Well, I am not wearing a device, but I am using self imposed chastity. I go to a few munches around where I live, and the other night Iwas chatting to a Domme, and she likes kicking and ballbusting. So I looked at some videos of ballbusting, and OMG it is sooo scary, but so erotic, and also it is a very natural way for a woman to empower a man. But the pain... it must be horrendous. The thing is, after one good kick you are down for a while, so you are totally helpless. Well, I think that is one thing that will probably remain a fantasy for me. Then I went to another munch and met someone else, an absolutely lovely Domme. There are such nice people out there. So, I am in a devilish mood now. I have to do something to find an owner, so I am going to a few more munches around the London area and perhaps a bit wider afield. I do travel with my job as well, it's Reading on Thursday Friday and Saturday, I'll be free in the evenings, have to look at events there. I just wondered if anyone else here goes to munches? It would be lovely to meet people in real life, and who knows, one day "the one". As someone said to me the other day, you have to get out there and meet people, because when you are adults, other adults do not knock on your door and ask to come out to play. I thought that was quite thought provoking! So, anyone up for a meet?