Interesting predicament I’m in.

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    #1 Wildcatsfan23, Jan 24, 2020
    So for Christmas one of the random fun gifts my wife/KH gave me was a “coupon book”. Things like 10 minutes of massage time and such. But I noticed two coupons that said “Orgasm, any way you’d like”.

    I asked her about those, and she said, “Starting January 1st, you are only allowed 2 orgasms this year. These coupons are good for exactly what they say. (This is a big step for us. We started chastity early last year, and she allowed me to orgasm about every other month. The eventual goal is permanent denial, but I didn’t expect a jump like this).

    It’s quite the mind game knowing I can choose to have one whenever I’d like, but then I’m done once I have 2.
    Over the first few weeks of the year, she has teased me relentlessly trying to get me to cash in early lol.
     
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    #2 TheKeyIsMine, Jan 24, 2020
    Very nice !
    That would be a nice variation for our contract....cause sometimes hubby gets grumpy when he isn’t allowed to have a full orgasm. So it’s his decision hehe.

    TKIM
     
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    #3 Nicoftime, Jan 24, 2020
    I would be like a dog with a whole bag of food...Jan second and I’d be out.
     
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    #4 Leolocked, Jan 24, 2020
    That’s though knowing you can cum whenever you want but when there gone their gone it’s a game of when do you split the year into 3rds and hope 1st of Jan goes back to normal or do you go for 1st August and 31st in the fear that next year it might be one or none... proper mindfuck
     
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    #5 asastype, Jan 24, 2020
    Very impressive plan by your KH/Wife! As others have said, a devious mindfuck.

    You just started a year ago and you're already down to two for the year? That's quite a crash landing. Were you unregulated prior to that? How have you handled the change?

    asa
     
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    #6 Jessica Alexander, Jan 24, 2020
    I think that would be harder mentally than having KH only give you 2 at her discretion.
     
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    #7 MissyB, Jan 24, 2020
    It is nice in a way, because you know that your ready for one. If KH decides when, she might pick a time or place that isn't your preference. Either way that is quite restrictive. I had difficulty keeping it to once a month on average.
     
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    #8 aussie_chaste, Jan 24, 2020
    You need to go as long as possible before cashing in the first coupon. 6 months and then cruise to the finish line.
     
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    #9 Wildcatsfan23, Jan 24, 2020
    It is definitely a crash landing lol. I was not expecting to be this restricted so soon, but I happily serve my wife.

    Yes, I was pretty much unregulated before that. I masturbated almost daily. And neither of us realized it for awhile, but it had really hindered our sex life. We’ve only been married for 5 years, and after we settled into our married routine is when I started masturbating so much.

    The change was an adjustment at first. But now, I’m honestly happier than ever. My wife is too. She gets it whenever she wants lol.
    I still very much want to orgasm, so this 2 for the year thing is going to be tough. She’s said she loves our situation so much, she wants to work up to permanent denial for me...
     
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    #10 I LOVE my Choice!, Jan 25, 2020
    OO ooo maybe a daily dice roll or coin toss.... Winner gets to choose whether a coupon is used or not....

    If she wins, she could cash him out on whatever coupon she chooses......:eek:

    Kindest regards

    J.
     
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    #11 JKisChaste, Jan 25, 2020
    Knowing you only have two orgasms coming over the next 12 months would be tough. On the other hand, at least you know you will have two. My situation is I have no idea when or if my next one is coming. Total uncertainty. I’m also not allowed to inquire about it or as I’ve been warned the denial will be extended. In one way that is kind of hot, the uncertainty bit. But, yesterday I happened to remark to my Mistress I’d just set a record for the longest I’ve gone orgasm free. “Yes,” she said. “And each day you will be setting a new record.” That didn’t sound promising at all. Maybe I’d accept your predicament if it was offered. Lol
     
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    #12 asastype, Jan 25, 2020
    @Wildcatsfan23, thanks for sharing your journey. That is quite a change and it sounds like you both are enjoying it. Be sure to thank Her for talking such firm control. Keep us posted on how it goes.

    asa
     
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    #13 Leolocked, Jan 25, 2020
    That’s an amazing place to be in I hope it gives you the strength to keep going each day a new PB you would not want to ruin all that time getting to this point with a mind blowing full body shaking toe curling orgasm would you now...
     
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    #14 Rectrix, Jan 25, 2020
    @Wildcatsfan23, it's good that you've accepted the fact that your masturbation habit was affecting your marriage, and even better that your loving wife is committed to doing something about it.

    About your two coupons: my experience is that once I've been locked and denied for two or three months I don't want the chaste feelings to end. So that's another problem you may face. If you don't use them soon you may not want to use them later.
     
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    #15 Doug Scibor, Jan 25, 2020
    Wow. She gets it. I'm not sure how I handle that but I think we're all excited for you and evaluating our own situations a little now.
     
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    #16 Jessica Alexander, Jan 25, 2020
    2 orgasms a year would be difficult. I cum so fast after being locked for a week that I barely have time for an erection if I’m not careful. I think I would want to at least negotiate it as 2 unlocked days rather than 2 orgasms. Then you could plan it out and make it special for both of you.
     
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    #17 tecolote, Jan 25, 2020
    So... You might be tempted to hold out as long as possible. If it's the same next year, you are really on a once per six months average... But in the back of your mind, you know that she can take one or both of them away as punishment anytime she likes, so you may want to use them while they still belong to you.

    Quite the quandary.
     
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    #18 Kylara, Jan 26, 2020
    Only two seem so little and it is even more harder if you decide, I am happy not to be at your place, could not decide when it happens. At least you can manage it.
     
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    #19 madams-sissysub, Jan 26, 2020
    If only my madam would be as generous as your wife!
     
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    #20 WhiteKnight, Jan 27, 2020
    I think that's a fantastic idea and, yes, a wonderful mind-fuck. You have 'control' of your orgasms: but she controls the fact that it's only two in a year. I agree with one of the other posts - you should and hold out as long as you possibly can before cashing-in the first one.
    As a matter of interest does how horny or frustrated you are mean that you're 'hair-trigger' ? So the longer you have to wait the quicker you'll cum ?
     
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    #21 Apfel, Jan 27, 2020
    You have _ TWO TICKETS TO PARADISE - Use them wisely
     
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    #22 DonnaSue, Jan 27, 2020
    If you wait 6 months to use the first coupon and save the last one for, say December, who is to say you're going to get another next year? THis could be 2 coupons for the rest of your days! What a mindfuck!
     
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    #23 Cincy, Jan 27, 2020
    I haven't had a full orgasm in almost a year, and I never get grumpy, I'm always horny.
     
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    #24 Wildcatsfan23, Jan 27, 2020
    it depends on the level of teasing before I’m allowed to cum. The longest so far was 2 months between, and I was able to last about like I used to before I came. But that was when the sole intent was to cum, and I hadn’t been teased for a few days. So we will see after a few months how long I last.
     
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    #25 PouchPantyLover, Jan 28, 2020
    Are any of the other coupons sexual in nature? Not sure what you're into, but pegging or tease and denial. Masterful stroke by your wife. I'd cast my vote to use one in the first quarter of the year under the use it or lose it concept. I'd probably hold the other until August/September. I have found after long periods of denial (over 3 months) that my first orgasm is actually mildly unpleasant. Burning sensation from semen. The second usually rocks my world. I'd agree with the idea of seeing if you can get a days worth of orgasms for each coupon.
     
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