How things change with time and love.

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    Got home late Saturday night after going out to dinner with 2 of our kids and a friend, but my Bride seemed like She was in the mood to play. So, I introduced Her to a card game of chance, which I had heard about recently from a friend here at the Mansion. I accompany my Bride to the casino once a month or so and i know she loves gambling and games of chance. Any outcome from this game I was going to be happy with as it is designed purely to generate some kind of interaction between us, and that is all I am most interested in. I explained to Her the rules. A black card means discipline, a heart means I can receive a blow job, a diamond means I get to masturbate for Her, and Joker means I get to make love to Her any way I desire. I also explained that She could modify the games outcomes any way She wanted, with the exception of black equaling discipline. She agreed and is looking forward to modifying the game to meet Her fancy. Already unlocked for the weekend, She shuffled the cards, cut the deck, and She turned over the top card. Wouldn't you know, it was a heart. I was excited but knew immediately that there was going to be little chance of getting a blow job for any number of reasons. She was very happy with me for how things had been going the last couple of days. Before we set our heads down on the pillow for the evening, She stimulated me with her loving touch and brought me to a complete orgasm. I thanked Her and we fell off to sleep. On Sunday she commented on how lucky I was to get that card first time out trying this game, and then went on to mention how She wants to see what I card I get next Friday, which is now only about 48 hours away. I am not only looking forward to playing the game again, but also looking forward to see what kind of creativity Miss. has when She comes up with Her own game rules.
     
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    Another weekend has passed, but not without some interesting moments. As always I stayed locked all week, but I did not get my regular Friday night release, and I certainly did not ask about it either. I knew my Bride was tired from her busy week, so it was not exactly a surprise when she left me locked Friday night. Interestingly enough though, She occasionally would mention the game during the week and say " I wonder what card your going to pull this time?" I knew the card game would be fun and of interest to her, and I was right. She made a whole big deal about how she would eventually assign a value to all 52 cards in the deck, and I just kind of nicely laughed that off, only because I know the odds of her taking the time to do that are not so good. The one thing She did made a big deal out of was the Queen of Hearts. She said that the Queen of Hearts was the most special valuable card to pull, and if I ever pulled it, I would be "Queen for the Day." Of course the odds are one in 52 and pretty well not in my favor, but I don't care about that. I had pulled a red heart the week before and expected things to go down hill from there.

    So we went about our Saturday, doing the things we needed to get done with me locked and going about our business. I washed Misses laundry, cleaned the house, and ran a few errands. We both got a break late Saturday afternoon when she told me to get the cards. She gave them a quick shuffle and prompted me to pick a card. I pulled a card as instructed but only showed it to Her. She said, 'your not gonna believe it. It was a Queen of Hearts. We were both amazed and had quite the laugh, especially after She had made such a big deal out of the how special this card would be for me if I ever pulled it from the deck.

    She immediately instructed me to take the cage off, take a shower, shave all, and wait for her in the bedroom. Needless to say, I was smiling and excited at the prospect of the possibilities that lied ahead. As soon as I was out of the shower, Miss came into the bedroom with a big smile on Her face. She pushed me on my back to the bed, spread my legs, and put my cock into her welcoming warm and wet mouth. Cumming in my Brides mouth is a major no no, but I still was in heaven with a type of stimulation that is all but gone now from my life. Miss does not like giving men oral, and I generally have resigned myself that this is no longer a part of my sex life. And for the most part, it is not. I couldn't remember the last time she put Her property in her mouth until this Saturday. She finished things with the touch of Her loving hand and I came hard. She wanted nothing in return and made it all about me. I felt a bit guilty, as it is not suppose to be about me anymore. As I started to get dressed, She pointed out how much She would have loved to fuck me, but my cock just wasn't hard or big enough for Her.

    I got dressed and relaxed a bit. By late afternoon, Miss wanted a pedi and mani, and we were off to the Spa. As Queen for the Day, as She continually pointed out, I got my usual pedicure and She got her pedicure and manicure. I asked her what color she would like on my toes, but She said no. I thought She might be ready to let everyone have a good look and laugh at my expense, but She did not approve. She did say that if my toes were going to be painted pink, She would take pleasure in doing it Herself at home. So that was that.

