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Introductions - another husband in chastity

Discussion in 'The Foyer' started by portion, Nov 2, 2017.

  1. Hi all,
    First post just to say hello. We have been married 11 years, started playing with chastity before That, been through the starter metal cage off eBay, then the cb3k, then cb6k, then onto the ht2 (all copies). Hoping to upgrade to a red chilli cage one day.
    Wife has recently asked me to lock back up, and I have been locked now for a full week (with two unlockings to pleasure her before.being locked back up).
    One question I have been wondering... have any couples on here to out or socialised with another couple into male chastity? Either with all parties knowing, or just the chaste men or the keyholding wives in the know. I would love to go out to dinner with a couple, either knowing that both men are caged, or to be told over dinner that both wives know and want to compare cages!
    Anything like that happen in real life ?
     
  2. I suspect very few, but you can dream :). Welcome to Chastity Mansion...
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!
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    Welcome here. I think you'll find there have been a few 'double couples' or similar, though not many.Quite recently there was an F KH (in Spain I think) recently posted she wore a key on her necklace which was spotted by 2 other F KHs in the same village/town, so all three KHs know about the others and their m lockees,and (I've no doubt) regularly compare notes.
     
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  4. We do compare notes and sometimes more. Mostly we just come across each other in the street and have a coffee and a chat. Occasionally someone hosts a day or evening at one of our houses.
    Jane
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    Thanks. It was of course you I had in mind!!
     
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  6. It's always nice to be thought about
    Jane
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  7. I have seen posts like this before and some fetishes do have things like Munches where like minded people meet. You are better off joining Fetlife.com for free as there do use that place to announce get togethers but the very few I have seen for chastity are limited to a few major cities.

    If I recall there were a few munches where guys could show up locked or not, with a keyholder or not. However, nudity in a public restaurant is frowned upon. so you are very limited in what you could do. In the past I attended functions geared towards group sex activities in public places but for sex you had to go to a hotel room. I do not know what you would do at a chastity get together other than talk about it. Maybe sneak a peek at a cage???

    We had sex partners only, friends only, sex partners who were first friends and friends who were first sex partners. Regardless, unless we were getting together specifically for sex, our socializing was the same as any other couple would have. We socialized with our girlfriend's husband and never once spoke about the fact that both my wife and I were having frequent sex with his wife. A few months ago one of the girls my wife and I had a few threesomes with dropped by on the way to see her daughter. She came with her husband and we never talked about sex even when he was not in the room. In fact, I started a bromance with her husband. He was so much like me and shared the same interest it is almost like she went out to find a guy like me to marry. :) As we tried to separate our fetishes from our non sex life, we tried to do the same socially. One of the most interesting couples we knew were very much into BDSM with the husband being the sub. When we visited them outside of the BDSM club, they were just like any other married couple. No D/s in their non sex part of their lives. Like us, they set aside play time, set up a scene, did it and then went back to normal life. I could not imagine being submissive 24/7. Wars were fought to abolish slavery, voluntary or not. :)
     
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