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    I just thought I'd write an introduction for me and my goddess on chastity mansion!

    I am a 30 year old guy from nsw in Australia and I serve @GoddessMWilspoon as best I can (still got a lot of work to do.).....

    We've been together for 7 or so months and for the last 3 or so we've been slowly working towards a femdom lead relationship. Currently it's still very early days and as this lifestyle is so hectic, it's a bit of two steps forward, one step back kind of deal. I'm hoping to eventually be a perfect slave and partner to her and have us both walking forward together without the interruptions and set backs.

    I dabble in computer games, guitar, singing and I keep poultry!

    As for the both of us we dabble in chastity (but hoping to find a way to keep it going for longer so I can better serve her, again training) goddess worship (still need to more to meet her standards) boot worship, a lot of bondage and a whole heap of other things that make our life together a bit of a crazy and intense dream sometimes.

    She also likes to discipline me a couple times a week.

    She is an incredibly beautiful woman inside and out, with an outrageous streak that seriously keeps me on my toes. She's also an absolute shoe fanatic!

    Lately we've been working towards taking me further into submission and this website is a safe place for us to talk and work through things as we both adapt to a femdom lead relationship

    So hello!
     
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    #2 GoddessMWilspoon, Oct 4, 2019
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    Id like to say a more straight to the point reason of why we are here. To learn, to better ourselves and to get advice and receive support. I'll often have a different series of events as @MWilspoonsBunny, without the sparkles and cushy lighting.

    Hi all. Goddess here.

    Bunny and I have been in a monogamous relationship since early February, living in different homes but a few minutes drive away in the same town. Both have sexual and bdsm experience both online and in real life. My experience is extremely irl based, with a little online fantasy style. My partners is extremely online fantasy style based, with a little irl. This has caused a lot of conflict, disagreement and struggle in trying to find our roles in the relationship as standard, but on top of that our roles in a FDLR.

    Through mutual understanding of our interest in bdsm, I was told he needed to be properly dominated as a femdom at least once a month. I took on this consideration from him and the role of femdom in the relationship early on, even though he was still making the moves as a power bottom. Which no, I was not okay with.

    Given our histories, I have a need for actual sex regularly, preferably daily. Arguably addicted to sex. My slave has a need for masterbation regularly, if not daily. Arguably addicted to porn. This is the crux of our relationship problems.

    I have burned out through four vibrating dildos in the period of time we have been together because he wasnt satisfying my needs and habits, and he has on multiple times fucked around online because I wasn't satisfying his mental fantasy needs and habits. Big trust issues being worked through.

    We have introduced chastity as a regular occurrence, as a way for him to actually abide by his own words. However he used it and fantasised about it as a kink, and when it doesn't live up to that irl he breaks the sub vibe and it comes off. Or we will get into an unrelated argument or disagreement while he's in chastity, and it comes off. Yet we don't play at this just in the bedroom. This is a lifestyle, yet some of the obedience and respect only applies when on good terms in the bedroom. These sorts of habits I believe is due to historical sexual experience. In the past, he was able to have an online femdlom saying they owned his cock... But no real life accountability to actually be submissive on another person's terms.
    So not only is fantastical ideals present for of flr, women, sex, domination.... And even fetishes like shoes latex heels pegging etc.... But because they're only fantasy based they fall very short in real life unless he is a recipient.
    He is however making an effort to change these habits, and is participating in locktober as best he can, with as much support as I feel vulnerable/strong enough to provide.

    I know my darling is struggling on the inside at the moment, and this situation is bad for him too. Part of his sparkly cushy light side of events is that his fantastical idea is reality can often be nicer to dwell in than be facing life itself, and I do see the benefit of wanting to escape there.
    I'm personally struggling at the moment with my self esteem as a woman, as a goddess, a good fuck and as a person. It is impacting my daily life and is severely impacting my motivation to work on my home, my law studies and my want to train him. I recently posted a thread Revisiting orgasm denial & cuckolding to help vent where my mind was going.

    This may have sounded harsh as a response/intro to the Mansion, but one thing I am as a person is blunt and straightforward with my mind. So naturally I fell into the fdlr role as a Goddess.

    I am into a biological strong man, I do not find trans men/women, sissys or permanently denied cocks attractive (but no disrespect to those who do). I take on the power in our FDLR so he doesn't have to be that big strong man with me. Yet I'm finding he's still using some reserved power to undermine me when he wants what he can't have, whether that be a breks from chastity, masterbating, sex on his terms etc.

    I don't believe he wants to do this, but I do believe his subconscious is intentionally doing this behaviour from it being a long term habitual lifestyle, which I'm now trying to adapt to my requirements.

    I love this man and have all intentions of staying with him, but as this has been a lifestyle for us from day 1 (yet he complained he ONLY got dommed a couple of times the first 2 months of being together and will say its only been like this the last few months. That's because I said he needs to get his shit together as a monogamous slave a couple of months ago, and so here we are.

    Please feel free to comment publicly, follow us both and start conversations privately if you believe you can assist in furthering the direction I am trying to lead us, to make us the best people, partners, lovers and best friends to each other we can be. Please don't try to tempt or lead either of us astray, as seen above we clearly don't need the stress.

    Ps, I'm a lot nicer in person...except for when I have a paddle or whip in hand. Then I'm as cruel and bitter as I sound above. All from my love for him though ;)

    Xoxo Goddess MWilspoon
     
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    Ps I have created my own intro thread, realised my bitchy undertone in the reply may have derailed his proud happy slave intro tone, which was wrong of me to shut down.
    Same response posted here but as a separate thread.

    Happy locktober! And happy subbing!
     
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    Hello to both you of welcome to the Mansion.!!! you two have a lovely intro by the way. The mansion a great place and hope the fine people here will help both in your search of both what you want.!!! Welcome again to both of you.!!
     
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    Hey mate, great to see some more Aussies (and NSW) people. I said hi to your mistress here a few days ago, sounds like you two have a wonderfully diverse life together. This chastity is a weirdly great thing, my wife and I got into it a few years ago, and during her menopause it was great to deal with very mismatched libidos. Her drive is now back but we continue with chastity and denial, after 30 years together it’s been a nice fillip to our relationship. And now I’m a bit thrilled because I think that’s the first time I’ve ever used fillip in a sentence! All the best to both of you.
     
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    welcome to you both. I hope you enjoy your mutual explorations and both grow from the experience (albeit one of you inside a cage....) Good luck.
     
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    Welcome.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion! And than you for your wonderfully detailed intro!
     
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