    We relaxed a bit after the spa. A number of hours had passed since our last excursion in the bedroom, but I know I was ready, and She was to. Off to the bedroom again where the status of my erection was met with approval. She sucked on me and teased me for a few minutes, but ultimately got what She was after, with me deep inside Her. She always cums first and today was no different. When she was done, she allowed me to orgasm in Her, and I was in heaven. Only a few minutes later, she slipped my hand between Her legs to feel Her wetness and desire. There was only one thing left for me to do, and this included cleaning up my mess while bringing her to another hard orgasm.

    She continued to call me Queen for a Day, and we laughed most every time. I assured Her the odds where all against me now and that things would surely be different in the future.

    Sunday was much more quite as we slept in a bit with the bad weather. In the evening, we enjoyed going to see a movie together. Fifty Shades Freer. Don't figure. lol...
     
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    Another week past with my Bride away Tuesday thru Friday, which is always an extra challenge, but we manage to get thru it with a happy reunion on the other side. She got home from the airport Friday afternoon but was not as tired as she sometimes is after a long trip away. This week she apparently had no plans to automatically unlock and set me free as had usually been the case on Friday nights, leaving me free for the weekend to serve her. Once again, she referred to the good old cards, suggesting that my odds of receiving any more red cards after getting several in a row was not very likely. After she did a quick shuffle, she fanned them out, prompting me to pick a card. There was no choice in the matter either, she wanted to play the card game and that was it. Out came the 8 of clubs. It was only 7:30 in the evening, but she instructed me to shave, take a shower, and wait for her in the bedroom.

    I enjoyed a shower and a steam, although it was accompanied by a strange sense of anticipation, excitement, and a funky fear of what might happen. I was naked except for my cage and waiting patiently for her to enter the room. After about an hour, she came in, instructing me to say nothing and to put a mask over my eyes, which I did. I could hear her move about the room for a few moments but had no idea what was about to happen. After several more moments, she spread my legs pushing an ample amount of lubrication into my love hole. As this had not been something she had done with any regularity in the past, I was a bit surprised and truly concerned with what was about to enter me. Her choice was a rather nice medium sized vibrating prostate massager which was so stimulating, my cage couldn't have been any tighter. Once she worked this into position, she parked herself squarely on my face, allowing herself a good thirty minute ride before cumming hard. I couldn't remember the last time my face was so wet and soaked in her juices, and it felt like the best reward I could receive, just short of the few small drips that had escaped my cage. Her satisfaction was clear as she turned the vibe off and abruptly pulled it out of me. Only then did she talk to me, saying how I was such a poor little thing, pulling a black card, and how now I would stay locked and denied for another week. Too bad.

    Ironically, she also mentioned that her initial plan was to put the Kali Bracelet on me after I was blind folded, but she couldn't find where I had stowed it and didn't want to stop and ask me at that point. I don't know if I should be grateful that she couldn't find it or feel a bit sad at missing what would have been an even more intense and demanding experience for me. I am still having a hard time believing that she was ready to try this with me but very excited knowing she is becoming more comfortable with the D's and the femdom side of things.

    Sunday evening came around, and being the gambler that she is, she wanted to play cards again. This time I drew a spade. Another bad black card.. She was in the mood to turn that into an evening of pampering and spa. First I drew her a bath, put on some nice background music, dimmed the lights, brought her a drink, shaved her legs and such, as she enjoyed herself there for some time. When she got out of the tub, I was there to hand her a towel and helped her to dry off. Before getting dressed, she lay down on the bed where I worked for about an hour on her bikini and upper leg area with the IPL machine. She always enjoys this. And it was followed with me orally servicing her to orgasm. Shortly after, she lay on her stomach and I massaged her back, shoulders and legs, which just about left her sleeping. There wasn't much left to do but clean up a bit and join her in bed, as we got off to an early nights rest.
     
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    Your a lucky guy in many ways
     
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    Thank you. I try to keep that in mind as much as possible, and need to be reminded from time to time. :rolleyes: Didn't feel as lucky yesterday digging out from yet another blizzard, and back to work today we go.
     
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    Shovelling snow and a few others I wont go into are the reasons we moved to Texas.
     
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    So, week day interaction between me and my Bride has been:love: near zero for the past few weeks as She has been away on business trips. This week it has been so nice to have her home and with me.

