How many have gone 90 days?

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    Hello All

    It has been a while since I posted under this topic so to summarize, I went 291 days before my lovely Wife/Mistress/Keyholder allowed me out for a fabulous orgasm on our anniversary. I am now back up to 38 days and counting. Life is so busy for us right now that intimacy of any kind is in the back seat....and so, I am just plain locked up and shut down as I have come to learn women like their man when "life gets in the way"; no masturbating to porn,
     
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    I see people who mention not being able to go 90 days because the Mrs. couldnt go that long without. One of the things that I enjoy immensely is having sex to keep my lady happy, but then being denied my own orgasm and locked back up. With this arrangement, 90 days seems like childs play, right? :-D
     
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    I'm usually in for a minimum of 6 weeks at a time. My longest is about 5 1/2 months and I was suppose to go longer, but had to fly somewhere due to an emergency. She says she wants to try to go longer, but it will be a surprise when that happens. Fortunately she doesn't like to go without penetration from me for that long. However we've been talking about doing a routine, where I'm released from the belt for penetration but not allowed to cum (cock ring works well for that) and then after she gets off, I'm locked back up without an orgasm. Should be interesting.
     
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    This is pretty much my situation right now. I've been denied orgasm for the past 38 days, but we still have sex on a frequent basis. I *might* get to cum Christmas night.
     
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    One of my teachers once commented that it takes 90 days to "set a new habit" and establish a new normal... so one would think that is when acceptance finally sets in of the new lifestyle. A lot depends on the person and they keyholder dynamic!
     
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    I am currently on day 79 of a 90 day experiment, turned 120 days per the request of my KH.

    I have found that the continuous frustration has slowly changed into a vicious 10 - 15 day cycle. At the beginning, I feel this contiuous "lovesickness" toward my KH, the likes of which I have never felt before. It's painful, yet soft and poignant. As time progresses, that lovesick feeling changes to desparation and sexual need which honestly drives me crazy emotionally. My beloved wife is able to pick up on this at an amazingly intuitive pace: just before I really lose it, she does something inticing, yet subduing and the whole game resets.

    I am amazed and confounded how easily she understands what I am feeling and going thru. It's like she's studied the psychology of this game more than I have. Her answer to my inquiries are always some variation of "I just know you".

    I feel like I am being played by a virtuoso. Most of the time I love it, but there are days that my emotional roller coaster make seem like conspiracy theory. That may explain the perpetual mystery about the 90 days: How can anyone truly give an objective answer while in the thoes of such an emotional storm.
     
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    Sounds good Kazrin.

    I'm not jealous but I am envious, it appears you both have a good thing alround going on there.
     
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    Just hit 182 days today ..... slave has begged for Mistress to let him unload but to no avail. Her reply is usually, "slave hasn't earned that reward" She has ruined it twice and has allowed me inside her for a short time to allow her to feel me inside her but warned that I had better not mess inside her and has always pushed me out if she felt I was close to unloading. She has also cuckolded me a few times and when she does allow me inside she always tells me how much bigger her friends are and how she loves the feeling of being stretched and fucked deep which is something I can't do for her
     
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    I am currently locked up since January 1 for a period of 4 months.
    It's been two years since my Mistress locked me for periods of four months and will soon move to 6 months.
    At first it was very hard, but with time I got used to these long periods of cage.
    After 4 months my Mistress released me with the milking or ruined orgasm.
     
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    I'm new here,but for the begining i have to learn and to try. But by reading this together with my wife,my wifes birthday is on the 29th of february and she smiled by reading that.
     
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    Hello All.
    315 days here between orgasms for me...currently holding a status of only 2 orgasms in a span of 611 days...of course my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder cannot say the same.

    allaboutHer
     
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    Now by reading this she's very smiling at me.i think that my days of having seks will be counted,but not for her.
    After the first time I had seks with her aunt who was almost 20 years older as me as I was still virgin my foreskin hurt very much. It had never before pulled back as in a christian family we lived very closed and was never allowed to ask something.
    But at 25 I left home for my wife's aunt then.
    So we went to the urologist and soon after my foreskin and frenulum were fast gone.
    Now first she's putting me through a light flash depilation session,so if I am locked their will be no need to remove it to shave me.
     
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    With all respect... and no offense.... BUT all these people saying they've gone past xxx days, from their profile I see all CB-3000/6000's.Those are really not good devices for long term denial.
    Now when I started I also got a 3000, but I know these are not secure and not comfy for longer term. In saying that I believe when you are serious in going >90 days you should get a Piercing + a steel device. It will be much more comfortable for the male as well give more security and control to the KH.
     
