones are worth a second or third look. so imo it is healthy to look so long as your significant others have no objections. on the other hand what you might do after looking may be another story which could explain locking up as soon as you got home!
     
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    After reading your reply, I feel that it's human nature; people are drawn to beautiful things.
     
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    This is something that can only be done once and can't be taken lightly, after all, I only have one penis.
     
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    If I caught you staring at mine, I would confront you. And that might become a very uncomfortable situation for you. Don't be rude to women.
     
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    Thank you for sharing your perspective. I am concerned about coming across as impolite, so I put on the chastity belt as soon as I got home. I've also wondered whether I should correct this behavior.
     
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    To me, it is all how you do it. Looking, taking a quick glance, like you do when you see any person is fine. Staring, leering, making an obvious event of it, even if she doesn't notice you but others might, that seems inappropriate. Whether you are in cage or not. i find when i look at a woman, it is more their whole appearance, and how they achieve the look they want. It is hard not to notice breast size or shape, as it has been a focus of society for so long, but you must do in a respectful way. It also depends on the situation. When i'm out for a walk and a woman is jogging toward me, i look down. i don't want to them to feel creeped out by me staring at them in that situation.
     
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    I believe it depends as every woman is different. I think some enjoy being seen and others do not. I think it is rude to stare at someone you don't know for an unreasonably long time. Simply looking them briefly shouldn't upset anyone. I will say I have never had a woman complain about me looking at them. I don't how much of that is me being polite or not. I have been on topless beaches and have obviously looked at women's breasts and they have looked back at me. I think they were happy to be seen otherwise they would have remained covered. On nude beaches I have watched women and I soon discovered that they were watching me just as much, and I didn't mind at all. So it works both ways!
     
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    Breasts are beautiful, regardless of the shape and size. But after a few days in chastity they look even better!
     
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    Is it wrong to look at a flower in bloom? Is it wrong to look at a sunset? Is it wrong to look at the stars in the sky? As long as you are not making comments, drooling, or otherwise acting like a dick - who doesn't look? Women look at other women's breasts. They are remarkable.
     
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    My wife has told me to concentrate on her from now on. I'm locked 24/7, currently on a six month denial period and she has made it clear that there's no need for my eyes to linger on another woman. I haven't seen nudity or porn since March, and she has no intention of changing that anytime soon. There's nothing wrong with looking if that's part of your dynamic, as long as it isn't rude, but for myself, I'm not allowed.
     
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    My wife would vote wrong. And my bottom would be well caned
     
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    i have read the above reply and realized that my gaze might have made some people feel uncomfortable or disrespected. I am currently keeping track of the instances where i have glanced at female breast, but i have yet to decide whether i should impose any punishment on myself.
     
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    Yes, but you probably have two testicles, and that’s what gets removed in castration.
     
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    I agrée about respect but we’re very horny and kinky men.

    should we deny our true feelings and reprogram ourselves to not be attracted to breasts or should we just steal glances but not linger?
     
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    There is a difference between casually noticing a great pair of breasts, and making it obvious that you're staring at them.
     
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    I think what the OP is hoping for is that women here will tell him he’s disgusting and “make” him punish himself….
    Not really that kind of forum though…
     
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    I was thinking the same thing.
     
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    I intentionally said "staring". If you find your eyes looking, catch yourself, and redirect your attention, I wouldn't make a big deal of it.
     
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    I have been looking at breasts since i was 14, i have always perfered smaller breasts but each to thier own.

    My major fetish was and definately still is the female figure in nice fitting snug denim jeans.

    My then girlfriend now wife used to get very annoyed at this, even after she became my cuckoldress.

    As she commenced semi feminizing me, i was fitted with a permanent cage, then allocated skin tight female jeans for daily wear. That removed her jealousy completely, now i am free to look as i want.

    The only thing she says if she sees someone she knows i will look at is: dont make it obvious.

    Nobody should be made to feel uncomfortable by being stared at.

    A look is a passing glance, staring is totally different and in my view rude.
     
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    Yes.. lol. I look away as well.. it’s a good signal of respect. my gran slapped my grandad’s arm once when we were out walking, and said, I saw you.. as he glanced at a woman passing! lol
     
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    that’s generally what I do.
     
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    As said it's pretty clear guy is seeking punishment somehow. So yes castrate yourself for doing something natural that all people do. Look at things you find pleasing. That said huge difference in a glance and gawking.
     
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