I can't get the cage on :-(

Balls first (one at a time), then penis. I use baby oil gel as a lubricant.

 

So is it you can’t get it on him or he can’t get it on himself?

Putting a device on someone is tricky business. If he can’t get it on, he should probably know but just in case...
1. Base ring pull part of sack in and one ball.
2. Pull rest of sack in and then push second ball through.
3. You should now have your penis sticking out the top. Push it down and through the ring
4. Ring is now on, now just squeeze your cage down on the penis and connect it to the ring.

A little lube sometimes helps, and a dry cloth to hold and pull on sack(it gets slippery when lubed)

Good luck

 

As last when the balls are in te ring, take a litle panty foot over his penis put the foot throu the ring and tuck it throu the ring, we call it the stocking method
Succes.

 

Lotsa lube? (as in ALOT) Works for me everytime!

 

So many times with cages I was convinced it was impossible and i had just wasted money but i've gotten into every one in the end.

balls first then you have to wait for him to be limp again before putting the rest through the hoop.

i used the stocking method once on a cage i thought was impossible but now i can easily get into it. It just takes getting used to cages.

 

The ring could simply be too small. I urge you measure the ring before you take extreme measures to get it on him. One of the few truly terrifying moments in my life was immediately after working everything through a base ring that was WAY too small. I managed to, with great pain, extricate my bits but it was harrowing.

 

GoddessG

Yes, it shouldn't be impossibly tight. With lube and a flaccid penis it should be fairly straight forward to install as described- to get the ring on one testicle, then the other, possibly with feeding some scrotum skin through to make room, followed by the penis. Then feed the well lubed penis into the cage and join the pieces, make sure nothing is pinching, and lock. If erection becomes a problem you can use an ice pack, or attempt to lower stimulation with blindfolds and silence. You can also install it immediately post orgasm, but don't be surprised if he doesn't want to wear it then.

Since you're a chastity noob you should know that some chastity devices are pretty loose in their tolerances, which can make locking (and more importantly unlocking) a bit of a challenge if it has an internal lock and things aren't perfectly aligned. It may take a bit of manipulation for either the lock or unlock- you should never have to force it to get a key to turn. And I do recommend just locking and unlocking a couple of dozen times with nobody in it to test the lock and build your confidence.

 

Keep some very cold water in a bowl and flannel with you.

If he starts to gets erect you can wrap his penis up with the cold flannel. That should help soften things up a little and cause a little shrinkage.

Might make things a little easier.

 

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5a8ae9d26e36d

Gives you a good idea but I think the ring is a little tight personally

 

@GoddessG I didnt read all the responses and I know this post is almost a week old now so I hope you guys got it figured out but if not I would just google “putting on chastity device” it will certainly pull up a plethora of videos I’m sure. When I first started with my Holy Trainer device the plastic would stick to my skin not allowing it to go into the tube. I looked online and found a video for the stocking method. With steel devices I haven’t had to use a stocking because I can slip tight in, plus my cage is a “short” style so I don’t have to worry about pulling a lot through to get all the way in the tube. Good luck! I know you two will figure it out btw is your chaste boyfriend a member here yet?

 

Wow... that ring is really tight.
I use a 5 cm ring, cause the 4,5 cm ring, i have, was too tight and cut off all the bloodflow when i got excited.
The errection would not go back and everything got blue down there, until i squeezed the blood out manually.

 

Thanks for the video link. I've just received my chastity device today, and my Keyholder and I found it a major struggle to get the ring on. This video is a real eye-opener on what kind of manipulation could be expected, and maybe I even need a smaller ring!

 

i may have missed it, but i don't think anyone has mentioned this method. Cut off the foot of an old nylon stocking so as to create a small bag. Place the balls in the bag. Then, take a piece of cord - about 20cms should be enough. Tie the cord tightly round the balls (so that neither can escape). Slip one ball through the ring and then push the other one through. Remove the cord and the stocking and then slip the (flaccid) cock through the ring. But you can of course buy CDs that have a hinged ring. They are OK but the hinge might cause a bit of irritation on the scrotum.

 

can make a video?can help..i make the testicle trougt the ring,,but at this time, for excitation,penis is erect, can not make troughr ring..

 

You are going to have to learn to be a bit less excited when putting a device. For now, maybe get your testicles through, hold things in place, and then apply a little ice to your penis.

 

You shouldn’t be able to get everything through all at the same time. Things should go through one at a time. First one ball, then the other, lastly penis. If everything fits through together then the ring is way too big and it will probably end falling off of him.

 

What exactly is the problem?

I sometimes have a problem getting my balls through the ring. My scrotum can hang quite close to my body and can be somewhat tight. If it's like this I find it impossible to get the ring on. I do find however that my body changes throughout the day and things 'loosen up' and hang a bit lower. Try a different time of day.

I for one cannot get the ring on first thing on a morning. After lunch - no problem.

 

RE the A or Base ring.

One ball at a time the one that usually hangs the lowest first is usually best. A little lube is good but no so your fingers cannot attain purchase.
Pull plenty of scrotum through first to ensure
a) the tesicle has somewhere to go
and
b) that tension on the scrotum is not stopping the testicle moving through the ring

First one through pull as much scrotun through as possible and put the second one through keeping up some tension on the scrotum so that testes does notslip back through.

Then if the penis is flaccid be assured it will seem as though it can get where water can't and it will go through, once through ensure everything is through and its simply a matter of putting on the cage. Which is very easy if he has a PA also you can use loads of lube ... and others who will know better have alreay told you how to get it on his penis if he has not got a PA

Use your own judgement but if it is a bit of squeeze to get the testicles through thats not a big issue they will stand it with no harm to a small extent and if he's not used to it probably more than he'd like but the discomfort although only temporary and very short lived may help put him off asking to get out so soon.

 

thank you