How to talk about chastity without knowing it

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    That is a great article. In many ways, chastity and FLR mirror her thoughts. Sex needs to be something both the woman and the man want and for the right reasons. I'm not thinking of relationships which are about total denial but relationships where the woman controls the bedroom life. When both partners want it to happen, sex is amazing and when it is just about the love a couple shares, the intimacy is amazing.
    I believe this is a learned skill for the men and the women need to develop the confidence to make it so. This is where the chastity is good for both partners. It requires the man to be patient and learn to appreciate the intimacy. It gives the woman the confidence she needs to choose intimacy or sex. It takes the pressure off of her to just give him what he wants. She only has sex when it is right for her.
     
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    #3 Andy88, Jun 9, 2022
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    This is about empowerment to women and girls in education. The sex subject has always been one of curiosity, it is an area just like swimming, there is never completion unless practicality is held. It resembles coming of age, and peer pressure will make sure of its realisation, somehow someday. You will never know until you try it. Virginity/abstaining was so yesterday. In the haste of getting it done, an important element is missing, the consent issue, leading to violation of one’s body, one’s modesty. There is always a comfort and safety zone for both male and female. Lack of clear consent outrages that. No means no, not maybe.. or well.. or if. And the poor guy just have to wait, learns his place, earns her trust and readiness. There is always next time. Lust and sin has gotten the worst of mankind. There is no violation in the animal kingdom. Hell hath no fury like a female approached untimely.

    I would pursue further empowerment to the female, yes means yes, the shift of sexual intimacy, the initiation, the mannerism to her calling amd decision alone. Her male(s) shall be of vigilance and ready for her service at all times. This calls for abstaining, preservation and chastity of the male until his sexual performance is required. This should be the core of sex education.
     
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