I am new to the chastity world. Unfortunately for both of us, he has kept this to himself for a very long time because he was afraid to tell me. 10+ years ago we ventured into wearing rubber and going to nightclubs that were for like minded people. When I think back he has always been a little submissive and did hint at me being more dominant. I didn't feel comfortable in a dominant role. Over the years we wore less and less rubber till I lost my confidence again. My husband confessed to me that he had worn rubber on occasions that he was left in the house on his own for long periods of time. This upset me slightly, thinking I had made this happen, not being so willing. Then a couple of weeks before Christmas he sent me a picture of a chastity cock ring that he would like for Christmas. So, I ordered it and the rest is history.! We have talked endlessley about it all and I decided at 62yrs (hubby is 52)there is no time like the present. We are both very excited about it and looking forward to a future that can only benefit us both. I just need to crack the female dominance thing.