How long have you been married or together?

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    We've been married since May of 1976 and dated since late 1973.
    I bought s cheap leather leather and steel device thinking it might be fun to play with, as we were both into bondage. I was hooked, her not so much!
     
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    Congrats on the long marriage! Not something we baby boomers are known for. I met my lovely bride in April 1973 and we got married that September. I'll save you young 'uns the math...That's 47 years!
     
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    Microdick My wife has accepted the key

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    Been together 41 years, married for 33. In chastity with vanilla wife as KH 2 weeks:) yes it took along time and we are discovering and not sure where it will end! Hoping for the best.
     
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    Together for more than 16 years married since 11 years. Chastity is a part of our sexlife and relationship from the start. It was my idea but she bought me the first device in a local shop cause I was to shy and waited outside in the car.

    over the years chastity play and locked time increases from a few days to nearly permanent 24/7.
     
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    OMG......42 years :). Married... 45 years together.
     
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    It's frightening where all those years go! I love being married and kept chaste!
     
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    23 1/2 years. 6 weeks in to chastity
     
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    We have been together 26 years married for 23 with 2 great boys. Chastity came into play due to her low sex drive. We would have sex if lucky once a year. I would spend the rest of the year masturbating Which did cause some trouble between us I was able to find chastity and brought it up. I did not realise it at the time that intercourse actually caused her pain I was only thinking about myself at the time now that she is become more important I have learned multiple ways to make her happy.
     
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    I was in a previous relationship with 2 ladies and then remet my lady now through a random meeting when she was asked for some business help by my then 2 ladies.
    I had known my lady now since my childhood between ages of 10 and 16 as she was my private tutor for Korean and Japanese.
    After re meeting her at age 23 and her giving me her email I was able to begin emailing her and ultimately asked for her help to move on from the unsafe situation I was in.
    She helped all she could and it ultimately led to me going direct to her on leaving the 2 ladies this was 5 years ago now in this coming March.
    I cannot feel any more love and respect for her and owe my change of life and safety to her.
    I am her personal maid/ house girl I am not her partner and fully respect the position I hold in her household.
     
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    We have been married for 19 years. I have been cuckold for 10 years and for about 6 years. At the same time, I was raised to be a Little Baby Girl. Being closed and raising a baby girl makes it very clear to me that I am not able to satisfy a woman and it saves me from thinking about it and being grateful for my upbringing. In addition, the baby girl education helps me to see myself neither as a husband nor as a father - but as a little sissy baby.
     
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    Dated 4 years married for 39 years. Trying to find a new focus with in control of her keys.
     
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    Together 30 years this year, high school sweethearts :love::love::love:
     
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    Met wife at 18, I'm 40 now. Married for 15 years ♥️
     
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    Married over 20 yrs, femdom marriage over 10 yrs, part time chastity almost a yr
     
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    Meet on the job in 1981 married in 1985
     
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    We started dating young and married young, and have been together, for the most part, ever since. Give or take, 30 years.

    She's always had a strong effect on me, somehow bringing out my submissive side even before we were married, but the last few years have just been insane. She broke me. Completely. And now, as best as I can figure, I'm in a lifelong training program, with the goal to please her and to become the husband that she deserves. And I seem to be responding well to it.

    I would really like to get to the point where I never displease her, and always anticipate her needs and her wants, and act accordingly, without her having to even think about it. It's not about the chastity per se; that's just an incredible lever that forces my brain into the right place for her. Which I absolutely love.

    I'm still learning, but learning has never been so fun, wonderful, and rewarding. I never thought marriage could be so amazingly good (and I already thought marriage could be pretty good!)
     
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    26 years .
    I've always been fascinated by Femdom, cross-dressing and all that comes with them. My wife tolerated my cross-dressing (or rather turned a blind eye) but was never into BDSM .
    My recent fascination with chastity is horrifying her to the level of contemplating separation
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    Practicing chastity with a key holder is much more gratifying (in my humble opinion) if you know each other very well, and care deeply for each other. That typically implies that you've spent a long time together. That is certainly the case for us. We started dating 1978, and married in 1981. Next week we will celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary. We will celebrate the anniversary of my 5th year in chastity in the Fall of 2021.

    And as much as we've enjoyed the male chastity lifestyle, I don't know that we were ready for it much earlier than 5 years ago. I think you really have to have a significant level of maturity in order to fully appreciate the experience. Having said that, we both love it and have no intention of going back to the way it was before as long as we're both alive.
     
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    Met a couple months before HS graduation, married that summer, 30 year Anniversary this summer.
    We’ve both always been somewhat kinky and I guess I’d be classified as a switch, my wife always fought submission. We started playing with cages about 2 years ago, realized this is a perfect fit for both of us even though I’ve given up daily orgasms, I’m having so much fun and lust after my wife like when we were teens.
    I’m currently on my longest lockup, just hit 3 weeks, and after some talking about how this may evolve, it may become more lifestyle than play time. My beautiful Queen has become far more comfortable with being stern, it’s exciting and terrifying at the same time. I figure I dominated for decades and seeing her shine now that the tables have turned is amazing, so it pleases me to serve her and see her glowing with her power! Plus, we still have some form of sex at least once daily, it’s just now my penis may not be involved most of those days, I’m just thrilled she’s always preferred my penis to any of our toys or vibes, so she does allow a stretch and piv somewhat regularly.
     
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    Met in October, engaged in January, married in August ……25 years ago. Started chastity in January, and now locked 24/7/365. We both agree it has improved everything about our marriage. I’m still an alpha at work, but happily submissive at home. We’ve gone from vanilla to her buying my panties. Oh, I almost forgot I lost (won?) the dice game after my last ruined orgasm…..I’m now orgasm free until Nov 2022.
     
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    Over 5 years now
     
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    My Goddess and myself have been together for 22 years and married for 19.
    We've both dabbled in the kinky side for years but it's only in the last 3 months that my wife become my key holder and has really gone into the kinkier side.
     
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    We have been married now for 8 years. Been together for 10. I have had submissive feelings for years but i kept it for myself. I noticed my wife had an interest after watching the 50 shades of grey movies. From that point on we were getting a bit more kinky. We started chastity 6 months ago. So far we both love it. She loves my change of behaviour. She is number 1 now. I hope she will get even more controlling. Cant wait for that.
     
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    This is a second marriage for both of us. She lived with 2 different guys before we got together. Been together now 7 years. We are both happy and content in our cuckold, chastity, hotwife relationship.
     
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