How often do you have sexual contact

We have sex at least once daily, usually more, occasionally less....

 

I am 33, he is 39. Chastity has not changed how often we have sex, but it has added a few new elements into it.

 

thinking back to when my mistress and I first got together we dated for three weeks before she allowed me to make love to her and after that it was like every day for God knows how long (we've been together 12 years). Before we started MC it was down to like once every three weeks do to various ongoings of life, stress, child etc... Now that I'm locked and have refocused my attention to make my mistress's life as easy as I possibly can and pamper her, I desire her like I did when we first started dating, but now even though she gives me releases quite often we've only actually had PIV sex 4 times this year so far. She says she likes driving me crazy because she knows how bad I want her. Oh and how badly I do want her

 

Once a month if im lucky. longest was 3 months. She could be your wife's long last twin from birth lol

 

on the weekends if i have been good and then i'm allow to be in Her bed and its lovley.

 

Hi with us it's less than once a month depending on my lockdown status last year I did two three month stints as a test prior to,entering an FLR relationship and again to kick it off properly. So last year maybe 6 or 7 times. This year so far once. That said we make love far more now I am locked it's just all about Miss this is up from once a month ish to about once a week the cage generally stays on though so there is no chance of PIV then. I think Miss plans to make this the staple with restricting me to 3-4 a year but that's in the future.

 

Anytime my princess needs it

 

One to three times a week we have a play session. Some touching and teasing most days. Would probably do a little more if we had more time. M likes PIV so we do that in many sessions. I'm not allowed to climax and she makes me struggle so it is not so comfortable for me.

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For us the effect was twofold. At first my Mistress was aroused with our new relations and we had sex (PIV or oral) once a week or more often. But then She got used to them and now we have sex even less than before.

 

Before chastity it was always on a Sunday evening. My wife does suffer with the menopause quite badly so when we had the big chastity chat it kind of suited her needs!
Having said that she rarely even wants me to 'play' with her. I massage and caress her most nights but now she keeps her knickers on and stops me from going to near that region!

 

I got started as a result of my wife's hysterectomy and did 4 months out of the box as she healed. We have been on and off since then but her sex drive definitely declined severely. Like another poster, I find myself locking myself up as a form of discipline and avoiding over masturbation. Although she never initiates sex anymore, she adds that she views the devices as an impediment--despite my promise that I can be showered and clean within 5 minutes of its removal. We recently found common ground: I can wear it as long as I (1) do not drink and (2) lose weight. Either way, something good comes out of it for me but I do miss the intimacy--even if it is watching her experience pleasure as I remain caged.

 

Sex used to be so normal that apart from when we made love we didn't really do anything else. Now when we are not busy my Wife can hardly keep her hands off of me! We have sex but in so many different ways that I do not miss full penetrative sex. So far this year we have made love twice and both times it was incredible. If the average keeps up I can expect this sort of sex about eight times over the course of the year. As for our new normal, the teasing and anal stimulation, that happens at least three times a week and very often more, so that will be in the hundreds by the end of the year.

Why would I ever want to go back to how things were before chastity!?

 

Well life is full of surprises!
After saying rarely my wife has had two orgasms two nights running!

 

It would depend on what you might consider is "sexual contact".
My wife dictates when and how any sexual contact takes place between us. She receives attention regularly, perhaps once or twice each week, either by me or by herself whether I'm there our not,. Whereas I receive the odd kiss or tongue to my privates every so often - perhaps once each week or so. She will let me enter her when the mood takes her, maybe once every couple of weeks, because she enjoys the feeling but full sex where I get to orgasm inside her is a rarity. That happens I would guess every 2 - 3 months. These periods are becoming longer each time and she has stated that the next time it might happen will be at the end of May (which will be over 100 days since it last happened) or even when we go away in July. She said to me only this morning when she pushed me away after I came on to her that she used to be a pushover but those days are long gone, that I'd had my years of being sexually selfish and now its her tirn. All sexual

 

I have been married for approaching 26 years and it was only when we started chastity for me that she ever had orgasms three nights in a row. And so far she has done that three times! All in the matter of a few months.

 

While it's important to keep him disciplined, I'm climbing the walls if I go 5 days without him in me. Yes, oral is good and we've tried all the toys, but they're not the same as him in me.

It's probably why I spank him often or humiliate him. Since one reason I'm using chastity is to control him masturbating and looking at porn, I've discovered I can substitute a spanking session or humiliate him to keep his hands away from there.

 

I've been separated from my wife for a long time, so no sex with her at all. My keyholder has never touched me and doesn't allow erections or masturbation, so no sex there, either. I've essentially been permanently retired from sex. It's been 16 months without PIV, and 132 days since what was probably my last cum.

 

Why don't you try making him use a numbing condom, that way, once you're done, you can lock him back up without an ejaculation for him. You can then keep him locked up for as long as you want.

 

Lover the numbing tease idea!

 

Bit of a long story. Had a long affair with a much older woman with two daughters who took my virginity. She taught me many things about treating a women well. She was buxom blond with a nice figure and she liked dressing up for me in miniskirts, stockings and heels. One day she found me trying on her lingerie and said she me wearing it. When we parted ways after many years she gave me a collection of her lingerie with stockings, bras (DD), and garters. I still wear some of them today. Many good memories.
Things got a bit complicated and I dated her daughters one after the other. Was only briefly involved with the first daughter , but I had a long relationship with the second. She had a high sex drive and we had many adventures together. They all moved away for a while and I met and married my first wife. We tried a few new things (she liked anal), but ultimately she was not very interested in being intimate. Looking for fun and interesting things to make things better I discovered crossdressing, chastity, bondage and other kinks. I dressed for her a few times and she even bought me some lingerie, but after a few years our relationship broke down and we divorced.
The daughter I was involved with moved back near to me and soon moved in. We enjoyed a lot of sex again. I introduced her to dressing. She told me she loved seeing me wearing skirts and dresses and that everyone should be free to dress as they want. We played with chastity and bondage, and after a while she wanted me to be in chastity every day, but she would always release me to play with my cock. She enjoyed watching me masturbate in public. At one point she, her best girlfriend and I enjoyed playing together, but there were misunderstandings and the relationship fell apart, and she moved away again. I'm still in touch with her girlfriend.
Then I met and married my current wife. We were sexually active at first but over time we have slowed down to only every month or two. I have introduced her to dressing and chastity and she is thankfully open-minded enough to accept and enjoy what I wear. I have panties, pantyhose, or other lingerie on every day. I have no male underwear to speak of any more. Just yesterday she told me I looked sexy in my Rago 40 panties. She has fully dressed me a couple of times and we have discussed going out en-femme together. She keeps all the keys to my cages and sometimes will ask me to lock myself up and at other times I lock myself and I have to wait for her to release me.
I am rarely allowed inside her now-a-days and only then with a thick condom. She has pegged me with a strap-on and I would like to wear it for her as I think she would enjoy it more. I am working on spending more and more time time locked up and preventing all masturbation. I want to make her cum with the strap-on while I am caged. I hope eventually she will no longer want to release me. I look forward to the day when my wife's pleasure and happiness is my only goal.

 

Sorry I meant to post this in the "How did you get here?" thread. Please ignore or delete if possible.