    Last night, as we were together in the kitchen making dinner, listening to our favorite music, She said that tonight I would get to turn a card and see what happens. The cards are such an attraction to her, and tonight would be no different. After finishing up with most of the kitchen work, I got hold of the cards and started shuffling them. She reprimanded me and said only She could shuffle the cards. I apologized and handed her the cards. She shuffled them like a FoxWoods dealer and before I knew it they were fanned out before me, awaiting my card selection. As before, I pulled a card but did not look, handing it to her first. She laughed immediately and I knew that luck was probably not on my side. A black card, 7 of spades. Very Very bad, she said. I chuckled a bit which I could not help, and She replied that I should be very very scared. Being scared did not come naturally to me as She hasn't given me a lot of reasons to be scared up to this point.

    We eventually enjoyed our dinner and started in on cleaning up. As I began to pick things up from dinner, She told me She was going to take a bath and that I should meet her in the bedroom in no more than 45 minutes. Needless to say, kitchen clean up moved right along and I reported to her within the the 45 minute time frame.

    She told me to strip totally naked and positioned me bent over the edge of the bed with my rear end up and waiting. I heard the sound of the paddle in her hand, and we counted together to 15. Thankfully, She started out light and finished hard, which normally is not how She goes. Up until now, She had only hit me very hard. It was nice to see her ability to adjust as She went along. When finished and without delay I was told to lay on my back with my hands over my head. Her mouth quickly tried to make its way to my nipples but my reflex was to move my hands and block Her from finding my nipples. This went on for a few more moments and i was wary as She had bitten me so hard the first time She tried this. I was actually scared. She told me to put my hands up and not move again or the paddle would revisit my bottom immediately.
    I complied, letting Her have her way with my nipples. She was gentler this time and inflicted just the right amount of pleasure and pain, rewarding me for my compliance.

    After a bit of having my nips nibbled and pinched, She positioned my body and face, telling me that she would try her best not to suffocate me, and that it was time for me to worship Her. She jumped on top of my face and road it for all it was worth until She finished. I thought at this point She might be done with me, but as luck would have it, She wasn't.

    I was instructed to bend back over the bed, where my behind was revisited with 15 more strokes of the paddle. Before She started, she made it clear that this was for my failure to keep my hands over my head as instructed earlier. I really didn't see that coming.

    She also wanted a full body massage, but it was getting late and She was exhausted from a full day. I promised the message would still happen tomorrow, no worries, and She gladly agreed.

    For those reading my thread, the card gambling theme is what drives things right now, because that's what she likes and wants. I hope I am not too redundant with my narratives, but it is what it is.

    I have never felt so lucky at being unlucky. (with a little help from my friends.)
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    Your adventures @JiL with a deck of cards are stimulating to say the least. You made me wet and hard. It's very exciting how your Mistress took control of the deck and what would happen. A Queen of Hearts Wow. Even when the card was black she took it easy on you with regards to discipline. Cards can be a very exciting game of chance with so many options. Thanks for Sharing
     
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    Another weekend has passed, and is most often the case, it is the only time I am unlocked if allowed to unlock at all. With my Bride, you can most always count on Her keeping me locked Monday thru Friday. This weekend I was needed to do some heavy work requiring lots of moving around, so I was allowed to unlock. Friday night I was told to draw a card from the deck and pulled a black card. Black cards for me mean either punishment, added work/service, or both. Given She was tired and I pulled a black card meant snuggling, going to sleep, and we'll see what happens in the morning.

    Saturday morning arrived and I awoke ready as usual to serve Her in any way She desired. I lay next to Her, uncaged, with an intense erection pressing against her leg. She wanted nothing to do with that and had me using my finger to stimulate her clit. While most often I am ready to put my face between her legs, I have known for a long time that She has had the simple desire for me to make her orgasm using just a finger. And honestly, after 16 years together, I had never been successful at what for many I assume is a simple process. I lay close to her with my face pressed against her large breast, my fingers playing with Her most precious womanly parts, determined to give Her what She wanted. A little coconut oil put in place, which She loves, and things were getting warmed up nicely. I was determined not to fail at this again as much as I wanted to taste her in my mouth and on my lips. Fortunately, time was not a factor. As I stimulated Her, I could feel Her excitement rise and fall. I was so tempted to bring Her to the edge and stop, but I didn't want to ruin what I had started, and wasn't sure if She would approve. So, I did not tease Her. I lay there for what ended up being a good fifteen or more minutes, lovingly stimulating Her the way She wanted, and it finally happened. She came very hard and very long. She was so pleased with me that when She was done convulsing, She flipped right over and demanded PIV until She had another orgasm.. Of course, I was tasked with having no orgasm at the same time, which was not easy, but I stayed focused and managed not to spill.

