Indian Muslim Hotwife / Cuckold Couple

We are thrilled to have joined the chastity community and wanted to introduce ourselves. Our story is long, and I will post our detailed history later. However, I wanted to give you all a short version.

I was always a relatively free spirit sexually, by Indian standards. I had sex with boyfriends in high school. About 15 years after marrying my husband, Peter, I had a couple of affairs without his knowledge. We had a difficult time after he found out. Over time, however, we realized that it was important for us to incorporate extramarital sex into our lives. Peter searched online and recruited an experienced British-born man of Indian origin, Fred, to be my first “bull.” Over the next few years, Peter and I actively enjoyed different patterns of swinging. We would have threesomes with single men and foursomes with couples; and we would pair off with the opposite sex member of other couples and play in the same room or separate rooms. We would attend swinger clubs where I would play with a man with or without Peter watching. We would attend private parties where I might play with many men in one night. Eventually, I started playing with some men alone at home, in hotels, and in the other men’s homes while Peter was at work or away.

In January 2018, Peter and I decided to make my pussy and my ass off limits to his dick. We still made love in every other way. However, instead of his dick entering me, he used vibrators and dildos to penetrate me vaginally and anally. To satisfy Peter during our lovemaking, I started by giving him a blowjob, but never to completion, and then finishing him off with my hands.

We then thinking of moving to the next step of cuckolding--caging and chastity. Peter was initially reluctant and had concerns about his dick shrinking from long-term caging. Eventually, he came around. We purchased an inexpensive cage to try out, with the intention of upgrading later if we decided to continue caging. Once Peter was caged in August 2019, we were both hooked. In fact, he was even more enthusiastic about it than me. We had planned to let him out once a week for cleaning, shaving, and masturbation at my hands or his own, under supervision . However, he has actually declined the opportunity to masturbate approximately half of the time.

A few nights ago, we made love for the first time with Peter caged. After my orgasm--which was fabulous--I felt guilty and wanted him to have his own orgasm. He was very reluctant to be uncaged, but I insisted and I gave him a hand job. The next morning, he shaved, cleaned, put the cage back on, and left for work.

We truly love this progression in our lifestyle. I am sure that we will be asking more experienced members of the community for advice, especially as we start considering a better cage and adding new kinks to the chastity lifestyle.

Erika

 

Thank you everyone for your kind words of welcome and advice.

 

I am sure that I will get over the guilt soon!

We have been going 7 days (sometimes 14 days) without an orgasm for him. We will eventually try for longer, after we learn how to do milking and ruined orgasms.

 

I think that I will get over it, too. I used to feel some guilt about extramarital sex, until I realized that it was actually enhancing our marriage. I also felt some guilt about stopping penetrative sex with my husband, but it also resolved quite quickly. I am lucky to have a husband who has encouraged and supported me, and told me that I should never feel guilty about any “kinks” that we have mutually agreed to.

 

Last night, when I came to bed, Peter gave me a sensual total body massage as he usually does. After he was done, I asked him to eat me. We proceeded to make love without involving his dick, and I came quite hard. (This is a little more frequent lovemaking than usual for us.) I tried to unlock him again so that I could give him a hand job, but he refused. This time, I did not insist. I think that I am getting used to the idea of leaving him unsatisfied. This morning, he told me that he had trouble sleeping because he was aroused with no way of gratifying himself. However, he was actually happy about being frustrated while he focused on my satisfaction.

 

This is Peter. Erika played a real mind game with me last night. I have been caged for weeks, and my penis has not been inside her for months. She uncared me and asked me to enter her. I was a bit confused, but readily complied. After a minute of thrusting, she told me to pull out and bring a cock, referring to her favorite Mr. Marcus vibrating BBC dildo. After she came, she promptly locked me up. I am not quite sure how to feel. I am frustrated and humiliated, but excited at the same time.