I love how far I’ve taken my sub husband

It seems you both are very happy at this point. I tend to think I might struggle with no relief ever again. That being said. He is committed to you! So..perhaps I don’t understand or have not experienced this level of connection!

 

I get your lifestyle and it is only with this last round of chastity and denial we have embarked on that "I can get it".

I came to realize 10.5 months ago that me getting a 20-30 sec climax and then the down that comes with it was not worth the 24/7 high I could have from permanent denial.

So did my wife, and she was delighted that this revelation proved I was at last ready.

She has said I won't get to cum again and I am happy with that, whether it happens that way or not is at this point in time not relevant.

The bottom line is I am now focused on her needs and pleasures and mine have become irrelevant. I get to please her and give her the gift she missed out on for so many years of our married life. She knows I cannot masturbate and rob her anymore and I don't no longer want to.

My pleasure comes from constant denial and the high that comes from that as well as still giving her all the attention and climaxes she desires. She does not have to feel guilty about my needs anymore and she can totally immerse herself in her pleasure just as I can in pleasing her.

As there is no climax end game on the cards for me I no longer beg her, pester her or even ask for my fantasies as they are all wrapped up in the amazing mind game of the most extreme bondage game imaginable - Permanent and I mean permanent denial.

Neither of us see any reason to change where we are now - we are happier than we have ever been - she has a devoted husband and lover and I have a permanent sexual high.
In fact neither of us see any reason for my belt to even be removed at this time as there is both no point or need for its removal.

Will this last forever - we don't know but we happy now and won't change anything.

 

Im surprise Ms Shauna hasnt updated here

 

Are the last orgasms scheduled in some way more specific than just the year? How will they happen?

 

I’m sorry but my Goddess hasn’t been on for a long time.
She wanted me to answer your question however.
I’m now being permanently denied masturbation or orgasms for life.
This is what her goal was a few years ago when we discussed her wishes.
I thought that it would be years down the road, but she has fast tracked it.
Last month she told me that this winter will also be the last time I am going to be allowed a anal prostrate milking.
It will be around my 61st birthday. Before or after my permanent tattoo is done.
I will absolutely never be allowed any relief whatsoever for the rest of my life she insists.
I have no idea if there will be any sort of ceremony, but I think she will have some sort of idea of that.
For the first time in our FLM, I am scared thinking and knowing I will never cum again.
Honestly I accept it, and the last 29 months of orgasm denial has been fine. The constant state of arousal, hornyness and frustration is a new and incredible feeling. But never getting any type of relief again is something I have never experienced.
Prostrate milkings takes the edge off my full and aching balls every few months. But never getting any relief whatsoever is scary, and I hope to be able to deal with it.
I’ll keep everyone posted.

 

Good luck. With a supportive spouse who is willing to put the work into the relationship to keep you happy, I can see it working.

 

Thanks so much.

 

Good luck indeed! I am almost the same age as you and been without relief for much of the last year. I really enjoy the constant feeling of hornyness and frustration; my wife loves my attentiveness and ever hard erections (we operate the honour system, without the need for my cages anymore- they did their job over the last year of breaking me in and training me.) My wife has never given me any milking. I think you can live without relief - at our age spunk serves no more purpose, and just makes a mess of our wives.

 

Real doesn’t necessarily mean permanent. And permanent doesn’t necessarily mean with no release, no orgasm, ever.

 

It all working for you so just keep at it, enjoy it and congratulations!

 

My husband has confessed that this is how he feels. He is so high on being denied, when he does come he feels deflated and that he has failed me. I know he will never be totally orgasm free and I am fine with that but we gave agreed that he will never have PIV sex ever again.

 

no relief ever is boring. hope is something you can play with. Gives him a lot of drive.

 

I guess she didn't manage just two in 2023 after all.

https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...t-permanent-chastity.53540/page-2#post-656536

 

No, it isn't too much. It's absolutely correct. As I've said elsewhere here, I've been permanently locked almost as long as I've been in our female led relationship and have NEVER been allowed any orgasms of ANY variety ever since we got together. I totally accept that I will never be allowed to and am devoted to HER pleasure and comfort.
It's definitely not for everyone but obviously it works for you - and your man (mutt) has accepted and is coping with his new reality.
If you want that, as my own partner does and he accepts it then you should have it and impose it. Every relationship is different and each has different limits. Just as ours has, your own limits have been defined.
Orgasms for me mean HER orgasms and I get great pleasure from producing them.

 

If that's the only driving force in your relationship then I guess it would be!
Many other things can produce that 'drive'.

 

I do divide and concur i want every factor to be exploited to the max

 

You obviously have things well in hand Ma'am. Respects to you.

 

I’m actually begging my new potential owner to cage me and never let me cum to prove my loyalty to her. I want her to completely turn me in to a sissy. I want to serve her every need. If she could provide for me to exist….i would never cum again.

 

Assumimg that's what SHE wants of course...

 

I totally understand that. I love to have a full orgasm but find the drop afterwards can be tough and it can take months to feel the delightful frustration again . It might be a lot quicker if there was an element of regular tease but as my wife has little interest in the tease element or being strict about my chastity it's all down to me to cope with it . With little or no involvement from my wife rare or no orgasms make sense. I've spent over 20 yrs with that outcome as a more extreme fantasy so I could hardly complain if that's how things turn out. Far more likely is 3-4 orgasms a year as we currently enjoy.

 

For a detailed and seemingly honest account of an FLR with 24/7 chastity, and a now finite number of releases for the sub, (or uxo, as her recent blog posts have it ..well worth a read) I recommend Mistress Scarlet's blog and also her journals, available on Amazon etc.

They've been at it for about 15 years, increasing in intensity over time.

As a single sub, I envy her slave, but he's made of stronger stuff than me. Although, as earlier posts have touched on, the dynamic gives them balance and they're devoted to each other. The slave is allowed to opt out, but that would mean all domination stops.
Every time he is reminded of his choice, he chooses to be completely controlled by his Mistress.

 

From CALGARY , I'd say castrate him.. It will end his discomfort at not ever cuming again,.

 

that sounds so wonderful - it gives me hope -thank you!

 

sorry i didnt see this until after my last respone...

 

hi,

that is where we are at. Permanent chastity for the last 3 years and my orgasms belong to her. She decides. Sometimes it’s one or two months, sometimes longer. This time it’s been 7 months and counting.

it’s working for us