How long does it take to not be horny?

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    I am now locked up in my Mistress Lori’s #1 escape proof chastity device. My Dom., Mother Wolfgang, has my key, and lives 35 miles away. It has only been 2 days. I must say my device is very comfortable, and I honestly think it could be worn forever.
    What is driving me totally crazy, is that my device makes me aware of what I can not do, and that is of course, not to be able to masturbate.
    I feel even hornier then I have ever felt. Please, how long will this feeling stay with me? How long did it take you, to just except your fate, and no longer have this intense craving to jerk off!!!!
     
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    It's different for everyone, the horniness never goes away which is the whole point. Usually after a couple of weeks your focus is more on pleasing your mistress versus yourself. It takes awhile to get used to it. If this is your first time in a device you may want your key back to make sure you don't have any issues in terms on long term wearability. It took me a couple of devices to find the right one, I ran into issues with edema with my Holy Trainer device. However Lori does make a top of the line device. Play it safe and you'll ease into it.
     
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    Yes indeed, this is the evil catch-22 at the heart of chastity. You are most aware of your penis when it is locked and unreachable. Horniness increases exponentially, with no source of relief.

    Welcome to your future...

    (the horniness goes away around day 61, for a couple of days. Then it comes back)
     
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    For me the first 2 weeks after an orgasm are my horniest period, after that i kind of level off. You will get to a manageable horny high after that depending on how much teasing you get. The cage will stop you from playing with her property and be a constant remind you are under someones control.
     
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    for me it was crazy the first few weeks. that tapers off a bit. but it also depends on the individual as well as the key holder. is she teasing you or just leaving you locked. if so how often
     
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    HaHa! Oh good I only have to wait 59 days!
     
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    I get cycles of excitement, then it fades away. Sometimes that’s through a wet dream or spontaneous ‘event’ and other times it just becomes lessmtheoughvwprk or other life things going on.
     
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    Well let's see. I will be turning fifty-two at the end of August and I've been on edge regarding FLR/LFA and dominant women since I was fifteen. Is that too half-empty? (Grin)
     
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    I used to say the first year is the hardest.... but now it's realistically the first month for us.... hubby was always looking at porn, he realized that staying away from that too was helping.

    Everyone is different, but I made him lock up and wait a month before the first release of any kind. Considering he was getting release every day, he was going nuts the first week but he learnt to deal with it.

    Now he's in for a month at a time, sometimes longer, rarely less. And even his "release" isn't a guarantee of any orgasm, of any kind.

    Good luck.
     
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    if you're managing to "survive" the first 500 or 600 years it might get better... :D
     
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    If you're lucky, it won't.
     
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    For me after the first 3 weeks things settle down and level out but that horny need never really goes away until Mother Wolfgang wants it to go away....lol
     
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    I found that once my body learned that it "hurt" to "get hard"....and learned that limp was the norm....i was ok
     
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    For me it never really goes away, My Love has begun to notice the difference in me and has started to edge me on a regular basis to keep me at my horniest, She notices how helpful and attentive I am when I'm denied. It's an evil pleasure we both seem to be enjoying lately.
     
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    The realization comes in waves and varies with the individual. You're still having beginners panic (which is cute for some keyholders :) Over time you will become accustomed to being confined and eventually you will feel very strange if allowed free for cleaning or shaving. If at some point you realize you won't be having intercourse again it can be traumatic and of course if it's decided you won't be masturbating again that's another psychological adjustment. The good news is your appreciation of women in general will grow beyond your wildest imagination and your appreciation for your keyholder can deepen as well if she allows.
     
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    I still look at porn. I know that has to stop.
     
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    It has been 5 days, and I think it is a little better now.
    One thing great, is My Mistress Lori’s device is as comfortable as something like this can be.
    I have been jogging 5 miles a day, trying to lose weight, and I have no problems at all.
     
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    Living 35 miles away I sense she has other sexual partner(s) available to her in which case your chastity has no down side for her. Wives often release guys for thier own needs and to maintain a sexual relationship. Your situation appear different in which case you need to get accustomed to being unable to masturbate. You may want to avoid porn it like putting food in front of a man who cant eat. 2-4 weeks your body / mind should start to become accustomed.
     
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    re: how long...

    When you no longer have a pulse.
     
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    I agree, and I'm pretty sure i got super lucky with my kh. She's really stepping into her new role.
     
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    Hello, i got the Problem that i get hornier every Day. It drives me crazy. And I dont know how to adapt to this .
     
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    I'd say it varies a little. The desire to cum does not go away though it does become not always nagging thought and not foremost in your thoughts.

    Though there are days when the need to cum is your most prevalent thought and it may last a while. Other activities can take your mind off it or some leakage without full blownm orgasm or ejaculation can literally reduce the pressure sufficiently to reduxce the need once again to desire.

    It is I think jointly the near constant desire to cum
    and the need to feel controlled that makes this thing work
     
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