If you're self locked how often do you edge to relieve some of your furstration and tension. And for you caged by your wife/mistress how often does she let you edge or she edge you. And do you edge while caged or un caged. I myself perfer to be locked in my cage. So I can feel it fill my cage. I just finished my session for today. Enjoy the pictures
I'm never really "edged", though my wife/KH does like to tease me from time to time. In other words, its very rare for me to be able to relieve the frustration! (And I like it! Most of the time...)
My Wife(KH) edges me almost everyday...Sometime twice...This morning was wild...With my cage on, she rubbed and licked my balls for about 30 minutes, in that time she masturbated beside me and let me lick her fingers. She then got up and came over and released me from my cage. Said it was time for me to cum, but I had to finish it myself...Right at the tipping point I asked her if she wanted me to cum(Which I have to do if I'm about to have a orgasm)...She handed me back my cage and said "no"... She told me we might finish it this afternoon. Then with her little laugh told me maybe not until Christmas...Or the new year...I have had a hard on in my cage all morning(And leaking) thinking about this afternoon and trying not to think about the Christmas wait time...
I've come to the conclusion that solo edging is actually worse than intentionally masturbating to completion. The reason being I can and do spend significantly more time than if I were just trying to masturbate. Even if I manage to not accidentally push myself over the edge, what exactly have I accomplished? The problem isn't the orgasm. The problem is playing with yourself. If you're self locking, you shouldn't be taking yourself out to play, period. That, of course, doesn't apply if you're doing it with a partner.
I agree. Early in our FLR I promised not to cum without permission, but just switched to constant edging, 2-3x per day. Edging is only edging if you're riding the edge, and so I was spending even more time with the erection in my hands. And not spurting meant I was always keyed up, always in fantasy mode, always narcissistic. That's when I bought my first cage and asked my wife to hold the key. I do miss edging my erection, but I think I'm a better husband now.
My wife teases and takes me to the edge at least twice a day. I woke up this morning with my cock in her hand...she said "how about I get on the edge of the bed for a real tease session".
I started my morning the same way. Teased for about 1.5 hours. Ball rubbing and licking. I was so close to going over the edge, but nothing. Pre-cum like crazy, but nothing else. I was so horny I was trying to masturbate with just my balls...My Wife(KH) just sits at the edge of the bed and laughs at me. Then just leaves me laying there with my balls in my hand...Great morning...
I get edged nearly everyday. It's one of the reasons she wanted to do chastity and denial. The complete control of it.
Me too...But we lay in bed and my Wife watches T.V. and I just lay there and enjoy it...Some mornings it's 5 minutes, a little squeeze and that's it. So I take what I can get...And this morning was great...
It goes in fits and starts depending on what else is going n in our lives. On a good run I'll be edged about once a week but if we're really busy it can be two weeks or more before she wants to play with her cock.