Hello, lurker here with a question. I recently begun my journey on long-term chastity and had a concern. When I hug my wife tightly, I know she can feel my hard device during the hug (wearing Mature Metal's Jailbird). Hugs with other people will be only a matter of time, with family or female friends. I never really paid attention how tightly I've been hugging everyone else, but I'm worried if I hug too tightly, they'll feel something hard and either suspect I'm the one that's hard, or something's out of place. Do you have any suggestions to reduce the chance of them feeling the device? The only things I can think of is try to just hug using the upper body (won't work if they're in a tight hugging mood), or slightly rotating my body so that one leg is more forward closer to the person to be hugged so that more likely they'll hit the leg, not the device. Any responses I would be grateful to receive. Thank you.