I am sure I won’t get any responses, maybe just criticizing posts. Why are “You” into chastity and kink? Therapy help me understand and exposed that I was 7 and touched and fondled. Life went on as I got into relationships I was mentally fucked with time and time again. Would go back for more abuse from the gf, while friends looked on in shock. 1. Molested 2. Followed by abusive relationships Do most people have some experience like this or is it just a unrealized enjoyment, which you live now? “Click”
Nothing like that for me. I just stumbled into a genre on pornhub and thought it was horny as hell. Wife wasn't up for it initially but after asking her to give it a try a few times over a couple of years she agreed to. We only do it for a couple of months at a time. She tends to be the one to initiate it.
It actually started with me just buying a device to try out after doing heavy research. It turned out I was really into it. And over time I went from just wearing a device to wearing my first pair of panties. My gf at the time bought them for me, and I still have the pair. From then on I evolved into a full-time sissy and haven't looked back ever since. (There was a lot of trial and error with chastity devices. It didn't go as smoothly as I explained it.. lots and lots of errors...)
No abuse or anything here either. I always liked the idea of being bound and always liked the idea of restricting erections but never had a way to do it. When I saw my first CB6000 I had to try it. I loved the way it made me feel. The wife wasn’t into it the first time so I self locked, but not for long with that model. It rubbed me raw. Ten years or so later and many models later, I now I have a very comfortable steel cage and am 24/7 and the wife is much more involved and holds my key. I’m a very happy boy!
No abuse or anything here either. I always liked the idea of being bound and always liked the idea of restricting erections but never had a way to do it. When I saw my first CB6000 I had to try it. I loved the way it made me feel. The wife wasn’t into it the first time so I self locked, but not for long with that model. It rubbed me raw. Ten years or so later and many models later, I now I have a very comfortable steel cage and am 24/7 and the wife is much more involved and holds my key. I’m a very happy boy!
Like others, I had seen some porn that was interesting but never acted on it. Was watching a documentary/reality show (with my girlfriend) on building sex rooms and that opened up a lot of kind discussion. We go days at a time where we don't see each other. During one of our "apart" times, I suggested a cage to keep me from masturbating. She had never heard of/seen a cage, but was intrigued. Now she's totally into it. Unclear how strict she'll be. It had been the honor system for me, but for Locktober I relinquished my key. It's somewhere hidden in my house.
Interesting. I was originally dared to wear a cage by some people I met in a chat room. But I just thought maybe the reason I was more open to it, was the being fondled as a kid. Thanks for your responses, I appreciate it.
I feel I was born with an attraction to kink, but it wasn't until reading "real life" letters in Penthouse Forum in the 1970s that I realized what kink was and what kind enthused me. As for chastity, it was a prodomme who successfully introduced me to orgasm control in the early 2000s. That progressed to chastity and orgasm denial....and here we are!
It started for us because Mr Aussiecple had/has a masturbation problem....he can't keep his hand off it Whilst he is not locked 24/7, he does spend considerable time locked to keep his bloody hand off it
laid in our marital bed with her long term lover my wife presented me with a cage and asked me to put it on, then bring the key to her. He provided it she asked me to wear it. She said it looked nice as i stood there wearing it and womens knickers. Like the knickers she chose that i would wear this device away from the bedroom too. He liked it too as he said later as it gave him exclusivity as her lover.
It began because I could no longer control my masturbation habit and I wanted an intimate relationship with my wife again after living for many years in a sexless marriage.
It has begun with.me because i enjoy the idea of restraint and love the feel.of the cage on my cock My wife was not too keen , initially she didnt want anything to do with my cage. Recently upgraded to a steel one that suprisingly she appears to"like". I am now wearing it more and more. Early days but today she asked what was she supposed to do? I gave her the options, nothing; tease but deny; tease and let me come etc. She.opted to tease, decage, lick my knob and wank.me off. A great step forwards. Now recaged. Absolutely heaven
The idea of chastity started as a fetish for me after seeing it in some porn. I purchased several cheep cages which provided some amusement, but were not built for long term wear. I eventually found the CB-X system and liked the interchangeability of the parts. Started with a 6000s and would wear it for a few days at a time, typically over the weekend. My wife had nothing to do with it. Her act of being a keyholder was to place the key in her vanity drawer. Sometimes she would tease me, but it was never something she got into. This current attempt of being locked is different. My wife and I spoke about my desires to be locked, the reasons behind it, and what I hoped she would embrace about the lifestyle. We researched FLR’s, established rules, and she agreed to be a keyholder in more of the true sense of the term. I purchased smaller CB-X cages to find a ring / cage combination that will work for long term wear. Since I only started my second week of 24hr wear, we are very new to serious chastity.