Starting this thread wondering if others here have thought about what they would do if the power role were reversed. Sexually I am submissive and comfortable doing as I am told. It lifts the burden of being wrong, rejected, or doing something that she would rather not do. It's liberating. That being said, I sometimes wonder if she gave me the power that I have given her, how would I use it differently. If your partner told you they could do anything you wanted, and not only would they do it no questions asked, but would enjoy what ever it was. I don't think I would have the restraint my keyholder has shown me. I won't go into details but let's just say that I would test her limits...and then go past them, while she has nibbled at mine but satisfied with not taking advantage of her power. Maybe I am a very non typical sub...more like a pleaser. I draw pleasure with hers, and if she derived pleasure by testing her limits, boy oh boy would they be tested! Just a random thought about our power exchange that occurred to me and how we are different. I mean I have given her a blank check with the knowledge that I like to do what I'm told, and hasn't taken my account down too far. If she gave me a blank check, I'd empty out her account!