Is 90 days enough?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Doug Scibor, Oct 2, 2017.

Random Thread
  1. Doug Scibor
    Offline

    Doug Scibor Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2016
    Messages:
    112
    Likes Received:
    123
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Technical
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Atlanta, GA USA
    Local Time:
    7:42 AM
    I'm 60 days into this lockup and a month away from release. I'm sooooooo looking forward to getting out and having an orgasm but then I had the idea, what if I added 10 days to make it 100?

    100 days. I could do that and it is nice round three digit number. Yeah, I'll make that suggestion.

    Now I'm reading all the Locktober posts and thinking, "Wouldn't it be better to stay caged through NOvember?"

    What's wrong with me?

    My wife may not be willing to continue onward we'll have to see.
     
  2. Joroincharge
    Offline

    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

    Joined:
    Mar 10, 2009
    Messages:
    4,156
    Likes Received:
    2,248
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Female
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    England
    Local Time:
    12:42 PM
    Her decision IMO.
     
    PouchPantyLover likes this.
  3. PouchPantyLover
    Offline

    PouchPantyLover Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2017
    Messages:
    670
    Likes Received:
    951
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Hawaii
    Local Time:
    1:42 AM
    Agree, her decision. My wife and I talk about it because she is curious for what my opinion is and because she wants feedback on how long I think I can go. I try to be consistent and tell her I want to cum sometime between right this second and never. I love every orgasm I get to have when I have it. I am disappointed with every orgasm I have after I have it. I am a better submissive without orgasms and I am happier when I am submissive. Whatever she decides for me will be right, because it is her decision. That is when I am rational and coherent. When she is toying with me I beg for that orgasm like a starving dog looking at a piece of meat. :confused:
     
    Jamie's-Locked likes this.
  4. Doug Scibor
    Offline

    Doug Scibor Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2016
    Messages:
    112
    Likes Received:
    123
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Technical
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Atlanta, GA USA
    Local Time:
    7:42 AM
    I completely agree that it is her decision but I have to suggest these things to my 'very vanilla' wife or they don't happen.
     
  5. CJ's hubby
    Offline

    CJ's hubby Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2016
    Messages:
    117
    Likes Received:
    129
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Arizona
    Local Time:
    4:42 AM
    My wife does not set a time period so I never know when I will be let out. Sometimes two weeks, sometimes (longest) seven weeks. She says it keeps me on my good behavior and the longer it last the more subservient I get toward her. Since I told her about those celebrating Locktober (may have been a mistake on my part), I know to will be at lest six weeks this time. It is entirely my Wife's decision as to how long I will be locked up, and since she holds the key...
     
  6. Jamie's-Locked
    Offline

    Jamie's-Locked Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Aug 6, 2016
    Messages:
    194
    Likes Received:
    134
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Memphis TN
    Local Time:
    6:42 AM
    I made a suggestion once to Ms K/H that I wanted to see if I could do a year. She proved to me that I could.
    I've learned to request very politely please not a year again.
     
    Shepherdsflock and kellysbitch like this.
  7. Mash2214
    Offline

    Mash2214 Her Locked Little Boy

    Joined:
    Jun 8, 2013
    Messages:
    2,560
    Likes Received:
    5,398
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Business Owner
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Canada
    Local Time:
    5:42 AM
    Decisions Decisions Decisions. If you've already been Locked for 90 days. You or someone else has been keeping your Wife happy. If your treating her like the Queen she is and she's happy than let her decide how long you should stay Locked. Have you ever heard of the word Permanent
     
  8. Mistress B
    Offline

    Mistress B Mistress B

    Joined:
    Feb 29, 2012
    Messages:
    2,538
    Likes Received:
    3,220
    Trophy Points:
    153
    Gender:
    Female
    Occupation:
    Business Owner
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United Kingdom
    Local Time:
    12:42 PM
    It also prevents you from "counting down the days ", which is neither good for you or helpful to her.
     
