My Wife(KH) started the MC life style in the summer. I was locked for a few days, then weeks, then Locktober. Now it's 24/7. My Wife has let me cum a few times in that period, mostly when she wants me to. The T&D has been torture for me, but she loves it. Sometimes it is for a few minutes and sometimes it's a lot longer. Always ending with her saying she has had enough and just leaves me begging for a release. She also has a little laugh at the end when she see how much I am leaking pre-cum. She is fascinated with my penis and how she can control me by just denying or telling me today might be the day she allows me to cum. I don't even count the day anymore, she has me guessing what today might bring. Late November was my Birthday, she had told me that day was going to be the day...It wasn't, but I was brought to the edge many times, then she just got up, laughed and said she was done and wanted to know if I enjoyed my "gift". Well, I got what I wished for and I'm learning how to live with it...I wonder what I'll get for Christmas...Not getting my hopes up too much...
It sounds like your wife has taken naturally to make chastity. I hope you like pleasing her. I don’t know what you’re getting for Christmas, but I am getting a Mature Metal Queen’s Keep. It’s really more for my wife than for me. She wants something that is easier to keep clean and have better hygiene without having to be removed. She doesn’t want me out everyday for cleaning like has been the case with our Holy Trainer.
My Wife has been my Keyholder from the start. She loves having me under her power. She just suggests things now, and I'm there. Little hints, like the house looks a little messy, the dishes need washing or there is laundry to be done. Or her feet need rubbing, or anything else she might need.
My Wife(KH) is having a great time. But I did ask her to try this out with me. She enjoys our new relationship so much. Enjoys watching me in my cage. She is always watching how I react to different touches, how I moan & groan while being teased. And she loves the way my penis strains against the bars when she get me excited. Sometimes she will just give my balls a few licks or rubs so I will try to get hard, but she knows I can't...
I think we all know what he will be getting for Christmas......not a lot... But then..... well maybe there will just be a slim chance..... This thread is brilliant. It is so lovely to see a couple embracing the chastity lifestyle. It really is so special to see two people so in love that understand perfectly each other needs. Please keep posting an insight to your wonderful lifestyle. It really is an inspiration to all on here I'm sure.
The Love Of My Life and i had a an agreement prior to 'The Beginning"..... any changes or adjustments are done during our monthly "Naked Talks".... this is where both strip down to nothing, hold each other under the covers as close as possible face to face, and talk. You just cant lie to someone if you are naked. This is always done on the first Friday evening of the month, unless there are plans, then it is Thursday. WORKS WONDERS!!!!!
I sleep naked with my gf every night. Clothes arent allowed in bed. My rule from day one. Before chastity. We hug and kiss every night.
I think a lot of us are in a similar situation to you @Susanstoy91 your not alone. We asked for the lifestyle we now live and our Lovely Keyholder/Wife’s have given it to us. For me personally deep down inside I wouldn’t want it any other way. If my cage is never removed and I never see myself hard again or never have another orgasm my life would be perfect. I think a lot off us think the same way maybe even You. Being in Chastity for a Lovely Women Is the Perfect place to be.
This morning after 2 hours of intense teasing, my Wife got the key out to unlock me. She came over and asked if I wanted out...It was my chance to have a orgasm. I'm not sure why, but I said no...She just smiled, said "good boy" and that was it. She said she couldn't believe I had turned her offer down. I just laid there for 10 minutes trying to figure out why I turned her offer down...Yes, this is exactly the lifestyle I wanted...
You turned it down for several reasons. You understood that cumming would bring you down and you didn't want that. You wanted to remain keyed up and in tune with her. You knew you're a better more thoughtful husband this way. You know that cumming is for alpha men who only think of themselves and that you're not that way anymore.
The crashing after the orgasm is brutal, and I had never heard of such a thing, but it is so true. And I understand it now. My Wife told me later on, that a orgasm lasts for about ten seconds (give or take) but the way I feel after not having on last for ever. She told me she really likes me this way. And I agree with her. The on the edge feeling is the way to go. And I don't miss the "alpha male" feeling either...
You know, I really -liked- my orgasms. I added a zinc supplement, and ensured I was properly hydrated and was banging 'em out two a day with no drop - far from it. they were -great-! and I can see a time where I will might happily celebrate panic, sybaritic freedom again. right now, I like the connection with my Goddess (may She be forever Blessed!), and that floaty, yielded pleasure-plateau. so, for me, i'm solidly pro-orgasm - just -more- solidly pro-collaboration! : )
You were banging them out partly because of the drop, exactly so you could regain the oxytocin high and avoid the prolactin drop.
well: not so sure, frankly. I was banging them out because I've always been highly-sexual and sexualized, and they had truly become amazing extended experiences. to be clear: i'm pro-denial (heh!). but 'drop' was not one of the factors in that decision. my encounter with my kh was. : ) thanks!