Hello, Just started chastity few months ago... Wife feels 14 days is very long... I really desire 30 days on 1 or 2 days off, until she can feel more comfortable with longer times like 6 months to a year. She is afraid my already small penis may shrink too much if I am caged too long. She still wants to have intercourse, but I am pleasing her very often orally and with toys while caged. Maybe I can convince her to lessen intercourse.