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    I have met many amazing people at this site. you have my love and respect and I wish you all every happiness. I have thoroughly enjoyed reading all your posts and hearing about your lives, concerns and adventures.

    Many of you have noticed my recent concerns about the new Trophy Points system. I feel it is a destructive thing that pits posters against each other. This is not a healthful thing for any of us or for this site.

    Unfortunately, I've been told that it is "just not possible" to get rid of it, or change it in any way, or hide it, or allow any individual to opt out of it. That's nonsense.

    Meeting you all has enriched my life.

    I don't read emails every day. But if any of you want to stay in touch, I am at brendajjq@yahoo.com.

    With that, I will make one final request to the administrators.

    Please close my account.
     
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    Oh Brenda , no!!!!!!!
    Don't go ! I love reading your posts - genuinely do !

    Please reconsider??????????????????????????????? PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    The admiration is mutual, Deborah.

    But I hope you understand my position.

    I don't think the administrators are deliberately doing anything bad. But this new policy is unacceptable to me.

    I know you will keep phil in line.
     
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    i sense your decision is final. but for what its worth, i liked reading your posts and in fact i have read all threads started by you. you are a valuable content provider. please stay.
     
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    That means a lot to me, chastiff.
     
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    Hello Mistress Brenda,
    With deepest respect and admiration please don't go over something like trophy points. Your sense of what's right and what's wrong and what's a little strange (in my opinion ... if I am allowed one) will really really be missed.

    Myself and Mistress Deborah often read your posts together and smile and talk - and that will be surely missed if you go.

    If you would like to keep in touch with us both then either PM me or tell me to email you and I will..

    With deepest respect please reconsider ...

    I can think of one little sissy (you know the one) who will be lost without your input ;-)

    With respect
    Slave Phil
     
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    Hello phil. Your words are very touching and I appreciate it. My email is on my post above.
     
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    I just must say I admire your determination and resolve in keeping to your principals, Brenda. You will be missed.
     
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    I will say this publicy as i've said it privately to Mistress Brenda, and i hope She won't mind.
    I'm in tears reading this thread. Mistress Brenda is one the most wonderful, loving, strict and magnificent Women i have ever met. She is an absolute inspiration to me.
    I love Her and have loved Her from very nearly after joining this site.
    Without Her inspiration i doubt i would i would have accepted who i am so quickly and happily & moreover started to take steps to become the person i always was inside.& believe me when i tell You i had pretty much no realized interest in chastity before joining here.
    Mistress Brenda leaving here is personally devastating to me. I was very close to leaving myself except for the other people i have met here, who i also love, respect & need so very much.
    and all for the sake of some weird little new webby thing that i suspect nobody would miss or cares particularly about, please please turn it off.
    & i must confess i very nearly considered removing my CB to console myself but that wouldn't be respectful or appropriate. Especially as i consider myself to be in Her chastity under Her advice, if not Her instruction.
    i'll beg You again Mistress, please, please, please don't go Mistress Brenda i love You so much.
    still crying my eyes out
    emily
     
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    you should not go on my account, emily. you should enjoy the company of the wonderful people you have met here.

    I am sorry to have made you so sad. I think the world of you.
     
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    emily, you are so sweet to make posts to support me like you are doing.

    I hope you do not leave the site because of me. There are wonderful people there and I know you have become friends with some. That makes me happy.

    emily, it is up to the administrators. It is their site to do with as they think best.

    Please do not cry over me. Be happy. I want you to be happy.
     
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    Curtsy Mistress Brenda
    Yes Mistress i will try to dry my tears and try to stop being so soppy.
    I think the site belongs to the members as much as the administrators incidentally, but i don't want to get into politics, especially as mine can be quite controversial.
    Yours lovingly
    emily
     
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    I agree with Brenda. I came to the Chastity Mansion to make some new friends, exchange knowlege, and share experiences, not compete with other members in any fashion whatsoever.

    Brenda, if you choose to stay, I'll ignore your Trophy Points if you ignore mine. :)
     
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