Hello, I've been intrigued with chastity for a very long time, but don't have the disposable income to just try device after device hoping to find one that fits. I'm looking for a secure device, though i have some obstacles. I've tried the cb3000 and cb6000 without success. In trying to lock it on myself (I have low hanging balls) i can easily pull out the back. When i would make the ring smaller, I would have problems urinating because of the pressure on my urethra. Now comes the other challenges - I'm active and enjoy biking, playing soccer (football for the Europeans), and go to the gym. My Sir/bf also lives long distance, so I only see him every two - three weeks. This raises airport security issues as well as hygiene issues. Any suggestions? I'm open to piercing if that will help for long term, just have to get my Sir's permission. Any ideas / suggestions would be greatly appreciated!