Ok lets kick this off. If you could turn back time and meet your partner as a dom (assuming she wasnt before) would you do this and why? Second thought, if your partner was already dom what attracted you to her (i think subs always go for dom women anyway called it sub male intuition) and at what stage did the dom / sub conversation admission happen?
If I could go back, I'd go out with her again in an instant. My wife has changed so much externally since we first met but we never would have been right for each other back then, even though to tell the truth, she turned me on more wearing long flowing velvet dresses, doc martens, unkempt hair piled up in a heap on her head with little bells in it ahhhh... My wife, like probably many women, was convinced at first that she was submissive. We had many long conversations that ultimately proved the following: - I'm way more kinky - She's very open minded and accepting - I'm way more sub than she is. She is starting to realise that dominating me is fun and something she might want to get into more. We've played with chastity, we both enjoy it, it also makes her more keen to dominate me in a weird kind of positive feedback loop. There you go, I hope I actually managed to answer the question in there somewhere!
If I could turn back time I wouldn't change a thing, we've grown together this past 15 years and continue to grow, I love my life
I worked too hard to get this far. No going back. Today is the day. Now is the hour. This is the time. Bobbybig