    As if that wasn't all enough, She saw my hard erection was still very much alive and longing. She didn't hesitate to reward me with another ten minutes of serious edging. I felt so full, but was only allowed to spill a few drops. She said that as soon as the precum appeared, She would stop, and the cage goes back on. Well, She was very generous and allowed me to spill a few drops each time. It was like having one orgasm after another for the whole time. As the precum began to drip from her hand She stopped, jumped out of bed, and I knew it was time to lock back up.

    This is week number two for me with no orgasm, and I am enjoying it very much. Hope you are too.:p
     
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    Another week locked 24/7 brought me to two weeks of chastity roughly by Friday night. I was hoping for some attention from my Bride on Friday night, but she was exhausted and needed rest. When we woke Saturday morning, Her first words to me did not include good morning. Instead I was told to take my cage off and get the cards. I complied giving Her the cards first, followed by my attempt to take the cage off. She watched as I unlocked. First off came the cage, but I became instantly erect, making removal of the base ring all but impossible. She watched as I struggled with this and She lay there laughing at me, telling me not to hurt myself. Off course, I wasn't going to hurt myself, but it did take some extra time and finagling to get that base ring off of my instant erection.

    After finally getting the base ring off, She had me draw a card. It was a King of Spades. She assured me that this meant nothing too good for me along with some punishment. Regardless of the card, what She wanted at that moment was what she wanted, and that was PIV for Her. As I slid into Her with excitement, I could feel and see how much pleasure She was having. I did my best to take my time with Her, and allow Her time to enjoy herself before She had her orgasm. As her muscles pulsed and pulled during Her orgasm, She took me right along with Her. I tried so hard to not let go, I really ended up with a ruined orgasm, but She didn't care what label it was given. As far as She was concerned, I came without permission, and She promised punishment.

    We both got dressed and ready for breakfast. She left the bedroom for the kitchen, and as I made up our bed, I took the paddle and crop, placed them in plain sight on the bed, not knowing for sure if this is what She would choose for me. We ended up going out for breakfast and returned several hours later. Upon our return home, it wasn't long before She commented on noticing the paddle and crop on the bed. Without hesitation, She sent me to the bedroom, made me take my clothes off, and I properly bent over for her, panties at my ankles. She started out with the crop and finished with the paddle, reminding me that I had cum without Her permission. She left me with the most bruises that I have ever seen Her leave on my behind. She began to laugh again at me about half way thru, noticing that I still had an erection in spite of the painful smacks my behind received. This prompted Her to increase the weight behind Her swings, and then She would check after every 4 or 5 whacks to see if I was loosing my arousal. She persisted with the punishment until I was completely limp for some time, which by then left my behind well bruised and battered. I thanked Her, got dressed, and we both went about work we needed to get done for the day.
    She assured me the weekend wasn't over yet and maybe She would let draw another card in the evening.
     
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    By late Saturday afternoon we had both gotten most of what we needed to do done, and I headed to the bathroom to take a shower and get ready for the evening ahead. Before going to shower, She asked me what was on my mind. I told Her that I couldn't really say, as it was rather decadent and about me. She said she wanted to know just the same, so I told Her. I was still feeling very aroused from the morning and wanted to play. What I wanted, was to receive oral pleasure, something that I essentially never get to have. She laughed at me, as usual, and said, " What, You think your queen for the day?"

    As I finished my shower and began to get dressed, She entered the room and told me to get the cards. As always, She had a big grin on Her face and was clearly amused at whatever prospect the cards were going to hold for me this time. She fanned the cards out for me, and I pulled a red diamond. With this card, She told me I could masturbate for Her. But first, She wanted more PIV, noting that my ample erection wasn't hindered this time by the base ring I couldn't get off earlier that morning. She always loves to laugh, especially if it's at me. It really does make Her happy. This time I was able to control myself, giving Her another orgasm while I stayed at attention and ready.

