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    My girlfriend met in university and have been dating for almost 3 years now and doing chastity play for about half that time. We’re only 21 though and while we’ve tried to go for longer periods, whenever I get past about 3 weeks I end up accidentally cumming very easily. I feel that it may be because I’m still young and have a high sex drive which led me tow if we how old are most people in this forum? Curious to know if there’s many younger people like ourselves or mostly people who got into it after marriage
     
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    I’m 30 and my gf is 31. We haven’t been together very long and chastity/femdom was a founding point of our relationship.

    We are both still pretty new to the lifestyle and learning our way around it. We were both switches leaning towards male dom and female sub before we met, but we both love the flip side of it now.

    Our longest lockup was 32 days, compared to my previous record of 14, so we are still on the shorter side of chastity length for now. But the gradual exploration and power exchange aspects are incredible. I love seeing all the little ways she is starting to truly embrace her dominance and I do my best to show her that it’s for her benefit in the long run. I’ve been trying to anticipate her needs and wants and take care of things before she asks. Just whatever I can to prove to her that my lockups are a good thing
     
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    I'm 54 and my wife just turned 50. Being kept locked for over two weeks and my likelihood to have a premature ejaculation skyrockets. I have to be very careful and she has to restrain her own attempts to increase my desire or any PIV is over very quickly.

    A few times she wanted PIV but wanted it quick and she took it as a personal challenge to see how fast she could make me cum. She can clamp fingers on my nipples (or worse teeth) and I'm just a thrusting animal with zero control. When she gets like this it is about 60 seconds of "ooh aahh, I've missed that" and then CLAMP!

    She doesn't do it to humiliate me but it is a little embarrassing and she loves to exert her control now and then. I may as well have a button labeled CUM! on my chest.

    Desire is stronger in your 20's but that is the wonder of this adventure, if you don't control your sexuality the moments you're allowed become much more precious to you.
     
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    31 & 31
     
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    old enough to be here...too old to find my way out.... 53 this month
     
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    How old am I?

    For an apricot, yes. For a head of lettuce, even more so. But for a mountain I am not even begun in years. However, for a man I am just right.

    Iso.
     
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    Just turned 60 and only 17 mos into this.
     
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    Heading up for 50 and wishing that I learned about chastity and denial at least 3 decades earlier!. It makes such better human beings...
     
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    A bit of etiquette:

    Never ask a woman her age.
     
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    .. nore Her weight..atleast my Mother told me not to. That's the only rule I can remember. Yet I have to break it every day at work.
     
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    I feel like I'm still in my twenties. We more often than not behave that way too. Then we look in the mirror.
     
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    I'm 35 she's 39.
     
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    44 but I am on testosterone replacement and have the Testosterone level of an NFL linebacker :)

    On day 26 of honor system, still waiting on my first device which has been sitting at the post office for 7 days. After the first 2 weeks, it gets WAY easier.
     
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    We are 48 & 45. Still waiting our delivery from MM.
     
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    Iam 56 and 56 but she has no interest in my chastity
     
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    Wife/KH is 42, I'm 45.
     
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    33! Wife is 30
     
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    I'm 33, my husband is 51.

    Sounds like a large age gap? Yes at first, but I have lived a very difficult and challenging life, giving me more life experience than people my age in general. And I have no friends below 40 because of that, so things are going fine between me and my husband.

    And the power balance is in my favor, exactly the opposite of the stereotypes where the younger person is naive and dominated by the elder one.
    My husband is my sub, and will stay that way.
     
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    Both 41.
    We've started this journey when we were 27 (14 years in September!!!)
     
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    I also met my college girlfriend when I was 18. She sent me a femdom story about a guy who spent a full year in chastity. I was hooked on the idea.

    The difference in our story is I didn’t have access to a workable chastity device until much later. I would have been locked before I was 21 for sure. I wish I had.

    Even now I will spontaneously cum every three weeks or so in my cage. I have no idea how often I would in my college years.

    I nearly was brave enough to get myself fitted for a full chastity belt at 22. I was going to drive to see the maker. This was before we got married after we moved in together. I worked out and got to my ideal weight to do so. In the end I was too poor and shy to live my dream. The other option was to get pierced but seemed too extreme back then. Now it’s a safe and common thing.

    I still think I would have benefited from chadtity in my college years. I had such a high sex drive that it overwhelmed my girlfriend / fiancée. I had a real porn problem

    After we got married and bought a place, mass market male chastity became available. Once our favorite vendor offered them I bought one. My CB2000 was my first workable csge.

    What didn’t work back then was my submission. I was a pushy sub and focused on the cage as play. A scene toy.

    Only later did I find it wisdom. The wisdom I wish I had earlier.

    It would have been intense for me to be locked regularly in my 20s. I’m a little jealous of you. ;) Good luck to you and your girlfriend. I’m glad to see young men here.

    Chastity is so accessible right now. It’s not surprising there’s more people getting into it early on.
     
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    LoL, @Peter Rabbit what a great story about telling us some history and not telling us your age….
     
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    I’m 55 and my wife is 50. We were swingers in our Late 20’s and early 30’s and our interest shifted to Bdsm around 15 years ago. We were a tight circle of 4 couples who enjoyed the lifestyle and 2 of us built dungeons in our homes. When we build the addition onto our home, the excavator made a mistake and dug out where the slab was to be poured because he was looking at the wrong plans. The city engineer and the builder did not feel comfortable filling it back in and pouring, so we ended up with a hidden room. We build an access panel and a swing away book case and now had a private room for our play.

    Our bdsm play with the other couples rarely involved sex, but our private session did. We all tried switching based on theme night and some sessions were more interesting than others. Over time 2 of the couples moved away as their children graduated and only the one other couple remained and she works for my wife. They are also lovers and have been for over 30 years and has never been a problem.

    Five years ago on a trip to a sex clothes shop we were shown a chastity cage by the salesgirl and for the first 2.5 years was a way to spice up our bdsm games and our sex lives. My wife also got her girl friend to purchase one for her husband and they enjoyed the game as well. Fortunately or unfortunately the came at the right time because I started blood pressure issues and the medication has impacted my ability to achieve an erection. The device helped for the first year, I would be crazed to be let out for sex and was able to get hard.

    as time went by, I need the miracle of the sildenafil and after 2 weeks caged and 50mg of med, I can pound nails again. While we do use chastity to improve our sex life, we also honor the code, my cock is hers, my orgasms are hers to control. Between my cage and her like of aspects of bdsm, I still spend a weekend a month or two in the dungeon tied, restrained, or suspended, and her with the flogger addressing my shortcomings over the last week or two.

    we do participate in Locktober and the 40 days of Lent, or whatever cycle we agree to meet, but those times she just hands me the key I am a free man to do whatever I want to and with her until I am so dated and tied I beg to be locked back up.
     
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