Interesting developments, possible start of something

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    I'll begin the story at the start, but those looking for the really exciting bit should probably scroll down a bit.

    A couple of days ago I sent my wife a link to a news article that appeared reporting on research that showed that women are turned on by the sexualness of a situation, rather than the content. ie: people having sex turns women on, but naked men walking around on beaches was found the be just as sexually interesting as pictures of the Himalayas! The effect was found to be gender non specific, that is two women making out turned a woman on just as much as a woman and a man. I'd cite it, but the news article is gone.. anyway, she got back to me saying that she felt this was pretty true of herself.

    I was home early later that day, and being the naughty man that I am, thought I could get in a bit of porn before the wife got home :rolleyes:. I found a torrent of a latexangel video, and started it downloading. It took longer than expected and when my wife got home, saw the file on my computer while I was out tending the dinner, and said "you're going to watch that with ME right?" to which I responded "No, It's my porn!.. I downloaded it, Go get your own!"

    We watched it together (some pretty intense fisting), and although it didn't excite me all that much, she was very hot at the end. We grabbed each other and shot off to bed.

    I went down on her in a 69 as she likes to crush my balls at the same time :bigsmile:. etc.. etc.. I came first with my penis flapping about on her chest.. we cleaned up, then went back to playing and with my fingers involved she had some ear piercing orgasms (did I mention we have very thin walls!) and went to bed. That was two nights ago.

    I didn't think much more of it until I got home last night, when my wife dragged me straight into the bedroom and told me to bend over.. this is a sort of understood code that she's going to stick the buttplug up me.
    The words were something like "I had such a good time last night, it's going to be your turn tonight". Sounded promising! So we cook dinner etc.. and then she drags me into the bedroom again and says "get out your chastity device"

    I played along with "I can't, I sent the lori back to be fixed", knowing that she meant the CB-2000. I obliged eventually, and we locked me up. In my mind I'm thinking.. This is great, butt plug, chastity, promise of play..
    but nothing could have prepared me for what did happen.

    I was told to go and "clean out" my bottom, and while I was off doing that.. I walked back in to see the room beautifully lit with candles and warm! (it's winter here in Aus, approx temp most nights at our house is around 10 deg C). My darling informs me she is just going to brush her teeth and I should relax, so I'm lying on the bed, wondering what pose would look sexiest for when she walks in. Then the door slides back, there is a little head peeking around the corner, and in walks an incredible woman with a long flowing black satin dress with lace sleeves and a corset esque bodice accentuating her already mind blowing waist. And the key to my chastity on her arm.

    The rest of the night involves a bunch of gory details.. which don't need mentioning, suffice to say I'm extraordinarily lucky :wink:, and that I didn't get to cum. We took the CB-2000 off for the night, because I HATE the way it causes your balls to feel like they're being burnt off when you get a hard on at night..

    I've got today off work, and my wife had to shoot off early. When I woke up I did the right thing. Took the parts to the CB-2000, put them together and snapped on one of the tamper evident locks. Then sent a picture message to her phone. For a long time I've wanted her to take the initiative on this, and now that she has I refuse to spoil it..

    I love my wife so much. Although I'm happy to give up all my pleasure in order to focus on hers, I was so lucky to be treated the way I was last night. There's a lot of bedroom talk of how when the lori gets here, all my pleasure will have to be derived from being penetrated as she's thinking of giving me up for the strapon (I'm not small, but the strapon is huge and has never failed to give her an orgasm.. so it's doing something right!).

    I don't know if this talk will become reality, but I'm having fun finding out.

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    Congrats on the progress, it sounds very promising !! You are a lucky guy. And thanks for sharing that, it's always nice to hear of someone's joy, particularly your's.

    Small steps or big steps, you're heading in the right direction.

    Kinkish1
     
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    Thanks Kinkish1,

    Much appreciated. By the way.. I've never really been into medical fetish stuff, but your avatar is HOT
     
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    well.. the plastic lock thingy is still on.

    2 days might not seem like a huge milestone to a lot of people here, but because we used a plastic tamper evident lock, I slept with it on last night. That is important because it really does pull on me and give me sore balls.. normally I would ask to be unlocked, but you can't unlock a temp lock without ruining it.. So I suggested it stay on. Mistress slept well and didn't notice me waking up and returning to sleep.

    I only woke up 3 times at 12pm, 3am and 5am. all 2-3 hrs apart. I really did break my sleep up.

    Mistress asked if I was okay in that department today, and I replied, yes. I'm now staring down the barrel of a second night locked in. Then we go away for the weekend early tomorrow and I'm hoping she'll leave it on me. which would make 4 days/3 sleeps. Then I go back to work and things might be on again off again. Maybe pics in the future.

    Also, I'm a little happy that I've finally found an arrangement that really does fit me quite well in the CB-2000. It's more comfortable than any other arrangement of rings/spacers I've used and I think I'd find it very hard to pull out.
     
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    This sounds so wonderful, like a magical transformation.

    You're so lucky.
     
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    Your Welcome.

    Yep. The avatar is great. I've been saving that for the right time and place. If you haven't tried it yet that double ballon style of retention nozzle is an extraordinary piece of equipment. :tongue:

    For me the medical fetish developed over time, but enemas were an area of interest very early on. Luckily, I encountered a very sweet woman who shared that fetish, and had prior experience with it, and she was a real asset in my explorations of that. From that grew the broader medical fetish.

    For me/us the medical kink is best left for special occassions, as it requires quite a bit of set up, and clean up, time. Not to mention the playtime. We also don't want to overuse it and lose some of the magic in the process.

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    Oh.. so little time.

