How long did it take for your KH to become dominant or has he or she always been dominant?

My wife of 30+ years has become increasingly dominant since realizing how submissive my nature truly is. It started when She discovered me wearing panties and that triggered a heated exchange which, happily, developed into more open and honest communications than we ever had previously. After fully discussing each of our needs, orientations and desires, She realized the powers that She possesses over me and, little by little, has taken increasing measures of control. We both are loving it - a lot!

 

When we met my Wife/KH was the more dominate one. As the years flew by (and my profile picture attests) we ran with that as I became increasingly more submissive. She was the first ever to get me to admit my bisexual tendencies, and then has rolled with it. She has worked hard at bringing out the fem in me. Since that photo was taken she has gotten me to shave and started teaching me how to use make up. She was able to make me look almost like I could pass. The next is to get me to lose some weight as she is sure I will be able to pass as a lady. She made me post some of the pictures she took on another site and loves the fact that guys are hitting on "her little bitch".

 

Within 3 minutes baths of lock up I went and got pierced. During this time she not only not knew I was serious about this, she knew she had total control because that was when I had given her both keys. This was also a time of physical healing, during which I obviously couldn’t have any contact. When she kept receiving more and more attention from me without needing to reciprocate, I think was when she truly came into her own. Guilt of her pleasure coming first and feeling obligated to let me out often disappeared. Two weeks after piercing I caged back up and that is when my lock ups began to be longer and longer.

Anyway, this when the proverbial worm had turned.

 

well it wern very long when i meet Her and i knowed after a bit.

 

When I met my Bride some 17 years ago, she was the owner of a successful medical business with 150+ employees and needed no help in finding her direction in life. She knew how to be a leader and play a central role within an organization at the very least, both politically and socially. Since then she has grown into a very successful executive working for some of the biggest and best companies in the world. She truly works in a mans world and is often the only woman at boardroom table. When I met her all those years ago, long before I knew anything about chastity and FLR's, I told her I wanted to be with a woman who could take charge and be dominant, especially in the bedroom. She does remember me telling her that to. But, nothing ever developed along those lines until we started with chastity and our FLR. I do believe that she is somewhat naturally dominant given her lifetime experiences, but non of the real dominance we look for in a FLR was allowed to flourish or develop do to the expected gender roles life had taught her. Now in year 2 of our FLR, I still see her growing and changing, becoming stronger and not as afraid to be domineering in her own special and loving ways. I look forward to her increasing dominance and strength with time and my continued support and encouragement.

 

It's taken my wife many years. She's been spanking me for over 25years, this was when she started taking more control and she has grown from their. I've also learned that you can't force someone to do something they don't want to you can show them the benefits of you being submissive but you can't force her. Perfection takes time like a fine bottle of Scotch, which has become her drink of chose

 

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