    As I withdrew from Her, I lay by Her side for awhile as She caught Her breath and we snuggled together. Within a few minutes, She reached down to what was now my endless erection and began to stroke me, bringing me to the edge . Of course, She knew what I wanted and even acted like She was going to go down on me, putting my cock near Her mouth, letting me feel Her breath, but then the edging would start a new once again. It was delicious torture, wanting something else so badly, but still feeling like Heaven just the same. As I became a dripped out mess, it was now obvious there would be no oral sex for me today. Eventually stopping to admire Her work, the mess She had made out of Her "dirty little boy," She then told me it was time to masturbate for Her. She made it clear, that I was to masturbate until I came. While I was happy to masturbate, I really wanted no orgasm, but followed Her instructions to completion. Leaving a mess on Her stomach, I was tasked with clean up, stealing a lick here and there, even though a towel served for the majority. The way She loves me, there could not have been a better way to start a Saturday night.
     
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    Your adventure and commitment to your Mistress make my cage so tight. I love how she takes control of you with a simple card and how it adds to the Excitment of Not knowing. I haven't had the opportunity to play a similiar card game since Easter, but look forward to when.

    I feel for you for being Punished for an unauthorized orgasm. For her to so severely punish you and than to still allow you to Masturbate for her when your backside was still tender must have really played with your mind and "Why did I do that". You have a lovely arrangement locked for the week and pleasure on weekends. Thanks for Sharing your Adventure
     
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    Yes. The cycle at this point is a bit predictable, but it is what She wants and needs, so I am "learning" to be satisfied and appreciate that. Remaining locked Monday thru Friday keeps me more focused on Her needs and helping Her get thru a demanding work week, usually with me much more happily involved. As was mentioned not to long ago, I can be intimate and emotionally available without being sexually driven. I must admit, things can seem challenging and I do get a bit frustrated at times during the week, as the T & D thing doesn't often happen. The weekend is a whole different story for me, as most here now know. It's true, it should have messed with my mind some, but I found it all to be integral to my overall enjoyment , servitude, and power exchange. For me, very exciting stuff, even on the receiving end of the stick.
     
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    My Bride, as is so often the case was gone last week Wednesday thru Friday. As always, I try to take care of everything about our home and try to have as much in order as possible before She returns. Happy as always with Her safe return, I was eager to please and serve.

    Not to much out of the ordinary, I was told to unlock Saturday morning. After Her third orgasm that morning she allowed me to have a full orgasm. The energy and time spent pleasuring Her left me feeling so relaxed, I could have easily fallen back to sleep, although we got up and started our day. She enjoyed herself so much that she commented on how that was " the way every day should start", even though we all know that is not realistically possible. Seems like we make love in a way that makes up for lost time after being apart. Sunday morning was not much different as She awoke having two more orgasms. But who's counting. lol....

    The reality is, that our commitment to each other is still evolving in a positive and mutual way. I know that for some men practicing chastity, loosing weight or giving up something like smoking can be a part of the commitment and motivation for them. But in my situation, I have been asked as the chaste partner to support my Bride in a way that has allowed Her to loose 20 pounds since Easter. She is so pleased and happy with herself, and while most of the work to get there still really lies with Her, I have done what I can to support Her. Little things like making extra daily stops at the market to get the proper foods, which of course cost a bit more, have been important. My not complaining or questioning the new foods, recipes, we eat together, has been important to. Letting Her know that I see and feel the changes in Her makes Her feel happy and lets Her know that her time and energy hasn't been wasted. We don't exercise as much as we'd like to right now because she needs to have surgery on her knee which will not happen until the end of May. But, exercising with Her when she wants to exercise has also been enjoyable for us both, and I can't wait until we can go more frequently. I love seeing the changes in Her and how it makes Her feel. The pleasure and additional confidence She exudes, I can't describe in words fully. It is wonderful to see Her becoming happier and more content with herself every day.
     
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    I love to *listen* -- I call it her music, I like to keep it playing for as long as possible.
     
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    It seems our senses, like watching, listening, and even tasting, are so much more alive and aware when they are focused on Her and making Her happy. The reference to "Her music" is so appropriate. Thanks for commenting and reading my post(s).
     
