How high is your sex drive?

I've never thought of it as being particularly high. Although I do think it is a factor in my interest in chastity. It will be interesting to see further input on this and results after a while.

 

After a month with no O (3 weeks in solitary confinement) the drive still feels about the same I guess. With the cage on I’m usually woken up twice during the night with a raging erection- or as someone here posted, an intrection. Sometimes feels like it’s gonna come out my bottom. Pre chastity would’ve had me masturbating the first one away so I could get a good nights sleep.
Now without that release the second ones becoming pretty regular. During the day there are still a few trigger moments but they’re easier to overcome

 

High, and it always has been. I've thought about sex many times per day since I first knew what it was. Every woman I see is a reminder. I masturbated 5-10 times (or more) per week my whole life, until I got the cage, and noe he just throbs a lot. Earlier in my marriage my wife thought my drive was low, but it was the combination of my masturbation habit and my submissiveness that was just waiting for her to initiate things. If she took the cage off I'd masturbate. I think I'll go look at porn.

 

Mine fluctuates a lot due to work stress and medication. When it's high, it's really high, and those are the times I most want to be locked up.

 

Very high. Always has been since I was a teen. Chastity and a FLR helps channel that energy, not just towards serving my wonderful wife, but in being a better husband.

 

Same as Happilymarriednerd

very high drive always have been.

 

My sex drive? Before I was locked I would need to jerk off 2 or 3 times a day to "get it out of my system".

 

It was in comparison to what i've heard from or about others very much higher than most when I was in my late teens to early thirties. On reflection a tendency to be higher still whilst not working or on holiday and even at weekends, as you'd expect really.

When I was a mature student at Uni and working 5-6 days a week from 18:00 togetting home, if I went home, anytime in the not so early hours, I think my sex drive went on vacation.

I found since then and my ex wife and I's mutual discovery of male chastity it returned to apparently being much he same as other people's was whilst being locked and denied; it is of course impossible to draw accurate conclusions but needless to say there is a considerable, unpleasent and unwelcome, droppig off of desire post Drop.

I have considered that it is whilst being denied one's sex drive can return to that of your youth (but realistically in your imagination only) but this apparent enhanced libido is perhaps one of the driving forces for wanting to do TTTWD.

lets face it for some us being denied and being horny at the same time and most of the time just feels damn good.

 

I'm betting she's much happier with your attentiveness now. Congratulations!

 

I would say mine is on the high side I know it I had the key I would get myself off at least once a week if not every day

 

Well, I think we need to qualify our answers by age. Since I've gotten older, my drive has lessened but even in my mid-50's I can masturbate 3-5 times a week. I am regularly sexually intrigued and feel sexual towards my wife many times a day. On the other hand, I have gone many days where I did not have any sexual drive, usually due to stress, work, etc.

The other problem is that it is hard to define the median in the male population, even after accounting for age as people don't really talk about it much and when they do, it's hard to know if they are being honest...at least in person.

Anyway, I would think my sex drive is average but who knows?

 

Being teased and denied orgasms multiple times a day, has the effect of increasing my sex drive to the point of not being able to take it, but not wanting to ever give it up. My orgasms are so close, yet so far away. I love the feeling.

 

Joey Love,
When you say “solitary confinement”, do you mean that you were bodily imprisoned with no human contact, or do you mean it in some metaphorical way?
Please elaborate as I find this sort of bdsm play to be quite intriguing. My wife likes this for me as well, but nowhere even approaching 3 weeks.

 

I would say both of us are on the high side. I did really start it for the attraction.
To me it was an act of love and has developed into a new way of life. I don't
really know the real how or why. All I know is serving Her is at my utmost. I
think it always was, but never made it into the the sex area. She has all of
me. The sex drive hasn't changed. Sex has increased, I just don't get to orgasm.

 

Sorry just metaphorical- just the cock cage
Does your solitary have you in a room or cage

 

Sometimes in the upstairs room with the hatch door locked. It is quite a helpless feeling to be up there all alone. There is a double window, one part of which has an air conditioner in it and the other window has security bars and overlooks the roof of our carport.
This room was used by each of our children at one time or another. Back then it had a latch from the inside to keep pesky siblings out. Now it has a simple hasp on the underside at the top of the stairs.

 

Used to be higher when I was younger, declining over the passing years, but still on the high side

 

Really high for me. Like sex three times a day before this whole KH thing. That’s why our chastity play is short term. 48 hours for me is like an eternity.

 

The main reason my goddess and I do this is because it keeps my sex drive high. Before we would have sex a few times a week, sometimes more or less depending on an lot of factors, but without having an orgasm for long periods my desire for sex and pleasing her is through the roof. She just has to click her fingers and I’m ready to go. My sex drive was probably pretty average before we started this but now sex is on my mind constantly.

 

Exactly.

 

Is that to be used only as a punishment

 

The result of my chastity certainly keeps my sex drive high but the reason for locking up was to keep that energy focused on my wife
Going back quite some time now my masturbatingvwas becoming more and more frequent to the point of daily to 2 or 3 times occasionally. Of course after the release my attention would not be focused on my wife so I started edging. I could do that all day long but now no chores would get done and the wife would come home to a house sometimes in disarray
(I work the midnight shift) Now I was horny for her but she was angry with me for not doing what was expected of me. Chastity is helping me find the right balance

 

Very low in this specific moment. Top 1% high 3 years ago.

For me the sex drive is fluctuating but it has to do with curbing maturation. I had the PA 3.5 weeks ago and have yet to play with my unlocked Penis.

I get relapses though in which all I think about is sex and in those relapses I also cheat, hence the PA for more security.

 

Permanent relied is on the way.