How many times are you allowed an orgasm per month

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by ryanh, May 18, 2020.

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How many times are you allowed to orgasm per month

  1. More than 31 times (1 a day)

    4.8%
  2. 4 times (1 per week)

    16.9%
  3. Once per month

    32.5%
  4. Not at all

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  1. ryanh
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    Let’s see...
     
  2. Ma'at Rebekah
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    31-4 times a month. there is a lot of choice in between once a day and once a week. 3-4 a week when she is good.
     
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    A regular release schedule has not been established for me yet, but so far it is close to once a month. As long as I obey and provide what Mistress requires.
     
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    None, although I am allowed anal stimulation when I request it.
     
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    I was just given a ruined orgasm after 28 days. As far as orgasms go... Wife informed me only on special occasions or every few months depending on how she feels.. So... not sure if I’ll orgasm monthly again...
     
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    My wife/Mistress/KH has allowed no orgasms for me at all during my current 73-day 24/7 lockup, my longest ever. But she has gotten plenty of them herself, via my tongue and a strap-on she purchased for me to use on her. Which of course gives her very little reason to release me from my cage!
     
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    It’s seems to be getting more and more infrequent. She has been in a “lock and forget” mode for a while and with her adult daughter here it’s like having company that never leaves. She likes to watch TV until she is ready to pass out and by 11pm it’s been 2 1/2 hours since I took sleep meds so I’m really not interested in making ANY effort toward intimacy. I’m getting irritated with things and it doesn’t help that I’ve been feeling down since getting laid off. Starting to feel like I have a bossy room mate than a Mistress.
     
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    I'm not sure. It's pretty irregular, but probably about once a month.
     
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    Sorry to hear your current situation kinda sucks. Any hope of a rehire soon? My situation is just the two of us with family keeping their distance (yay!)
     
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    My sexual fulfilment is generally a matter of utter indifference to my wife with the exception of watching me try to masturbate to completion, to beat the clock. She enjoys putting limits on my orgasms. We have no schedule for these games, just whenever the mood hits her. The last time she has given me the opportunity to have an orgasm was back in January. Due to obeying a random timer I only had 6 seconds before I had to stop and lock up. So last orgasm was more than 6 monthe ago, probably closer to a year. I try not to think that far back. It's frustrating but her happiness is my main concern.
     
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    Peter Rabbit I'm her bunny

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    It’s the intimacy that’s more important than the orgasms for me. Being forgotten is the worst. We went through something like this and I really feel for you. I hope you and yours get through it. It’s a stressful time.

    No matter how you do it, it’s best when you both can become friends.

    Then the intimacy and playful can return.
    Sometimes I just need 15 seconds of mindful attention and it keeps me going through the day.
     
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    Jessica, it must really be rough to have your wings clipped.
    We have had our adult kids stay with us after moving back to town. After a week I found myself in a miserable state. I made them leave and give us a break. My wife got pissed at me but we reclaimed our home then they came back until their house was ready.
    I really like the empty nest that we have now. tomorrow is our 48th marriage anniversary. We did have a Colorado trip all planned with plane tickets, rental car, plans etc before Covid19.
    we will have one 4 yo grandson over tomorrow, but he is going back home . A lot of people are enduring extended visitors now.
    Oil business is tanked for a while. My LNG arena stock is without value.
    Best of luck.
    Viva la Ambien!
    Ss
     
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    You are correct regarding the intimacy being most important. ss
     
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    A month? I have not cum in over a year.
     
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    No set pattern. Could be 4 times in a month, or nothing. Completely varies. We are a year into it now, and the frequency is becoming less and less. More because of the state of mind it puts me in than anything.

    So far this year I've had 4 releases (2 enjoyable, 2 ruined) and on day 33 without release.
     
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    No set number of times. Whenever my wife/keyholder decides.
     
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    For me the interval is at least two weeks. I know I won't get any release within two weeks, during which the desire just builds inside me and drives me absolutely crazy. And beyond two weeks it's really up to my mistress. She sometimes reward me with an instant release if I have been good, but most often she extends it to up till 3 to 4 months just because I need extra training.
     
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    Average? I usually am given an orgasm once every month or two. I’ve had three this year and it’s the middle of May. I think I had 10 last year but I had one month with three, so that means I had a few pretty lean months.

    She doesn’t do schedules so not set amount
     
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    1 release per month,though 4 times full handjob ( Birthday,Anniversary,Christmas and After Summer Vacation) and 8 times prostate milking while caged
     
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    Happy Anniversary, @salonslave .
     
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    I had an orgasm in April
    It had been over a year since my last one
     
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    I'll gladly give whatever service is demanded of me, but I've got to admit, I'm not looking forward to this side of things - restricted/denied orgasms.
    Going to be a difficult one to get used to.
     
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    Thank you!
     
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    Same boat here, haven't had an orgasm since July 31 2018. No teasing either.
     
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