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    I love your posts you both seem like a vrry good match
     
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    So, I have not posted too much lately, as my Bride has been away for much of the last few work weeks and our time together has been a bit limited to weekends. Having children, Mothers Day is important to Her, and we celebrated by having dinner out with the kids on Saturday night. Although all but one of our children are now on their own and out of the house, amongst my Brides favorite things is to have all the kids and family together for a good time

    As is most often the case She told me to unlock Friday night, and I remained unlocked until Monday morning.. Funny thing is, She usually doesn't have a definitive plan as to what is going to happen or when it's going to happen. I have to admit, as predicable as some things might be at times, it is nice having the chance to give the cage a break after 5 or 6 days locked. So, I don't ever really argue with Her, and this weekend was no different. I took the cage off and I waited to see what might happen this weekend.

    I have noticed over the last few months that She often needs or desires less for Herself even though I am only too happy to delay my gratification in lieu of serving Her. Saturday morning She enjoyed my oral adoration, as is so often the case. In spite of my willingness to put off the pleasure of climax for myself, She skillfully took me in hand, bringing me to the edge, and pushed me right over it. And, I most always know what She wants for me as She is rather skilled at what She does, and I know that it is no mistake. I actively work at holding myself back, and then She tells me, "it's O.K., you can cum." As we lay in bed together enjoying the afterglow of morning love, She began to explain to me how over the last year She personally felt less drive and desire to have sex. Thankfully, She didn't attribute that to me, but placed the blame on the process of menopause and growing older. I tried to assure Her that there was nothing wrong and it was all a normal part of life. I am thankful that I didn't hear Her say those words to me 3 or 4 years ago because I probably would not have reacted appropriately or in a loving and supportive way. While I certainly do not want to see my Wife loose Her sexual desire and drive, at least I now try to live in a way that allows me to more lovingly accept this change and inevitable evolution of life.

    I also asked Her this weekend if She still felt any guilt for the time She keeps me locked, and She said no. I only asked that question because I realized that many woman feel guilty keeping their man locked down for any period of time, especially if they are new to the lifestyle. I was glad to hear that, as I want our FLR to exist because She enjoys it and wants it, rather than something I asked for and pushed on Her.
     
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    What an incredibly optimistic and beautiful paragraph!
     
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    Thank you for your kind words and support.
     
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    So, things seem a little off these days, as my Bride is traveling throughout Europe, She has been gone for 7 days now and I will not see Her for another 4 days.. The good news is that there is a nice new humbler waiting for Her when She gets home. Brand new out of the cardboard box. Love the ankle cuffs that attach to it as well. Seems pretty easy to use which is good. She's not into things which take a lot of time and energy to put together, so I am hoping this will be a hit with Her. Yes, She has the option to discipline me or give me some limited pleasures in it. I look forward to Her response, but I hope She will be pleased and amused. This is not something most woman will come home to after a long trip away. Her subservient dirty little boy is preparing for Her return the best He can while She enjoys Herself abroad. (Germany, France, Holland, etc..) Will keep you all posted, and that includes you to @Kristi .
     
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    Yes please do! I know my little sub @Charleston will also be eager to hear your notes on it as well.
     
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    After almost 2 weeks away traveling thru Europe, I finally had the opportunity to see and be with my lovely Bride on Monday evening. She was suffering from a serious case of jet lag, but She still made the time to stay up with me for a while. She shared with me some of the great pictures She had taken in various countries, and they were truly beautiful. After relaxing a bit and talking on the couch about the trip, She prompted me to the bedroom. We were lying close together, face to face, as we often do, while I rubbed Her back, neck, and bum. My cage was off, and it wasn't long before She realized I was more than a little happy to be next to Her again. These days, She only wants and allows me to enter Her unless I show my maximum erect potential. Otherwise, She looks at things and says, " What is this ? ", and then She laughs at me.

    She made it clear that She needed my attention and I was told to enter Her. She wasted no time getting in Her favorite position, reaching Her first climax. I worked hard to hold myself back as Her body convulsed with pleasure. Only after She calmed and settled a bit, still feeling me in Her , disciplined and at attention, She rewarded me with my own unhindered release. Of course it had been a few weeks and there was so much build up between us. Her desire continued and this had me cleaning Her up in no time. Bringing Her to climax again, our reunion complete, She quickly dosed off to a badly needed sleep.

    Tonight, I will give the package which arrived in the mail for Her while She was away. A shiny new humbler. I hope She likes it and receives it well. Have to admit, I am a bit nervous.
     
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