    Penney, Joroincharge and CJ's hubby like this.
  9. Sarah8
    Offline

    Sarah8 My husband holds my collar and I hold his key

    Joined:
    May 10, 2017
    Messages:
    141
    Likes Received:
    341
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Female
    Occupation:
    Teaching
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    7:42 AM
    My hubby almost ruined it for me by wantING to go for longer and longer when we first started. My advice would be to her lead without encouraging her to keel you locked longer. It will be more fun for her if she's allowed to push your limits on her own. Giver her time to find her own way. IMO it's probably more important to let her feel like she's challenging you even if it feels like baby steps to you.

    For me my hubby saying let's do it for a crazy length of time.... took a lot of the fun out of it for me because I wanted to feel like I was pushing his limits and he made it seem like I was no where near them.
     
    slave_m, Nicoftime, Alceste and 5 others like this.
  10. Felix cum ea
    Offline

    Felix cum ea Vanilla Chaste

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2015
    Messages:
    552
    Likes Received:
    829
    Trophy Points:
    133
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Belgium, Antwerp
    Local Time:
    1:42 PM
    Now this is very good feedback, thank you @Sarah8 because I made the same mistake when we started.

    Meanwhile my wife has overcome that (lucky me ;)) and since we evolved into complete erection and ejaculation denial, she really likes our chastity. :cool:
     
  11. Queensbitch
    Offline

    Queensbitch Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    May 16, 2015
    Messages:
    274
    Likes Received:
    361
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    6:42 AM
    It is her decision completely.
    We have been using the cage for about 3 years now. Never over 3 weeks before and usually barely a week between my orgasms.
    For her it was like a light switch being turned on. She decided we had talked enough about doing longer lock up times and not making the goals. She dug out the time safe. Threw all the keys in it and set the timer until my birthday. Leaving us No option but to make it 132 days. Which will put us at the end of January.
    As we are making this journey, she has realized that even then she does not want me to release then. Unless she is just weak in the moment. I will only get out to be rode until she achieves all the orgasms she wants. Once she is satisfied it's back into the cage until July. She has her mind set, that it will be a year of no releases for her bitch.
     
    kellysbitch likes this.
  12. maid julie
    Offline

    maid julie Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 11, 2015
    Messages:
    311
    Likes Received:
    199
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    service tech
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    NJ
    Local Time:
    7:42 AM
    Yes it is her decision, It would be fun to chat with her and say if he has gone this far and wants some more, What could be a better Christmas present than to have a key wrapped up under the tree.
     
    Keuschling likes this.
  13. Shepherdsflock
    Offline

    Shepherdsflock Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 10, 2016
    Messages:
    517
    Likes Received:
    583
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    6:42 AM
    I don't recommend trying to set your time. If I asked my wife for longer, she would happily oblige and likely go much further. That's really not a concern for me, since her idea of chastity is pretty much permanent, but be careful what you ask for. Some women love locking their guy and she could steer that direction.
     
  14. gary170
    Offline

    gary170 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 23, 2012
    Messages:
    231
    Likes Received:
    268
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    NZ
    Local Time:
    12:42 AM
    We started out with short time lockups but over the years my wife has become to like my fantasy more than me lol so she is now wanting more I am allowed out once a year but now she wants to stop that she says she enjoys it so much
    This procession has taken years and with a lot of ups and downs and good communication but it has worked out as a win win
    I have learnt to get pleasure in other ways and she loves that....be Care full what you wish for they say very happy wife and husband
     
    Queensbitch and Shepherdsflock like this.
  15. chrissie68
    Offline

    chrissie68 Active Member

    Joined:
    Jan 9, 2016
    Messages:
    39
    Likes Received:
    39
    Trophy Points:
    28
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    uk
    Local Time:
    12:42 PM
    My Goddess sets no time limits or countdowns. She just decides on a whim. It is both exciting and gloriously frustrating. I just never know. Hours has been the shortest and up to months the longest.
     
    CJ's hubby likes this.
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice