The first year we did this I kept track of days locked, numbers of orgasms for each of us. Second year too. Third year I kept a rough record. Now we’re in year four I don’t keep track anymore. This morning in bed after another time of an orgasm for my wife but not for me, didn’t even touch my penis (we’ve been doing uncaged chastity in 2020, not sure why). She brutalised my nipple (I love it), that was the attention that I got. I said to her “I think it’s been around six weeks since my last orgasm”. Her response, dripping with sarcasm was “Awww. Now go and get my coffee”. Hmm. Wouldn’t. Have. It. Any. Other. Way.
She obviously has seen that she controls what matters and your are content with pleasing her first and foremost. Your arrangement would seem to be the goal for most FLR if other women could see how well it works.
Sounds very familiar! Apart from the lack of cage, my madam won’t allow me to be without my cage even for a day, she loves the bondage aspect and me enduring the difficulties that can go with it.