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    Hello kinky6666.
    No offense taken. I am in a CB6000s with the smallest ring and adjusted down for as snug a fit possible. I could not, without injuring myself, pullout of my device as configured or needing the key if I did to get back in. Tried pulling out once long ago and as soon as I did my growing arousal "locked" me in the tube. My Wife/Mistress/Keyholder is no idiot. She has point blankly told me that if for any reason she senses I have tried to thwart my device, by getting out of it or hunting for her hidden key that I can say good-bye to our arrangement. She points out that I wanted this, but for it to be "real" the terms and conditions must be her way or no way at all...I accepted this at our "re-start" over 600 days ago and that is how it will be. We hope to upgrade some day when encumberments of children and finances are out of the way. Until then, my chastity is enforced by a serviceable device, her demands, her trust and my honesty, submissive nature and my inability to resist the fetishes which she manipulates and dangles in front of me like a carrot. If I want that all to go away and our sex life to turn stagnant and boring again I can try to circumvent my device. It is like a dog and pony show...I submit to my device and I can have all of the kink I so desire on a SHARED basis. She has become very good at using my fetishes as tools to supplement my device and delights in knowing them, teasing me about them and threatening to not allowing me to pursue them if my behavior meanders outside her guidelines. It is amazing how spending a day in pantyhose under my work clothing or her popping her pretty painted toes and soft feet into my lap can pull me into line and break down my behavior. It is different for all of us. The prospect of an air-tight device is exciting, but for us, mine combined with these other things fits our needs for now.
    allaboutHer
     
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    The longest has been 233 days so far .... which was originally supposed to be a 90 day training period. Mistress felt there was no reason to unlock slave at 90 days. She finally unlocked me and allowed me to unload.

    It has now been 126 days again and Mistress has said it will most likely be a year this time "because slave behaved so well before" She said she plans to keep me locked 100% of the time so slave can concentrate on pleasing and pleasuring her and not be worried about her cock.
     
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    Hallo,if you could withstand that,you are hard boy,BUT is it the truth because it must be very hard. I am for the reality and will see what it gives.
     
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    And if it will be possible,as mine want,i will only have about 10 cum in the rest of my life. Wouldn't i be castrated or is it a better punishment to live with a device the rest of my life. Maybe yes because i had been hard for my wife for decades.
     
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    1 week into a 90 day lockup now. My 1st of that length.
     
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    i am locked for about 8 years now,,,90 days ,well that i have done many times. i always in my belt .opened for cleaning ,shaving and creaming and thats it .
    the belt is ideal , i switch between my neosteel masterpiece T/V and the "arch" ,she alows me to do so ,as long i am wearing one !
    best regards GWENY
     
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    on day 53 atm> Every new day is the longest ive been. Im having no difficulty adjusting to the life. I dreamed of being locked by a beautiful woman for years. Now i have found one and she has not mentioned the idea of an orgasm at all. I have no intention of ever asking either, as the control she has is far more arousing to me then any orgasm. If she told me i would never have another one. I think i would be ok with that x x
     
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    well its been 6 months since my release little more thne 90 days for sure
     
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    #72 kazrin, Nov 19, 2013
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    I am going to count myself among those who have made it for 90 days. The official number of days is 89 and I was released about 15 hours into the 90th day.

    I did recover after. My keyholder noticed it instantly, saying there was a lack of passion in the backrub I was giving her after my release. There were certain chores that had become habit for me (making dinners, cleaning house on the weekends, etc) but the bliss of doing them was gone. There is a definitive change in your point of view as you go longer and longer without.

    We absolutely did NOT stop our chastity play after that 90 day stint. My wife has become a very enthusiastic keyholder. We have yet to match the duration of that experiment, but we are currently en route to doing so. She has set my date this time around to March 1st, which will be 120 days locked.
     
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    Now i am 30 days in it,and its ennoying,first time so long,just had a month try before.
     
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    I've gone longer than 90 days, but was let out for brief periods for regular cleaning and sometimes for teasing which occasionally led to ruined orgasms. Then the cage went right back on.

    The original question implied was "what was it like when it was over" and that hasn't been addressed. So I expand the question again to all: What was it like when you got a break?

    For me it was...strange. The first time it was truly a break where she wasn't checking in and I happened to have quite a bit of free-time to myself; i.e. total freedom. Not wearing the cage at first was very overstimulating. I was constantly aware of my cock with every step as it rubbed against my boxers.

    While it was stimulating, it wasn't as enjoyable as I expected and it became almost annoying. I actually craved the return of the cage if only for end of the constant distraction. But thankfully the 'constant stimulation' feeling passed.

    During the unfettered break I played tons and lost interest in the cage and serving her. She brought up the subject of the cage again and we're back on target.

    Did that answer the original question a little better?
     
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    Today is the one year mark for me. No releases. Last orgasm was August of 2012. No idea when or if I'll be released. Last time I tried to have penetrative sex, I was too small and limp to achieve entry. Not that it mattered since I could rarely last more than a minute before spurting anyway. My KH talks now and then about unlocking me, but she doesn't seem too bothered about doing so. After a year it's clear my useless little thing isn't required.
     
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