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    Hello all,

    I am a 35 year old male. We started exploring chastity a few months ago. The idea to lock me up was mine as my wife is relatively vanilla when it comes to BDSM (but not other things --she arranged a foursome with some hookers in Vegas last when we were there). We are gradually upping the game as she is enjoying the newfound power she has over me. I in the meanwhile am still getting used to the bummers and surprises of being locked for most part of the day.

    While we are in lockdown our next target is 1 month straight with no release and I thought it best to get some advice before we embark on that journey. We are set for the emotional part but not the physical adjustments part. I hope I will be able to get some help on this site and in time gain enough experience to help others in the future.

    ~TP
     
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    Hi Tp, welcome from the Netherlands.
    What kind of chastity device are you wearing?
     
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    Thanks for the welcome! I am currently wearing an Impound Steel cage (70 mm). However, it started to rust and I am worried about metal cages now. I am thinking of ordering a Dominix Deluxe Metal Cage from lovehoney but not sure whether it will also suffer from similar problems.
     
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    Welcome to CM have fun n enjoy
     
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    Hoi Tp,
    Go always for rvs steel devices, you can find them on Ebay or Aliepress. For hygiënec look for open design .
     
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    hello @TP621 and welcome to here and I hope you like it here as well.
     
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    Thanks. I prefer metal but then I read that the cheap Chinese cages can be laced with toxic metals such as Nickel or Chromium. That's why I got worried and posted a question on the device review forum (basically wondering whether the Dominix Deluxe they sell at lovehoney is trustworthy or not).
     
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    Thanks for the warm welcome Jemima.
     
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    Thank you Eve.
     
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    Welcome to our community and I hope you enjoy being part of it. I prefer metal too, but not had rust issues. Thought most were made of stainless (?) that limits that. Good luck on your journey.
     
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    My experiance with aliepress are not bad ,the description of the used materials are right, but there are many types of rvs.
    You will see the same device from different suppliers and prices, but when they mentioned rvs it realy rvs.
    Pricewise you have one for Less €25,-
     
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    welcome. Just take each day as it comes. Some are very frustrating, others you don't even think about it. There's no pattern to it really. Good luck
     
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    Thank you.
    Apologies but what is rvs?
     
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    Rvs = rost free steel, no iron, or nikkel inside, also used for medical purpose.
     
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    Stainlesssteel
     
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    But doesn't stainless steel always come with Nickel? The one that comes without will be ferromagnetic and will rust over time.
     
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    Interesting how much you know, please don't fool me.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Not really. This is just what I learnt after diving a bit into metal safety.
     
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