I am Goddess Jan

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    I am new to the chastity world. Unfortunately for both of us, he has kept this to himself for a very long time because he was afraid to tell me. 10+ years ago we ventured into wearing rubber and going to nightclubs that were for like minded people. When I think back he has always been a little submissive and did hint at me being more dominant. I didn't feel comfortable in a dominant role. Over the years we wore less and less rubber till I lost my confidence again. My husband confessed to me that he had worn rubber on occasions that he was left in the house on his own for long periods of time. This upset me slightly, thinking I had made this happen, not being so willing. Then a couple of weeks before Christmas he sent me a picture of a chastity cock ring that he would like for Christmas. So, I ordered it and the rest is history.! We have talked endlessley about it all and I decided at 62yrs (hubby is 52)there is no time like the present. We are both very excited about it and looking forward to a future that can only benefit us both. I just need to crack the female dominance thing.
     
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    Welcome and have fun. There are a lot of nice people here and good info. I recommend that you get verified with LUCY so that you can post on the Ladies section only
     
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    Welcome and enjoy your time here. You’ll find many ideas - some will interest you, some will not. Communicate with your husband to learn his interests and work towards what works for you and you as a couple. The chastity lifestyle can be very rewarding. The first step is acknowledging to yourself and your husband that you now hold the key and his days of unauthorized self pleasure are over.
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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    Hi, I have very recently joined and have been bowled over by how welcoming everyone is.
     
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    You guys have a great beginning. This lifestyle works well when it is enjoyed by best friends for life!
    Keep talking, be flexible, and have fun!
     
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    Welcome to the mansion.
    lots of friendly advice here if you need it.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it enjoyable and helpful.
     
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    Welcome hope you enjoy the site
     
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    Welcome. I am certain that you will enjoy the site and its members....who are an excellent resource on chastity.
     
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    Welcome and I have also found nothing but nice people here. Wait... there's a ladies only section?
     
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    Well we can see it but only our Fine Ladies May post on it. Just how they like us. To be seen but not heard
     
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    hello @Goddess Jan and welcome to here and i hope You like it here as well and i hope that somebody help You.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Hello, and thank you so much for sharing such a private and heartfelt story. I'm happy to hear that you've both decided to embrace that which I know you'll both enjoy.
     
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    A big welcome from a another newcomer to CM we played around many year's ago with chastity but faded away Wife never really picked up interest in another of my kink ideas for a new twist. We've been married 39 years I am retiring in a couple of years.

    Although ne to CM we have already found information to assist in Chastity. This time the Wife surprised me with 3 different cages to play with on this restart effort. She is still not stepped up to be key holder but she has already given me a new years resolution to research and secure an approved custom cage for extended wear periods.

    Best of luck on your new adventure
     
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    Hi,

    Welcome! I'm sure you'll find this a fascinating place to read and post about lifestyle related ideas, practices and experiences.

    If your hubby isn't a member already, you might find it helpful if he joined as well. I've tried a couple of times to get my Lovely, KeyHolding Wife to join, but so far She hasn't expressed interest. I realize that's Her decision, so I don't push it. There are several Wife/husband "teams" who post on here and I always enjoy the dynamic of communication which exists between them.

    Again, Welcome!

    ~subrick
     
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    I am always amazed at the things my KH finds for me !
     
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