I am back and needing help...(Privileges)

Not doing a long intro as technically I've been a member here for years and a long time lurker. My wife and I tried chastity in the past many years ago and whilst we were both keen it didn’t work out, I wasn't listening, pushing her limits and complicated “scoring” systems all contributed


A few months ago we talked about it again and have decided to go for it again and this time, as a result of better communication, all is going well. I have been locked for about 80 days having had two releases once after 11 days and the second 60 days later. I do all the household chores, and she controls me and the money. I have £10 to my name for emergencies. Everything else I have to ask for.


We use an app called OurPact which means she can lock my phone (just able to dial numbers) if I don't pay her enough attention etc.


She also gives me a weekly review where I get a performance score out of 10


This is where we need your help and guidance should you be kind enough to share. She is not interested in punishments (spanking, lines etc.) however as stated above she likes to revoke privileges for bad behaviour so we were thinking about a chart where depending on my weekly score I would only be allowed the privileges up to that score. Ie.


5 - No Smart Phone

4 - No Internet (laptop in house, smart TV etc)

3 - No TV remote privileges (cannot turn TV on or change the channel)

2 - No Hot Water (Cold Showers, No tea & Coffee etc)

1 - Lowest Score Possible


I.e a weekly score of 4 would mean I get hot showers, TV, Internet (Via laptop in house), but no Smartphone.


A score of 3 the following week would mean I would lose internet privileges.


We have run out of ideas for privileges.


We have smartphone, internet, tv, hot water, blanket not duvet as bedtime, orgasm for me….any other suggestions?



Many thanks