    A brief summary:
    The weekend was fun. Mistress asked me to take off the device, just because we didn't need the hassle.. and it's not like I was going to try and get off under the constant supervision of 3 women in a house with paper thin walls (kit home). We were staying on a farm with friends, and it was all very lovely. Read heaps of books, etc.

    It was nice to have some reaffirmation that I'm good for something as my wife, who is a small girl (well.. I'm 6'4" and she's approx 5"), turned out to be VERY scared of the curious Black Angus cattle on the farm. Every time they came towards her she ran back to hide behind me.

    anyway, back to chastity matters;
    The CB-2000 is on again as of now, and has been all day. We can't see any point to wearing it at night, as we both need sleep and it's not like I can whack off while passed out. So the new rule is, on days when I don't ride my bike to work, I have to wear the CB-2000. This is good for me, and hopefully the environment too!! :tongue:

    I suspect that rule will fall by the wayside tomorrow, as we're going out to dinner straight from work for our 2 year anniversary of getting together (married 6 mths). I'm looking forward to a great night!
     
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    Wow... you've come so far in 2 years! It's our "meeting" anniversary this week, but neither of us ever remember if its the 23rd or the 27th!!! It will be 3 years... or 4 years! I really must look it up! :squigglemouth:
     
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    My goodness this site moves fast..

    Ahh, what news.

    We had a lovely night out to fare my parents well, who are off on a two month trip up to the very top of Queensland (we live near Melbourne). For Americans, it's about the same distance as the east to west coast. For Europeans.. dunno, probably about from the bottom of spain to the top of sweden, or more. return trip will be about 9-10,000 kms.

    SO, we'll be house sitting for them while there away.. which means a good chance to do renovations at our house.

    I don't expect I'll be on here much for the next two months, or that I'll be too much involved in the chastity play. You know that real men can't wear chastity belts on the construction site! At least I certainly can't while I'm crawling around under the house.

    Up until now though we have been doing well, and Mistress has got herself a necklace to hang the key from, which sits deep down in her cleavage, near her heart.

    I'm happy that we're making the most of things.. and I'm also starting to feel the effects after two weeks of not coming. I'm getting quite horny!

    I'll try to keep in touch.
     
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    Love that you two are realing clicking on the chastity and femdom issues!
     
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    Noooooooooooooooooooo I'll miss you! :cry:

    Good luck with the renovations, etc, though. :angel:
     
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    Oh wow, theres so much going on! I can't catch up.

    I feel like I've been letting you all down, but the real world is taking up too much time.

    We're both living at my parents house.. the renovations are going well so far. I'm about 90% of the way through the plumbing work I need to do, and we've pulled off all the walls that we need to replace. Overall on the work we want to get done I reckon we're at about 15% maybe?

    I bought a motorbike last weekend.. well its more of a glorified scooter, but hey, it's cheap and uses less petrol than the car. Or at least, it will when I learn how to ride it :)

    All our time is being consumed walking the dog, looking after the chooks, doing the washing.. it's mad and we're both continually tired at the moment so no sex.. no kinkyness.. nothing to report :( EXCEPT that my lori has been re worked and is on the way back!!!! YES YES YES!! :bigsmile::bigsmile:

    I know it will all come good in time. I just wanted to drop in a quick line to say I miss you guys! All of you!
     
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    We miss you more!

    Don't feel bad, we're not going anywhere! Real life is a pain in the butt...but it is what gives us the money and the environment to play in!

    pet and I are having a really crappy weekend because we need to sort out our house of junk... it's boring, it's making us snappy... bleagh!

    As you say, we have to work at the boring stuff first.

    Glad it's going ok, and thanks for popping in. :angel:
     
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    Glad to see you back burger. i too have undertaken a major remodeling project of the house (although not so much as yours i think). It is nearly complete now and things are starting to get back to normal, but there was a stint of about 4 weeks that we were so tired that we did not have much sex either. :cry:
     
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    Just a really quick note, because I'm late for work already..

    My Lori #12B returned today after some adjustments.. It's working. Almost impossible to get on.. but seems VERY comfortable once on.

    I'll try and post more tonight (or in about 10 hrs for those OS)
    Bye
     
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    Ok.

    so I put on the #12 this morning, and it was good. I'd say it was perfect, except for one or two minor details.

    I won't bore you with the details everyone already knows.. it's a very good device. I think it will work well.. Actually, I'm certain there's no way I could achieve a pleasurable orgasm in this device. It might be possible to orgasm, but I don't want to find out and ruin the mystique.

    It's very hard to put on.. I've been trying to think up a better way, like pulling both balls to one side then putting the penis into the locking ring, then tucking a ball back to the other side.. didn't work.. the only way is to divide the balls and hold everything apart and up and away then put the glans into the locking ring.. this basically requires 3 hands :( very tricky, but not impossible.

    I wore it all day at work today without the lock, to see how it felt, and the only minor niggle I had to report is this:
    I'm uncircumcised. The device would appear to work best with the foreskin back and the glans only through the locking ring.. soo that's the way i put it on of course. The foreskin going through would probably allow you to escape it too easily. The problem is that, as an uncircumcised male, the head of my penis is SO SO SO SO sensitive and the whole day it was brushing up against my underwear.. this was unpleasent/uncomfortable.

    I'm thinking it would make good conditioning.. you know, I could stand to loose a little sensitivity, as it'll make our sex last a little longer. But it still isn't nice :wink:

    Anyway, suffice to say, the thing is as perfect as I could expect.


    in other news.. the plans for the larger sections of renovations are now almost set in stone.. now we get to start the actual work and I'm so looking forward to getting it done. :smile: It'll be a load off my mind.
     
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    Hey burger... did you ever post a picture of your device? i know i would certainly like to see it (both alone and "in use").

    i am also certainly interested in hearing how the long term wear issues go as i have been thinking about a #12 myself (someday, when the finances allow).
     
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