Introducing my girlfriend to the fetish world

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    I have been with my Mistress/ girlfriend for 1 years . We dabbled in some.fetish play on the mild side. I Desiree to be more submissive . So in Aug of 2023 I brought it up in more detail expressing my desire to be submissive to her and my interest in CBT. We checked out a toy website and she was drawn to the page on chastity cages. A back story I have about 7.5 to 8 in penis and it is. Hard for her to enjoy sex with one that big. She decided locking my dick up since I wanted to be submissive anyway relieved her of having to deal with my desire for sex. Now some. 306 days later our sex life involves her performing CBT and anal pegging on me and then me orally servicing her. She has new ideas of how she wishes to expand our play and make our relationship more FLR .
     
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    Good luck
     
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    Patience and communication will work wonders. Good luck
     
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    As we approach the one year Mark Mistress Elle has become proficient with sounding , has me expanded to 13mm ,she is unsure of she wishes to go more. She has become more confident using a dildo on me and hope s to loosen me up even More . She has issue with the strapon harness it is clumsy and uncomfortable for her. Just another hurdle in our relationship road to work thru. We have been introducing ball weights into my daily wear with my cage. I have been making her new toys as she comes up with ideas ( I can work decent with wood and metal) . We have a routine starting of starting the day with me making her a tea or cocoa,we together handle our barn Chores, then she administers a morning ball spanking . I work off the property for main income so I go about my day . On returning home I usually change into a kilt to make me more accessible and we complete barn evening chores. Upon returning inside I am always nude.I or we together make dinner on . We bathe or shower and I assist with bathing her . At bed time I am aain administered ball spankings . I will add more as routine changes and new events arise . Hope this was not to boring .creative writing is not my thing lol
     
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    Well everything seems to be going in the right direction, good luck for the future.
     
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    Thanks for sharing!
     
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    The discussion has turned to permanent chastity . Achieved by soldering my cage lock shut . Mistress feels my cage is open designed enough to clean while.qearing it (we have experimented with long term wear) I do not travel.by plane so can see no reason a cage full time is an issue. I will update as we decide
     
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    Well the deed is done we successfully filled my lock with Solder to fuse the tumblers and prevent the key from working .
     
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    good choice
     
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