How to know if the device is safe to sleep in?

Discussion in 'Difficulties with wearing a device?' started by sugarrainbow, Sep 29, 2019.

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Can I sleep in my device?

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  1. sugarrainbow
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    #1 sugarrainbow, Sep 29, 2019
    Hello. I recently bought a Cherry-Keeper (long wide version, base ring is 47mm) from Josielynn store on shapeways. I feel like the device is perfect fit: doesn't pinch, can urinate effortlessly, doesn't hurt at all even when having erection (or trying to have an erection :) ).

    However, and this is my only problem, my balls are turning purple pretty fast when I'm excited. From what I've read this is normal and as long as the erection doesn't last too long I should be fine. But what about nighttime erections? I really don't want to wake up castrated because of a long-time restricted blood flow to my balls.

    I haven't yet tried to sleep in my device, because of my mentioned fear, but I believe I wouldn't have problem with pain during night. So my main question is to people who manage to sleep with cage on: do you also experience this discoloration? Is my fear rational?

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    Normal: https://imgur.com/a/fRMOiKP (color is the same as without cage)
    Purple: https://imgur.com/a/urlUtZT (cage isn't extra tight as I can fit one finger inside)

    What do you think? I appreciate every input.
     
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    #2 tecolote, Sep 29, 2019
    I believe that pain would awaken you before you had any lasting damage.
     
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    #3 Maid Denise, Sep 29, 2019
    Night time erections are normal at first. It really means you have to go to the bathroom . Over time your body will adjust and you will wake to go to the bathroom before you start to get to hard. I think we all went through this at the beginning . So good luck and may you get a good night sleep caged .
     
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    #4 Billus, Sep 30, 2019
    The "purple" in your photo is not what I expected to see. It's just a little redder than normal. If that's as dark as they get, you're fine.
     
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    #5 sandman9355, Sep 30, 2019
    If you're in no hurry, simply try wearing it for longer and longer periods during the day. And then, if nothing bad happens, try a few days where you only take it off when you go to sleep. And then, if you're okay with porn, try spending an hour or two per day, split into several shorter intervals, enjoying the porn you like the most while wearing the device.

    If *this* test creates no problems, you will probably be okay even with attempted night-time errections.
     
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    #6 Danny15, Sep 30, 2019
    It does get easier with time . I've been trying chastity devices for 15 plus years . Only in the last year or two have I found that the burning balls caused by night time erection has calmed down . I still get it some nights but 5 out of 7 I'm normally ok . I found it worse when I was starting out as I was still turned on by being locked up in bed next to my wife . Also when I was younger I had much stronger erections . Perseverance is the key
     
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    #7 Rectrix, Sep 30, 2019
    This is different than my experience, den. Night-time erections are erections and happen without regard to bathroom stays. For me, they've never stopped.

    To the OP, you'll be fine. If it's too tight it'll definitely wake you up.
     
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    #8 jemima, Sep 30, 2019
    I had a look at your piccys but I cant see any difrent really and if thats all that happen I dont think you will be castrate. after you have sleep in a cage for a bit you will feel funny if you have not got it on and it wont hurt.
     
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    #9 Nicoftime, Sep 30, 2019
    If you can wear it all day, you can wear it all night. Any night time erections will either wake you up or more than likely just ebb away in retreat.

    That is only if you can wear it already for the same amount of time already. If you’ve never worn your cage for more than 8hours, testing the waters while your unconscious might not be a good idea. If you already know 8 hours of wearing it isn’t turning your balls cold and dark blue, you’re golden.
     
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