I love Chastity

I am waiting for a new Chinese device to arrive, it will be interesting because it looks like a copy of the
Looker 02.
I cant afford the real thing so this will have to do for the time being.
It may be worth yur while to take a look if you want to try metal.

 

Well for the FIRST time in some 30 years of marriage my wife has said that she would like out and buy
some sexy underwear.
In the past she has never really shown any interest and I have always been the one to buy anything like that.
I think that she is having fun with this and has now realised that she can arouse me just by wearing nice underwear to bed, she can then tease me etc. as she likes.
I am probably making my wife sound really boring but she has always just been very vanilla and never indicated that she wanted anything different, in fact she always (And Still) refers to ma as a Sex maniac as though this is something bad.
So the bottom line is I should have done this 20 years ago.

I don't know why we men have such a hard time figuring women out, Fuck 30 years

 

The only thing my wife is NEVER WRONG on is WHEN and HOW I get released from my cage.
And with that ability comes great power.
I am starting to think that ALL Men should be locked up (In a CB that is.) when they get married, it should be part
of the ceremony that the groom hands they key to his new wife.
The question then would be how many men would make it to the 1st anniversary.

 

Well I am still locked up and only had release for cleaning and a mishap with some hair removal (Ouch!) cream.
It seems as if my urge has diminished and I am more settled into the process.
My wife is not releasing from the cage for T&D and so the only time I get an erection is when I cuddle up to her
at night.
I don't even seem to wake as much with night time erections.
Maybe its the female in me saying I don't need this thing anymore and I need to forget about it once and for all.

 

Well I ended up getting another Chinese device with a 40mm ring the same as I was using on the first device, well due to the fact that the new device has a much smaller gap the 40mm ring was causing a lot of issues and I could not wear it.
I have now received a 45 mm ring to try out so I will see how it goes now.
Unfortunately that will have to wait while a small pressure sore heals on the side of my scrotum which seems to have been caused by changing to Baby Oil from a Silicon lube that I used on the ring.
The Baby oil gets absorbed and does not last all day while the Silicon lube does.
So it seems like wearing Chastity device turns into one long science experiment in which you test new devices and methods on your own most sensitive parts in an effort to find the ultimate device combination.
Failure will result in unspeakable pain and suffering mixed with the exquisite delight of scratching ones itchy sore balls which only results in them being more itchy and sore.
Oh! What fun, "Please Sir can I have some more".

 

Jemima,
Yes wearinmg a cage however it has some room to grow so I have just switched to a much shorter device
so we will see what happens now.
May I ask what device Mistress has locked you into?

 

Well I have just changed to another Chinese device with a shorter cage and have also gone to a larger ring.
This seems much more comfortable however the ring might need to go down a size, I went from 40 mm to 45mm.
The one I have is like this.

 

Well I have now been locked in a different Chinese device for about 6 weeks straight and I have now got it all worked out.
After replacing the small rubber tube that comes with the device with a full piece of silicon tube I am able to wear it day and night in complete comfort.
I have established that it is best to squirt some baby oil over the ring after getting out of the shower and also during the day if possible, this allows the silicon to move around without sticking and causing soreness.
I find I can now sleep through the night without issues and can not even notice it in most positions in bed.
The sad thing is that now I have no reason to need to take it off my wife/mistress is content to leave me locked without any indication of when I may get release.
This has resulted in my sex drive reducing and I just don't seem to want it as much as I did in the beginning.
And even though I can and have pulled out of the back with the idea of masturbation after a few strokes I have lost interest and then put it back into the device.
Not sure what this means yet but would like to know if others have reached this type of plateau.

 

I would dearly love to go to a belt so that I could not touch myself at all and could only lok don on smooth
metal.
Oh well one day maybe.

 

@Wendygirl I wish I could follow your lead, but I think I will have to make do with keeping them under control
for the near future. ;-)

 

We have lost our way.....
I have been out chastity for many weeks now and have become disillusioned with it.
All was going well while I provided some guidance to my Mistress and she seemed interested but then
she just started to ignore my needs etc.
I decided that it was time for her to stand on her own and one day I asked her to remove the device
as I had to do some work in the roof in a confined space and it was difficult to do this wearing the cage.
So the device was removed and she never asked me to put it back on.
Over the following weeks she made references to me not being attentive and that it I was no longer
giving her way however she just never seemed to connect that she needed to take control.
No we are virtually back to the way we were before I ever suggested chastity and I am a little lost.
Many times I have thought of saying "You need to tell me if you want me to be locked up again."
however I just can't do it as I want her to realise this herself.
Maybe it will never happen because she is just not a dominant person and she has lived so long letting me
be in charge.
I don't know what I will do about it, but I know I am close to giving up on the whole idea.

Dianne