How to get my husband to embrace a Canasta Centric Lifestyle?

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    Just love you Jemima. Please, never change.
     
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    Oh, I see where I've gone astray... I'm not in a relationship, and never will be, so canasta has no place in my life either, I guess...

    Maybe I'll just try taping my dirty dishes to my ceiling and see how that goes?
     
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    I just dont get the relevance to chastity or FLR, is this an american thing ?
     
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    thank you very much for tell me that. i like cards and on my nite off i am in a room in a pub and i watch some Ladys play them but its not call canista its call whist knock out and i have been let to play if one of the Ladys is away or poorly and i have maked some mistakes cos i forgot sometime what the trump card is and if i play now they write it on paper for me and i am getting better at it and they have tell Mistress when she comes and fetch me to come home and She sayed i was good as well. :) so i like playing that game.
     
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    Biting sarcasm is both multi-national and multi-cultural. Oh, and it is deeply relevant to Chastity and to FLR by extension.
     
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    Knockout is a great game….and I’m so happy to hear that your Mistress lets you out for a girls night on occasion
     
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    Do tell, i'm still confused !
     
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    Sorry, I’m not going to spoil someone else’s work of art. Go read the original post again. This time don’t be so literal about what your reading. Have fun.
     
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    #35 Peter201, Oct 11, 2022
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    And also don't forget the questions:

    Will be Canasta lifestyle in the future normal world trend?

    Should Canasta be mandatory for all men?

    And also a serious problem - raising children and Canasta. How do you do it?
     
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    Has anyone got any experience with Canasta and airport security? What happens if the TSA finds out if you are into it?

    I’ll be traveling with my mother in a few weeks and my mistress said in NO way will I get a break from things.

    I’m afraid my mother will find out at the airport.
     
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    You have presented me (and others, I suspect) with a situation easily as frustrating as being caged, namely reading a hysterically funny and on point bit of satire that I can't share with anyone. If you decide to chuck the CCL I suspect you could be a wicked good keyholder! Thanks for the laughs.
     
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    Ha ha. Yes we get it.

    Men are pushy about something you have no real interest in.

    I think it’s clear how things will turn out for your husband’s Canasta addiction.
     
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    #40 Peter201, Oct 11, 2022
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    My wife and I have been married for about 3 years and I felt like our life had become dull. I talked to my wife about the idea of trying Canasta Centric Lifestyle. At first, she was really against it but then we saw this forum. I told my wife that we should investigate it. At first she was not enthusiastic at all but she agreed to read it with me. When she started to hear about how popular it was and all the benefits CCL can offer to a couple, she became more interested. This forum plus other CCL websites really helped change our thinking and open us up to the more more modern idea of "Canasta Centric Lifestyle" needless to say we decided to give it a try and we haven't looked back since.
     
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    This can bey very tricky to explain, especially during a cavity search, so be very careful about which TSA line you select at the airport. It shouldn't need to be explained, but pre-registering as a CCL couple can smooth over the TSA experience, even prevent it from happening in the first place, but can also get you added to some... Unsavory watch lists if not careful.
     
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    I saw some TSA agents playing cards while on a break once, so I think they're cool with the lifestyle.
     
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    This was gold. Reminded me of a satirical post on Ferlife where the poster wonders about why scat is frowned upon to then start a lengthy historical essay on scat evoking Ella Fitzgerald etc.
     
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    It is different in every state. For example, I think, in Las Vegas you can play poker, blackjack, etc. in public. But in some other states it is illegal and you can be in trouble with the police. And believe me, it is very difficult to explain to the police that you have Canasta Centric Lifestyle. Unfortunately, CCL is not yet a world global trend. CCL in public can be a problem in some countries of the world.
     
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    I'm also lost
     
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    Have you tried looking up the word “canasta” in the dictionary? If not, doing so will help you understand the thread.

    Other helpful words to know: metaphor, satire, comedy, etc.
     
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    A bit harsh
     
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    well i was telled that it is a card game
     
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    Perhaps. But the question has been clarified multiple times in this thread. Respect others and read the things people ALREADY took the time to answer. It gets wearisome answering—and reading—the “airport security” and “how do I get my wife involved” questions over and over again.
     
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    I understand your frustration with the same question over and over but a newbie isn't going to have read thousands of posts so I think that as a kind and generous member of the chastity community, it might be nice to suck it up, endure the repetition, and simply be kind to the next person.
     
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