How old is everyone?

i'm 58
She's 70
locked since 24 years

 

Me 54, Mistress 52, Since menopause Mistress has much less interest in sex and chastity. But there are certain aspects she enjoys.

Once her motor is running she enjoys play.

Especially right now during the pandemic, there are higher priorities for her. Of course being as man, I can shove the world out of my mind when it comes to these things.

My attraction towards her never diminishes.

 

I’m 52, my Wife is 49.... she picked me up rather forcefully at the Renaissance festival where we both worked 17 years ago, we’ve been married 15.

 

Oh Doug I have the same nipple cum-buttons.

 

I am 39 an my hubby is 38 he is locked since more than 10 years by me as his Keyholder.

 

@MistressAMA and i are both in our mid-fifties. We've been playing for around 15 years, the last 5 more seriously.

It's fun to see the wide range of ages of folks in CM and in this kink in general. Makes me wish we'd started earlier, but also encouraged to know there's no real limit, either.

asa

 

BR is 50 and I am 46 we started dating when I was 15, crazy journey. I am good with disclosing, I am proud of all the imperfections age brings and I wear them like war wounds, no shame. I know we couldn't have gotten seriously into chastity or cuckolding any earlier in life as I wasn't ready. Age has changed me, given me better perspective. Still lots of life to live and yes in our case, life begins at 40

 

My wife is 55, I am 63. locked since 4 years an regretting that we didn‘t find earlier.
This is both our 2nd marriage an if we have met first, we would have started 35 years earlier.

 

You two are the power couple of the Mansion!

You two are awesome.

Iso.

 

Without words ❤️❤️

 

I'm going to be 60 next week (YIKES!!!! LOL) and my lovely Wife/KeyHolder is 58. In doing some household cleanup the other day, I stumbled upon some receipts that show I purchased my first chastity device about 25 years ago! We've dabbled with it, off & on, over the years, with my longest previous lockup (about 4 years ago) being about 3 months. But She was never completely onboard with it. This time, She is, and I don't expect a release or orgasm for quite some time.

As for the age, I've always thought that it would be a helpful guide if the age of the poster showed up in the poster's information on the left of the screen. I know over the 25 years we've been doing this, time has certainly changed our lives and mindsets. We've had 4 children in that time, she's gone through menopause, and I've developed some ED issues. The abundance & types of devices has exploded and it's quite possible to have very comfortable devices now. Things that She and I both enjoy now, like the longterm orgasm denial & lockup, generally were unheard of back in the early days. Heck, if I was locked up a week back then, it was a long time. But as I said, we both had different needs and desires back then, and finding a cage that could be worn for more than a few days consecutively was difficult....and EXPENSIVE!!!

So when I read a post here, I think it would be helpful to know the approximate age of the poster to know if they were in their 20's, 40's, 60's or more because quite frankly, I can't imagine being locked up as long as I have been this time at any previous point in my lifetime. For instance, especially with the ED, the pleasure of the teasing and denial have actually EASILY replaced the brief pleasure I would have with an orgasm. And being able to concentrate ALL of my attention on my Beautiful Wife ALL OF THE TIME is priceless. I am now always horny for Her and her touch. And as I said, she finally reached a point in her life where she really enjoys being in COMPLETE control of ANY sex that we might have, and knowing that I am completely denied from any type of sexual pleasure, unless she says so. And knowing that she can have an orgasm at any time of the day and has NO concerns about having to reciprocate.

I used to masturbate extensively way back when and I now know this had a negative effect on our relationship. She knows it too, and I believe part of her changed attitude is to help me "make up for lost time" in my daily attention to her.

Anyway, in a really verbose way, what I'm saying is that if age was an option to be listed next to "Gender", it might help some of us to give more relevant, age specific, advice. This would obviously be completely optional. And of course, I'd NEVER expect a lady to divulge her age unless she was completely willing to do so.

~subrick

 

We both are 25. He too suffers more due to high sex drive in this age.

 

32. Never knew about it until being on my own after a bunch of failed relationships-though a former person I think really would have dug it had I known and brought it up. Now I just kinda lack the confidence or drive to date anymore. Most experience has been through self and online locking, which was exciting enough at first being a new thing. But it's limitations aren't ignorable. Eh. We'll see what happens.

 

Great stories

I, too, would have probably been locked in college if it had been easy to get devices then.

 

Madam is 43 and I am 41, we have been together over 22 years and Using chastity for around 18 years, with it being full time for about 15 years and me being totally denied and cuckolded for about 6 years now.

 

Don't give up on dating. Those failed relationships are just preparing you for what is meant to be. Keep your heart open and it will happen for you.

 

It's been a lot of reflecting for sure. Once removed from the situation for some time you stop blaming and kinda see where sure it wasn't all you fault but you realize where you yourself weren't so guilt free either. Thank you! I'll get it together one of these days lol.

 

Don't worry, you'll get the best.

 

And I thought I am the youngest here..

 

We are both 61, and I've been locked for almost 4 years. I do think male chastity is easier for long-married partners, because it requires a high level of trust and understanding of each other to be optimal.

 

We are mid 40's

 

I am 49. She is 40. She loves to bust my balls and give me direct, tease me and oh does she deny me.

 

Im 59 and m'y Wife is 50.
Only in a cage since mid July.
Long way to go hoping she stays the course.
But wish we d started years ago.

 

49 (him), 51 (her).

 

I'M 68 Mistress is 60