If you had to tell...

Someone on CM of course! I do all the time - lol. That's a really hard question tho = my wife and step-daughters don't know and i don't see them as receptive. Perhaps one of my female friends, someone i know from work or previous encounters. But i'd probably have to spill all my secrets, like being fem and submissive. So I'm sure it would be , like, TMI, totally. Because i'd have to go all in, don't think I'd feel comfortable telling one of my male friends. Just glad this is a what if type question.

 

Someone with whom I could trust with the key.

 

My KH/Wife shares the key with her Masseuse and a ProDomme who help her with the teasing,milking and tormenting me! Lol

 

I have an adult niece and her husband, who I am sure are into chastity! He started talking about it at a family party and was quickly hushed up, plus I have seen the outline of his device in his swim trunks! She often wears her key as well! I know my secret would be safe with them!

 

We have already told our best friends and I’m sure my daughter will find out soon. I’m not to ashamed of some people knowing

 

If I had to, probably my children. They are adult enough to know that my wife and I have a healthy sex life without knowing all the nitty gritty. I'm pretty sure they know we have a toy chest in our wardrobe and so this would just be an extension.

In saying that, it'd be a pretty uncomfortable conversation.....

 

My sex therapist

 

As well as my primary care physician

 

If I HAD to tell somebody I would prefer it to be a woman and someone that my wife knows well.

If put in a situation I would tell medical staff.

People I have told outside of the Internet and CM include a pair of lap dancers and a friend I have from Fetlife. We met first and had a couple of coffees together before I told her I was wearing a cage at our meets. Didn't notice it she told me.

 

I have considered whether to tell my physician but thus far decided not to. If I HAD to tell someone who doesn't already know I guess that would be the logical choice.

Not too long ago I accidentally told a close friend. There is no doubt he knew what I was talking about when I let it slip that I had a cage for my dick. But that was it, no more discussion, and that's more than fine with me. However, now that the cat's out of the bag I wouldn't have a problem talking about it, answering questions, etc.

 

I meant that I have told my therapist and my primary doctor

 

My Wife/KH and I have considered telling a couple that we are very close with. We talk about sex on a routine basis with them. We have brought up the topic of bondage a few times. But havent dared talk about me cage!! All though my wife has joked about it!! I'm sure we may let the cat out of the bag someday

 

I would want to tell my wife's sister. Her husband is a typical macho, chauvinistic, I'm the boss type guy. The two of them are always bickering about stupid shit. My wife and I sometimes talk about how her sister really needs to get that guy into a chastity cage. If only her sister knew!

 

My wife/kh has told her sister and a close Long time friend of ours. The friend is the one person that I can talk to about being locked in chastity.

 

My Wife knows, as does my therapist and my pcp. I’ve also (with my Wife’s consent) talked about it with a friend of ours who we knew has had some kink experience.

 

My wife/Misttress told Her sister about my chastity as well as my CDing. She invited her over to be introduced to Donna and I had to meet her at the door in lingerie and then show her my cage and how it is worn. Having known her for 35+ years, this was a very embarrassing and humiliating experience. I am concerned now that my little private "secrets" are out of the bag!

 

Nah, your secret is safe with the 48,697 members on CM

 

I actually had a long discussion about it last night with my best friend who is a man that is very dominant over his wife. He thought me to be the same way and I was very relieved how accepting he was of it. It actually felt good to tell someone else. I know not all people will be that open to it tho

 

Well, I wouldn’t tell anyone that my wife didn’t put out there and was her idea.

That being said, my opinion? I suppose it would make more sense her telling people she knows well. I can’t see her telling random strangers. She has a cousin that she is very close to that I could her telling. Actually I’m a bit surprised she hasn’t let the cat out of the bag to her when they hang out and tie one on. Not as a slight, but more like bragging. She does that sometimes when discussing what I normally do around the house.

 

Oh a fun outing

 

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I've told my Keyholder Wife's best Friend (detailed here) and it was the hottest, most affirming thing that's happened since i first opened up to my wife, now Keyholder.

We see Her multiple times a week and She's getting more details all the time. She just told me the other day that She loves getting the reports of how long since my last climax and the grade my Keyholder Wife gives me each week. I am so lucky to have a wife who is really into our FLR!

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I wouldn't want to. It's not part of the kink for me, although I know that discovery - accidental or forced - is for a lot of people. I can't see any reason why anyone - medical people included - should ever need to know, so I wouldn't discuss it. What goes on in my brain stays in my brain....

 

I think medical people need to know when required for procedures. MRI and steel cage = bad. Cage and surgery = not good, most stays/ CT Scans are a no jewlery policy. For the definition of bad see

When I said tell a medical professional I meant if they needed to for a diagnosis or procedure. That would not be a thrill for me in any way. MRI + steel cage or padlock = BAD. For the definition of bad see Egon's reply to Peter in Ghostbusters: http://quotegeek.com/quotes-from-movies/ghostbusters/206/