I'm getting a PA and I'm not sure why

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    Don't get the title wrong, I am really up for it emotionally, but logically?

    I don't really need any extra holes in my penis.
    My cage works adequately with without an option to pull out.
    Whilst I mostly sit to pee anyway, I will miss the convenience to nip behind a bush when I'm working.

    But I'm really up for it.

    I've had a consultation with a piercer and paid a deposit.
    I've sorted supplies of saline for soaking and the recommended fem wipes for cleaning after peeing.

    I'm not going to be able to play with myself for at least two weeks.
    I'm not gong to be able to cage myself for six months as I work up through the gauge sizes.

    But I'm really up for it.

    Perhaps its my fascination with cyborgs, incorporating the hardware with my body?
    Perhaps its just that I really want a piercing but am too shy to have it in a visible location.

    But I'm really up for it.

    Still another 8 days to go.
     
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    You’re well prepared.
    I don’t regret mine at all.
    I over prepared myself.

    Got 8ga Piercing in April. Wore Contender Chastity with 4ga Piercing hook in September.
    Lots of testing after maybe 3 months. I think I was ready after I was comfy in 6ga.

    I only wish I could have done it sooner. Maybe when I was 21. If only I had been braver back then. :)

    The anticipation is worse than the event. The aftercare is important but straightforward.

    You sound like you’re very ready.
    Good for you!
     
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    I like my PA. Go for it...
     
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    Hello,

    Can you add some more infos what your're liking about your PA.
    Also if I'm correct the piercing goes through the penis, what exactly happens when you go pee?
    This is my biggest concern, that it will generate a mess ;-)

    Imhers
     
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    A PA goes through the underside of the penis, which is quite thin and easily pierced. (You can also get a Reverse PA though the top of the penis but that is quite a major piercing.) Most guys with a PA sit to piss - it just becomes the natural way to do it and if you are wearing a chastity device you most probably already sit. Some guys are able to use a urinal but it's "hit and miss" literally for the rest of us and if you aren't naked can make a mess of your clothes and the floor. That's OK if you are into that sort of fetish!

    The PA piercing itself is very quick and the jewellery is usually in before you realise the piercer has finished. If looked after properly (and that isn't difficult) it will heal quickly and can be stretched after a couple of months.

    Most guys that have a PA love it and enjoy playing with it or, for members here, enjoy someone else playing with it. It becomes part of you in a very real sense and if you have to remove it you miss the weight and the little extra stimulation you get from the ring moving around.

    If you have ever thought about having a PA then just go for it.
     
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    if you're uncaged, the secret is to twist your penis upside down when at the urinal, any escaping fluid goes up and out into the urinal rather than on your leg/shoes
     
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    I can still pee standing up but only into urinal or tree but not a toilet.

    If I don’t have any jewlery in then I just cover the piercing hole and urine stream is normal.

    If I have a curved barbell, I may be able to press it up against the piercing. Urine stream passes around the other ball. There is some mis-directed. Occasionally a lot.

    If in my Evotion then the urine stream leaves the end of the post and some dribbles out the piercing and down.

    But right now I’m in a metal cage with one of those round dome ends. Urine goes everywhere and I must sit on the toilet.

    So it depends on what your re wearing. Some cages can be designed to allow standing and some designed to not.
     
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    Thank you for the links, the first one has been really interesting.
    I'll discuss this with my KH. I am a bit afraid that the piercing might be an additional trigger and will affect my concentration during the day.
    As I am wearing my cage also during work, I often find myself a bit distracted during business meetings ;)
    I would to look at some pictures with a PA and a cage, as beeing caged is important to me.

    Imhers

    PS: I love this community, it is so friendly.
     
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    Check out my album. My MaleChastityNow Contender and GlansArmor both incorporate piercing security in their designs. (It’s an option for the Ball trap Contender and required for the GA).

    I remember being teased by my cage at work in 2014 when I started wearing it 24/7 for the first time. I enjoyed the distractions actually. I had some boring meetings.

    My fixed PA pin in the Contender prevents my cock from moving around in the cage. I can’t get friction against the rods. So it actually reduced the self teasing from shrinking and growing against the confines. I’m just squeezed and held firmly. Which is nice.
     
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    I can pee reliably at a urinal in my GlansArmor. I just turn it slightly. I’ve even done it in my Contender but I’m not as confident in a full ball trap.
     
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    This seems like a LOT of bleeding. Is this an exaggeration?
     
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    Mine filled half a glove a few times over 2 - 3 days. It healed normally.
     
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    I didn’t bleed that much at all. I don’t remember using more than the initial glove.

    Maybe I don’t remember. I did bleed. It helps healing. I was more concerned about messing up the sheets than my health. My wife bought some new loose sleep shorts.
     
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    May be I should lay in a supply of maxi pass.
     
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    Following this thread - I'm caged just now and it's making me think "man, I wish I had a PA and an Internet-controlled keysafe!"
     
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    One day to go. I'm now worrying about little things: Got to get change ready for the car park; should I change out of my work clothes before going to the piercer's?;
    I've taken my cage off so as to enjoy every last opportunity to stand in front of the toilet bowl.
     
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    Good luck. You'll be fine.
     
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    It's done!

    I visited the lovely Anne at Ooky Spooky Piercings (https://ookyspooky.uk/) in Gloucester. She put me at ease, got me to sit in the chair and got to work with the lido-cane spray both inside and out. We had a discussion on where the piercing should exit the urethra and Anne wasn't at all phased by my intended use of the piercing.

    I decided I would watch and took a hold of the chair and in something of an anti-climax I didn't feel a thing as I watched the needle emerge from the back of the glans.

    Initially there was little blood, but just as we were both thinking I was very lucky, a LOT more came. Anne was very patient and I was actually in the chair at least an hour after the piercing had been completed - mostly just chatting about the scene.

    No stinging with the first pee I had, but its possible the lido-cade was still having an effect.

    I currently have 1/3 of a maxi-pad wrapped around the wound, with a glove covering the whole.

    I'll put a photo up when its looking a little more pretty.
     
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    Phew! Well done. The bleeding should have stopped by tomorrow and certainly after a couple of days.
     
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    Overnight update.

    There was very little blood in the dressing this morning, which makes me so happy.

    There was a little stinging when I pee'd, but nothing like the burning sensation I had when I had a UTI. No urine seemed to come from the piercing location.

    The first saline soak was fine and was I able to clean up some of the congealed blood, but I need to find a better container than the cut down water bottle.
     
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    Good news. Congratulations on joining the PA Club.
     
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    Congrats!

    Peeing is it’s own little adventure now. Another little nugget I hadn’t really realized until after...cum exits both holes, and when you leak it mostly runs out the piercing. I remember she ruined an orgasm for me and I could have swore that I felt some exit but nothing appeared, we looked on the other side and there some was.

    Will take some time before you can really go to town while having sex without pain, for me it was almost 5 months before it didn’t hurt anymore. We don’t really have sex that often now, she used to say she liked how the ring felt when we did.

    Good luck and welcome to the “I can’t just pull it out the back” club!
     
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    Morning number 2.

    All is going well. No bleeding overnight, so I have decided to dispense with the dressing*.

    I spent a long time in the shower this morning just looking at the ring entering my body. Happy sigh.

    * Medical adhesive tape is a bad idea on the shaft of the penis. Its a REALLY bad idea on the glans.
     
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    Photos as promised above.

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    Not as central as I would have liked, but anatomy can be a bugger.
     
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