I underestimated my wife

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    #1 Linjx014, Apr 10, 2022
    She's usually good about letting me out if I ask and stuff but think she's turned a new leaf. I sent her a few messages and she's tired but I figured we'd at least have sex, but it's not looking good. Here is the screen shot. Looks like I'm in another week I'd at least like to get a cleaning in and make sure everything is fine, which it most likely is but God damn lol. I need a night of no cage waking me up lol. I know I know I'm just bitching about something that I wanted ha. Careful what u wish for.
     

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    #2 LesterBallard, Apr 10, 2022
    Good luck...
     
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    #3 subsouthla, Apr 10, 2022
    That's the line that runs through my head all the time, "becareful for what you wish for". I too under estimated my wife. A couple of months ago, we were in the middle of a chastity period of about 7 or 8 weeks when my birthday day came up. I was absolutely confident she would let me out for sex and an orgasm. Typically she will allow an orgasm around that 2 month mark Nope. Nothing. Stayed locked and pleasured her only. Brutal . Not even on my birthday. Honestly didn't think she had it in her to do that on my birthday. Once in awhile she likes to remind me that we will never go back to the way it was before chastity. We are almost at 2 years with chastity play and I can probably count on two hands all the orgasms I've had.
     
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    #4 Gumballz, Apr 10, 2022
    Tamper paint?
     
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    #5 madams-sissysub, Apr 10, 2022
    As you said be carful what you wish for! And good luck!
     
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    #6 Linjx014, Apr 10, 2022
    Thanks. I got her to let me out and I didn't go back in I'm gonna take a break for a day or 2. She didn't enforce me going back in. But OMG!!! Think that might have been the best sex of my life after 9 days locked up it was amazing! I will be going back in soon and probably 2 weeks this time. We had fun.
     
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    #7 Linjx014, Apr 11, 2022
    She texted me this when I was about to goto sleep. My heart sunk. She didn't want me to not lock up she just forgot. Oops ha. Wonder how I'll be punished for this
     

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    #8 Giles_English, Apr 11, 2022
    I think what we're seeing here is the power of "No." It's a lot easier to say no to ending something than it is to initiate it.
     
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    #9 biggar, Apr 11, 2022
    What is tamper paint? I saw another poster asked you but didn't see a reply yet. Just curious.
     
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    #10 Linjx014, Apr 11, 2022
    Oh my bad. I'm using screws instead of a lock cylinder, so I bought this paint that will go on the head of the bolt so she'll know if I mess with it.
     
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    #11 SubSnuggler, Apr 14, 2022
    Chastity is equal parts scary and frightening and liberating and blissful and all those things at 100%!
     
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    #13 Dmitry, Apr 25, 2022
    Great! My congratulations! That's what you wanted, isn't it?
     
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    #14 Chastity lord, Apr 25, 2022
    Nothing better than being told No,
     
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    #15 littleguy3, Apr 26, 2022
    I had my first denial just 2 days ago as well. WOW! I have been in chastity 24/7 for just over 2 months. My wife and, now, KH was caught off guard by my need for this but has pretty quickly gone from saying "We need to get you out of this thing" to embracing my need for a chaste life in order to be the man I vowed to be so long ago. We've read the articles that said a man needs to go without a full orgasm for at least 3-4 weeks for the KH to fully benefit from the experience and we're now learning why. She released me and gave me the most mind blowing orgasms of my life after a little more than 2 weeks each of the last 2 times. Following the last one, my attentiveness dropped off significiantly and I was really bad on one occasion grumbling & complaining about something she wanted which ruined a romantic dinner at a really nice restaurant. I really felt bad and quickly apologized. In my guilt & shame, I told her that maybe we needed to go a lot longer than 2 weeks next time and she must have gotten the message. The next night, she teased me unmercifully while locked up and I begged her to let me out to just feel what it was like to go inside of her or to just play with my little guy and not let me cum, but she replied "NO!!! You were so bad the other night and it hasn't even been a week since your last orgasm." She mentioned "4 weeks" in her comments and now I'm horny as hell thinking about it. The thought of not knowing how long it will be and knowing it's likely weeks away is driving me crazy!
     
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    #16 captivatedbyher, Apr 26, 2022
    Women have sooo much power and control if they would only learn how to use it! And its not a bad type of power, its a bit like a act of generosity when a wife holds the key and helps the man grow into the partner he wants to be.
     
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    #17 true42, Apr 26, 2022
    As it should be. A small taste of heaven on earth.
     
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    #18 Maitresse Sabrina, Apr 26, 2022
    :mad: What you need is stop asking for anything!
     
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    #19 Linjx014, Apr 27, 2022
    True. I'm not going to this time. If she wants it then great but if not great.
     
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    #20 Maitresse Sabrina, Apr 27, 2022
    That's more like it! It's amazing how educational the cage can be, huh? Men are slow learners, but luckily the cage acts as a particle accelerator. The key does that to us keyholders, especially junior keyholders like your wife. It looks like she is learning too, but I want to talk to her!
     
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    #21 littleguy3, May 7, 2022
    Great observation!! I'm using that with my wife to thank her for teasing & denying me! Generous / gracious to tease and deny me and help me grow into the husband I want to be!

    We laid in bed last night 2 months into our new arrangement and she was marveling how amazing life had become and how blessed we are to be where we are at.
     
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    #22 Andy88, May 12, 2022
    Women can emerge n take up d chalenging dominant role once d conditions alow.. i met my wife 19yrs ago as a young insecure barely making decisions boldly girl in a related industry.. n i was like d alpha male who insist tat she masturbates me daily n perform acts unatural to her.. ok looking bk ive been such a dick.. later roles r reversed.. shes d breadwiner.. i take care of d house.. chastity has been on me for my dirty self pleasuring habit.. orgasm is done away.. erection is disalowed.. “u used up yr life quota of orgasm”.. she said. I learn to deny my own n pleasure her In watever way tat suits her.. she discovered her heightened sexual choices n freedom.. she is a true In every sense..
     
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    #23 Lazlo Toth, May 12, 2022
    Great stuff! I love the raw honesty of this.
     
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    #24 Chaz69, May 12, 2022
    Oh no @Linjx014, I have a feeling you're about to learn what it's like to have a real keyholder !!! I hope you were careful when you wished for this, lol.
     
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    #25 Maitresse Sabrina, May 18, 2022
    Oh no, Chaz69, I think I made him run away! :oops:
     
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